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I saw this on another forum and the piece was entitled "Women Aren't Attracted To Men"

Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself.A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.As a man, I fall in love with how a woman is physically. I fall in love with simple parts of a woman. Like the way her hair falls around her face, the line of her neck, her shoulders. They way her ears might peek from her hair. Her eyelashes. The size and shape of her hands, her fingernails. The way she walks, the way she looks when she is tired or annoyed, the sound she makes when she sneezes, coughs, or cries. The way she sits in a chair. The way she breathes while experiencing different emotions. The way her lips move. A million little things.Sure, a huge part of my attraction is mental, but the powerful seed of love that builds within me and crystallizes is based greatly on visual things that set off torrents of emotion and need.It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves. Their estimates of worth are based on other peoples' estimates of worth. They don't really find an object beautiful on their own. The object becomes beautiful when other people let her know that it is beautiful.
What you think? Aspects of it are very real to life.
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Certain parts are very true.However.

It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves.
Sounds like someone who got burned.
Their estimates of worth are based on other peoples' estimates of worth. They don't really find an object beautiful on their own. The object becomes beautiful when other people let her know that it is beautiful.
That sounds clever but its incredibly obvious. Something doesn't become desireable (or attractive) until it becomes very hard to get - challenging. Its a simple fact of life. It also works both ways, not just with women, but with men as well. Every man wants a woman that shares common features that every other man does.The rest I have opinions on but I cant be bothered to break it all down.In all I disagree with the philosophy of what hes saying.
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be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.
rubbishit is a load of bollox, some stupid insecure, crack pot, neek who is justifying why he cant find the "right" girl, by slandering an entire gender
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Certain parts are very true.However.
It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves.
Sounds like someone who got burned.
SO WHATdoes that make the info less credible and not true because he has been burnedpisses me off when people point sh*t out like this like it makes a difference to what is fact.
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Certain parts are very true.However.
It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves.
Sounds like someone who got burned.
SO WHATdoes that make the info less credible and not true because he has been burnedpisses me off when people point sh*t out like this like it makes a difference to what is fact.
Maybe you wanna read the rest of my post before wetting yourself.And of course it f*cking makes the info less credible if its come from a bias sourced. Same way women who get burned by men say "All men are pigs".Jesus christ.Jam your hype and think before you type.
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it doesnt change a thing hurt or not and girls are right all men are dogssome are just better trained than others dont be one of them guys that get told statements like that to make ya self feel better its real talk.be hurt and saying this = SPEAKING FOR EXPERIENCEif he said EXACTLY what someone that wasnt hurt believes you would say what exactly?

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it doesnt change a thing hurt or not and girls are right all men are dogssome are just better trained than others dont be one of them guys that get told statements like that to make ya self feel better its real talk.be hurt and saying this = SPEAKING FOR EXPERIENCEif he said EXACTLY what someone that wasnt hurt believes you would say what exactly?
Thats not true.Generalisations made about an entire group of people based on bad experiences with one does not qualify as real talk.
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man is speaking from a mostly scientific perspective,for instance womens brains dont even have a polarized sexuality,there just open to suggestion,why its best to keep them in cages if its a relationship thing.but dont listen to social hes just a burnt neak,not a real talk centurion or anything of that ilkeither way u dont see me going down the gym anytime soon

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I saw this on another forum and the piece was entitled "Women Aren't Attracted To Men"
Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself.A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.As a man, I fall in love with how a woman is physically. I fall in love with simple parts of a woman. Like the way her hair falls around her face, the line of her neck, her shoulders. They way her ears might peek from her hair. Her eyelashes. The size and shape of her hands, her fingernails. The way she walks, the way she looks when she is tired or annoyed, the sound she makes when she sneezes, coughs, or cries. The way she sits in a chair. The way she breathes while experiencing different emotions. The way her lips move. A million little things.Sure, a huge part of my attraction is mental, but the powerful seed of love that builds within me and crystallizes is based greatly on visual things that set off torrents of emotion and need.It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves. Their estimates of worth are based on other peoples' estimates of worth. They don't really find an object beautiful on their own. The object becomes beautiful when other people let her know that it is beautiful.
What you think? Aspects of it are very real to life.
lol@ all that, come like a maxwell track, which is over in 3:45 seconds, or in real life..2 weeks max. then what. lol@ spending the rest of your life gawking at you woman's fingernails. he makes some good points but sounds like a marriage counsellor who hasnt married, or his wife left him
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lol@ all that, come like a maxwell track, which is over in 3:45 seconds, or in real life..2 weeks max. then what. lol@ spending the rest of your life gawking at you woman's fingernails. he makes some good points but sounds like a marriage counsellor who hasnt married, or his wife left him
true,my man cud of put things better,but then again who couldntby way of example look at how most women wont even consider it cheating if they sleep with a celebrity,or wont even include celebritys in there list of how many partners they had,come like holiday flings.maybe its because they see them as the modern day equivalent of gods,wen in actual fact they are just normal people,but the status will have yr girl doing a ting with john mcririck or bill bailey,they will say he had an aura that was intense or some next thing,its like mike jones has told you already-'back then hoes did not want me,now i am hot they are all on me' or similar.real talk but men and women think diffrent ways,no point being disappointed they dont think like men,thats like women complaining that men find visual pornography to be a turn on whereas women mite prefer to read some sleazy novel.the brains and bodies are completely diffrent,built for diffrent purposes,responsive to diffrent stimuli.my complaint is that women try to be men all the time now,but they aint really built like that,they aint fooling this reader anywaybut then i cant hardly blame women individually for following the general consensus,its like my boy jc said, 'they know not what they do' biggrin.gif
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it doesnt change a thing hurt or not and girls are right all men are dogssome are just better trained than others dont be one of them guys that get told statements like that to make ya self feel better its real talk.be hurt and saying this = SPEAKING FOR EXPERIENCEif he said EXACTLY what someone that wasnt hurt believes you would say what exactly?
Thats not true.Generalisations made about an entire group of people based on bad experiences with one does not qualify as real talk.
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I saw this on another forum and the piece was entitled "Women Aren't Attracted To Men"
Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself.A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.As a man, I fall in love with how a woman is physically. I fall in love with simple parts of a woman. Like the way her hair falls around her face, the line of her neck, her shoulders. They way her ears might peek from her hair. Her eyelashes. The size and shape of her hands, her fingernails. The way she walks, the way she looks when she is tired or annoyed, the sound she makes when she sneezes, coughs, or cries. The way she sits in a chair. The way she breathes while experiencing different emotions. The way her lips move. A million little things.Sure, a huge part of my attraction is mental, but the powerful seed of love that builds within me and crystallizes is based greatly on visual things that set off torrents of emotion and need.It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves. Their estimates of worth are based on other peoples' estimates of worth. They don't really find an object beautiful on their own. The object becomes beautiful when other people let her know that it is beautiful.
What you think? Aspects of it are very real to life.
Id say thats kinda real talk still.It apllies to some women more than others but it applies to all women in SOME shape or form.I have a friend who is blatantly pretty, Ive seen women scream when he walks past, no joke.Now he gets girls like no1 business but when mature girls finally get to know him, clock what he's on they find him less attractive and nearly all of them end up ditching him.Dont wana go to deep into it but the letter 1 girl wrote to him kinda explains what this man is saying but from a female point of view.You just have to look at Jay Z, so many girls used to call this man ugly on a daily basis, since he locked the rap game off and got with Beyonce alot more women now look at this man like a God.
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Certain parts are very true.However.
It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves.
Sounds like someone who got burned.
SO WHATdoes that make the info less credible and not true because he has been burnedpisses me off when people point sh*t out like this like it makes a difference to what is fact.
means his opinion is biased, and is also not fact however i do agree with alot of points made.
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I saw this on another forum and the piece was entitled "Women Aren't Attracted To Men"
Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself.A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.As a man, I fall in love with how a woman is physically. I fall in love with simple parts of a woman. Like the way her hair falls around her face, the line of her neck, her shoulders. They way her ears might peek from her hair. Her eyelashes. The size and shape of her hands, her fingernails. The way she walks, the way she looks when she is tired or annoyed, the sound she makes when she sneezes, coughs, or cries. The way she sits in a chair. The way she breathes while experiencing different emotions. The way her lips move. A million little things.Sure, a huge part of my attraction is mental, but the powerful seed of love that builds within me and crystallizes is based greatly on visual things that set off torrents of emotion and need.It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves. Their estimates of worth are based on other peoples' estimates of worth. They don't really find an object beautiful on their own. The object becomes beautiful when other people let her know that it is beautiful.
What you think? Aspects of it are very real to life.
Id say thats kinda real talk still.It apllies to some women more than others but it applies to all women in SOME shape or form.I have a friend who is blatantly pretty, Ive seen women scream when he walks past, no joke.Now he gets girls like no1 business but when mature girls finally get to know him, clock what he's on they find him less attractive and nearly all of them end up ditching him.Dont wana go to deep into it but the letter 1 girl wrote to him kinda explains what this man is saying but from a female point of view.You just have to look at Jay Z, so many girls used to call this man ugly on a daily basis, since he locked the rap game off and got with Beyonce alot more women now look at this man like a God.
i dont get that, how does that justifiy this guy's writing? good looks get you first choice, but that alone wont hold it's ground with most women, and espeically the mature women you mention. i dare say snoop has more female fans than jay z, and thats a married man wid kids, who isnt no Mr rap city either, and isnt it the same for men? why are women like vivica fox and naomi campbell still roasting?
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