How much slack...

[Guest M12 Part 2]

are you willing to give a woman financially.lets say ur living together. is it evens on the rent/mortgage or u gonna let her slide with just paying food and the occasional bill.are u looking to get that pre-nup signed before u hit the altar or u thinking i don't mind giving her half because shes been a big part of my life.Are you gonna cop her the whip and pay for her insurance?i've realised recently i'm quite selfish in regards to this kinda thing. obviously i want to look after the wife but at the same time i have a bad mentality. im not inna this i'm spending most of my cash on bills and necessities, while cos im carrying you, you can flutter your cash on anything.am i alone?

[violet]

i would expect it to be pretty even in terms of bills and rent when living togetherwhether its halfs on everything, or someone pays for this and the other for thati wouldn't expect him to spend all his money on me, and then i just have bare free cash if i was a housewife then obviously he'd have to pay for everythingbut i intend to work so i'll pay my waybut when i'm married it'll most likely be a joint account thingso no one has their own moneyits just our money, if you get me

[missBee]

i would expect it to be pretty even in terms of bills and rent when living togetherwhether its halfs on everything, or someone pays for this and the other for thati wouldn't expect him to spend all his money on me, and then i just have bare free cash if i was a housewife then obviously he'd have to pay for everythingbut i intend to work so i'll pay my way

c/sdon't want to be financially dependent on any man. same way i wouldn't want any man to be financially dependant on me.

[kurious]

i think 2 decent pplwhen u both know how much eachother generates and how much it costs to live togetherthere will be mutual agreements on who picks up what, and who can sort out thatlike, it wudnt be a thing 4 me 2 do gas and electric and u do the phonebill if u know that u use the phone moretime and i run out the gas and water, with washing my hair, blow dryers straightners etclittle things like that secret incomes = some1 gets pissed

[A Bit Better]

Pre-nup is a MUST. Will have a joint account with my wife (actual wife, not wifey) and all the bills can come out of there and both of our salaries can go into there. That's assuming my wife is making money as I hope she will be.If she ain't, I'll give her an allowance and she better clean the house GOOD!

[TF S4DK]

I use to think like you, but know I just buy 'em what they want & keep it moving.

[Guest Flava Dave]

ill do whatever i feel like tbh

[Seth Rollins]

Depending on salaries you sit down, work it out and pay what you can manage.Halves might not be fair if you're earning £28k per annum and your partner takes home £900 a month.I'm not getting a pre nup. Any woman I marry will be because we deserve each other. I'll be hoping it lasts forever, or if it doesn't, I'm reasonable enough to walk away with half.Having said that I'm planning on having a 1 bedroom anyway, even if I'm living with someone

[missBee]

Pre-nup is a MUST. Will have a joint account with my wife (actual wife, not wifey) and all the bills can come out of there and both of our salaries can go into there. That's assuming my wife is making money as I hope she will be.If she ain't, I'll give her an allowance and she better clean the house GOOD!

i don't think i would want a pre-nup so doubt i would get a joint account.. i don't really like both things

[Soca Junkie]

Those thinking about pre-nups... I bet you want your wife to take your surname too smh.First mention of pre-nup and I'm questioning why we are getting married still.Since I want to be working too... it's only fair we share the bills. Would never want to depend on a man... even if we were to have children. I hate asking for money from my mum as it is.

[Guest Mike Kane]

I'd only get married for practical reasons...So pre-nup talks will follow the proposal immediately.

[Seth Rollins]

Those thinking about pre-nups... I bet you want your wife to take your surname too smh.

A Wife that doesn't take the husbands surname is NOT a Wife (In My Opinion), and she certainly won't be mine.

[Guest Flava Dave]

tbh if i feel liek i need 2 take a pre nup then its nt worth me even marryin the chickmight aswell jus live 2gether or sutin

[A Bit Better]

tbh if i feel liek i need 2 take a pre nup then its nt worth me even marryin the chickmight aswell jus live 2gether or sutin

IN SIN!

[missBee]

tbh if i feel liek i need 2 take a pre nup then its nt worth me even marryin the chickmight aswell jus live 2gether or sutin

exactly. it's like you are wiling for things not to work out..

[Guest Flava Dave]

tbh if i feel liek i need 2 take a pre nup then its nt worth me even marryin the chickmight aswell jus live 2gether or sutin

IN SIN!

i aint religious so that means f*ck all 2 meinfact marriage as a whole has no meanin 2 me

[Wavant]

I'm like you.

[TF S4DK]

If you aint got p or supreme financial power over your partner, you really shouldnt be thinking about pre-nup.Plus pre-nups can be contested fairly easy in this countries courts.

[Soca Junkie]

Those thinking about pre-nups... I bet you want your wife to take your surname too smh.

A Wife that doesn't take the husbands surname is NOT a Wife (In My Opinion), and she certainly won't be mine.

Tbh I agree... but don't think I'm marrying you if you're asking for a pre-nup. About I'm changing my name to yours yet you don't want to share your things.Probably a bad comparrison but meh.

[Guest Flava Dave]

alsoim pretty sure pre-nups are null n void in UK courtsso they wnt mean sh*t stillsum of look like ur gona b livin a lonely lifeeven tho u wnt b worth sh*t

[kurious]

lol at me signing a pre nup, he should be grateful i dont take his balls along with mei have serious doubts some1 will want 2 marry me

[Guest Mike Kane]

Chick don't wanna take my name, I'm not wearing a ring.

[A Bit Better]

Not wanting to sign a pre-nup is bollocks. All it says is that if, God forbid, anything happens and you end up hating me, I get to leave with money I came in with.This is why I have to find a woman that uses logic. I can't deal with stupidness.

[kurious]

wud that logical woman not try and use her logic in the first place to try and rectify the situation

[Guest LOGers]

Used to say hell no when it came to pre-nups. But if i'm not marrying my man for his money why should it be a problem?Obviously i'm not looking to divorce him but if it all goes belly up at least thats one less stress...Anyway. I'm looking to be a housewife still.Like i've always said there will be avenues that i have to make money without me having to work so whatever needs my contribution will have it, no qualms.