I Just Told Her...

[The Somalian]

Boy even though I dont know your mum I am sure she has gone to confide in someoneI would personally go out for a while because i doubt she will come back alone if she is a christian who goes church every week because having other people getting involved is just a head acheleave her a note saying your just going out reflecting your thoughtsalot has gone down today and space and time for reflection is always the best remedy

[CAMECHI89]

Boy... I just wana thank everyone who had a positive response to this topic init.But what im wandering now is if I should talk to her when she gets back or just stay clean outof her way till she talks to me?Obviously I will greet her when she comes in and that, but im just thinking should I bring up the religion thing again?

talk to her in the morninggo out and jam for a bitshe just needs time to thinkalso, expect a call from your aunty aswell lol, she will be more understandin...

I was thinking about this aswell but its more likely that my older sister is gna call me.My older bro knows already and hes cool about it. He told me he just hopes I made the right choice. SimpleI duno why so many ppl are judgmental on issues like this but yet still ppl follow their friends in otheractivities.Take 001 for example. I joke

[JLovely]

Let her know your open to talk about it.

[JGGB]

I can't even really offer any help cos my Mum said if I convert to Islam she's disowning me.Damn, my wife may have to convert to Christianity and upset her family/ get honour killed

[Barney Stinson]

If you aint been kicked out by next week you dont need to worry much tbh.

[Kim]

machine u a ahki now too

is he f*ck

[FreeMason]

Allow being a religionJust go by what you feel

[Guest LOGers]

I admire your hunger for God. Wish I had that feeling you have. Its so comforting.

[Kim]

i swear most black people worship god like he's in the sky today,,,,dnt exist like santa

[CAMECHI89]

I admire your hunger for God. Wish I had that feeling you have. Its so comforting.

If you believe in God then the hunger IS THERE.You just gotta implement what God wants more into your life. Dont be lazy, do it as soon as. You neverknow when your time will be up. Its as simple as just doing good deeds.

[Shawn_Carter]

Boy... I just wana thank everyone who had a positive response to this topic init.But what im wandering now is if I should talk to her when she gets back or just stay clean outof her way till she talks to me?Obviously I will greet her when she comes in and that, but im just thinking should I bring up the religion thing again?

seriouslyYou need to tell her that its all the same god and that Islam suits your needs more than christianity. Also tell her that its the first time in your life you feel at peace with yourself and just tell her how you feel.Next I would tell her the similarties between Islam and Christianity, talk about Jesus being a nabi u lah and the only difference is mohammed is seen as the last and most infulential prophet.I would say talk to her STRAIGHT away and let her breathe for a few days and mention it again and say how much you love her and that her crying really effected you

what i saidgood advicebut, the way she's gonna see it is if you feel to worship God, why not become a priest if you feel so seriously, why convert?

[Guest Wavy Davy]

parredMy mum spudded me wen i told her i was a satanistSaid its a gd thing i went 2 catholic nursery school n asked me 2 explain what it wasThen i burnt her a few cds n blazed them in her whip wen she drove me 2 her officeMy mum >>>>>> all of urs

[Guest LOGers]

AlterEgo its the way i know what to do, its just doing it. Like if i put myself in the centre of His will i know life would be better for me. I have no doubt that He is real, what i want is to be able to fellowship with Him on that one to one level.I always used to wonder whether Muslims really had personal relationship with God, then my friend broke it down to me that behind the rigidity was an actual relationship.

[JLovely]

parredMy mum spudded me wen i told her i was a satanistSaid its a gd thing i went 2 catholic nursery school n asked me 2 explain what it wasThen i burnt her a few cds n blazed them in her whip wen she drove me 2 her officeMy mum >>>>>> all of urs

Explain what being a satanist consists of please...whats your beliefs etc etc.

[Taurus]

i dont know why your mums making a big deal out of it tbhprobably coz she got brainwashed by the media aswell coz you know how they portray every muslim as bad and go on like they are all extremistsgive it time she will get over itbut what was the reason for you to convert to Islam? if its coz you wanna change for the better, you need to show her that still then she will get over it quick time

[Guest WAVE MACHINE]

i dont know why your mums making a big deal out of it tbhprobably coz she got brainwashed by the media aswell coz you know how they portray every muslim as bad and go on like they are all extremistsgive it time she will get over itbut what was the reason for you to convert to Islam? if its coz you wanna change for the better, you need to show her that still then she will get over it quick time

trust

[The Somalian]

if anyone has read the sun, daily mail etc for the past 7 years you would of realised how they have turnt many people against islam, media is a powerfull tool (evening standard and what they did to ken livingstone springs to mind also)

[CAMECHI89]

AlterEgo its the way i know what to do, its just doing it. Like if i put myself in the centre of His will i know life would be better for me. I have no doubt that He is real, what i want is to be able to fellowship with Him on that one to one level.I always used to wonder whether Muslims really had personal relationship with God, then my friend broke it down to me that behind the rigidity was an actual relationship.

Yeah I hear you still.When you follow Gods will, in my eyes you become free. Free from all this manipulation.By manipulation I mean all the materialistic things some bredda's live their life for like cars watches and all thatcrap there.

[CAMECHI89]

i dont know why your mums making a big deal out of it tbhprobably coz she got brainwashed by the media aswell coz you know how they portray every muslim as bad and go on like they are all extremistsgive it time she will get over itbut what was the reason for you to convert to Islam? if its coz you wanna change for the better, you need to show her that still then she will get over it quick time

Yeah I think it is a bit of brainwashing combined with her truly believing Christianity is the only waycombined with loyalty. lol

[Em Dott]

I tend to find that older generations ie. parents, aunts/uncles, etc tend to be very close minded and stubborn when religion is concerned. Your mum is being stubborn with all due respect. You're grown, she doesn't have to accept it but what can she do. As long as you are good to her and live a good life she will have to acknowledge it and continue loving you.I try to avoid discussing religion and God with the older generation as they tend to act funny ith me after and I'm a very respectful person and don't like offending or feeling like I'm disrepsecting my friend's parents/family.

[Guest Wavy Davy]

parredMy mum spudded me wen i told her i was a satanistSaid its a gd thing i went 2 catholic nursery school n asked me 2 explain what it wasThen i burnt her a few cds n blazed them in her whip wen she drove me 2 her officeMy mum >>>>>> all of urs

Explain what being a satanist consists of please...whats your beliefs etc etc.

Basically a belief that the devil exists n needs 2 exist 4 religion 2 survive, ie religion uses the devil 2 bring ppl in, as without the devil theyd b no useBut we dnt worship anyone, jus believe that hes nt badBasically believe that as mammals we shud act as such, no turn the other cheeck sh*t sum1 hits u, u hit them twice as hard etc etc, basically live by ur own rules as long as u dnt harm othersYada yadaI can loan u the book if u wanna kno more on it

[Em Dott]

parredMy mum spudded me wen i told her i was a satanistSaid its a gd thing i went 2 catholic nursery school n asked me 2 explain what it wasThen i burnt her a few cds n blazed them in her whip wen she drove me 2 her officeMy mum >>>>>> all of urs

Explain what being a satanist consists of please...whats your beliefs etc etc.

Basically a belief that the devil exists n needs 2 exist 4 religion 2 survive, ie religion uses the devil 2 bring ppl in, as without the devil theyd b no useBut we dnt worship anyone, jus believe that hes nt badBasically believe that as mammals we shud act as such, no turn the other cheeck sh*t sum1 hits u, u hit them twice as hard etc etc, basically live by ur own rules as long as u dnt harm othersYada yadaI can loan u the book if u wanna kno more on it

That's kind of an interesting theory. Might read up on it some more and tell my girl about it when she pisses me off.

[dotcomma]

i aint read the replies yet but if i wanted to seriously become a muslim and my mum was a devout Christian i would at least wait till im out of HER house. Just out of respect for her.Also is it a crime against Islam to live with a ''non-beleiver''. Just asking bcos if its cool to flout that law, because its ur MUM, then im sure u can wait till ur out her yard?I know nothing about Islam so no1 bite my head off, just asking innit

[JLovely]

parredMy mum spudded me wen i told her i was a satanistSaid its a gd thing i went 2 catholic nursery school n asked me 2 explain what it wasThen i burnt her a few cds n blazed them in her whip wen she drove me 2 her officeMy mum >>>>>> all of urs

Explain what being a satanist consists of please...whats your beliefs etc etc.

Basically a belief that the devil exists n needs 2 exist 4 religion 2 survive, ie religion uses the devil 2 bring ppl in, as without the devil theyd b no useBut we dnt worship anyone, jus believe that hes nt badBasically believe that as mammals we shud act as such, no turn the other cheeck sh*t sum1 hits u, u hit them twice as hard etc etc, basically live by ur own rules as long as u dnt harm othersYada yadaI can loan u the book if u wanna kno more on it

Sounds interesting.

[JLovely]

i aint read the replies yet but if i wanted to seriously become a muslim and my mum was a devout Christian i would at least wait till im out of HER house. Just out of respect for her.Also is it a crime against Islam to live with a ''non-beleiver''. Just asking bcos if its cool to flout that law, because its ur MUM, then im sure u can wait till ur out her yard?I know nothing about Islam so no1 bite my head off, just asking innit

But I don't see how your religious beliefs will affect your mums?!