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what i earn is my own money and i will never share it with any women. she can live here but she will have to buy her own food and her own bed linning and WASHIN UP POWEDERi will be willing to buy her tickets to racecourse and few cups of tea but she will be paying petrol n the car on the way home even though i got £900 in my pocket and she has £30 to her name.STANDERD
lol really?
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what i earn is my own money and i will never share it with any women. she can live here but she will have to buy her own food and her own bed linning and WASHIN UP POWEDERi will be willing to buy her tickets to racecourse and few cups of tea but she will be paying petrol n the car on the way home even though i got £900 in my pocket and she has £30 to her name.STANDERD
lol really?
How can she just come home to nice flat and sit there watching big screen t.v all comfortable just waiting for sex then off to work again.NAH NOT AT ALL BRUFF.
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Your be a house wife & not expect p if he trades you in, ater you've looked after his kids, home & been nothing but loyal...
diary of a mad black woman.why you should go into marriage with your own.. if you want to be a housewife make sure you at least have a plan B the moment he makes you sign the prenup. he has his plan so make yours
Good point. As much as I will have my own money... it would still hurt me to know I put time & all my energy into a marriage... only for him to walk away with his chick on the side still rich.
The penny drops...
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what i earn is my own money and i will never share it with any women. she can live here but she will have to buy her own food and her own bed linning and WASHIN UP POWEDERi will be willing to buy her tickets to racecourse and few cups of tea but she will be paying petrol n the car on the way home even though i got £900 in my pocket and she has £30 to her name.STANDERD
lol really?
How can she just come home to nice flat and sit there watching big screen t.v all comfortable just waiting for sex then off to work again.NAH NOT AT ALL BRUFF.
are you talking about a 'real' wife or a wifey??because there is no sense of 'togetherness' in anything you have said & there would be no point in a marriage at all..unless if you are on about your 'wifey' moving in..
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Your be a house wife & not expect p if he trades you in, ater you've looked after his kids, home & been nothing but loyal...
diary of a mad black woman.why you should go into marriage with your own.. if you want to be a housewife make sure you at least have a plan B the moment he makes you sign the prenup. he has his plan so make yours
Good point. As much as I will have my own money... it would still hurt me to know I put time & all my energy into a marriage... only for him to walk away with his chick on the side still rich.
The penny drops...
LOL No digger... I said it would hurt me... I wouldn't ask for a percentage of his sh*t.... time and emotion wasted on what? Fighting for money? Like I said I'm not that kind of person.
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Your be a house wife & not expect p if he trades you in, ater you've looked after his kids, home & been nothing but loyal...
diary of a mad black woman.why you should go into marriage with your own.. if you want to be a housewife make sure you at least have a plan B the moment he makes you sign the prenup. he has his plan so make yours
Good point. As much as I will have my own money... it would still hurt me to know I put time & all my energy into a marriage... only for him to walk away with his chick on the side still rich.
The penny drops...
LOL No digger... I said it would hurt me... I wouldn't ask for a percentage of his sh*t.... time and emotion wasted on what? Fighting for money? Like I said I'm not that kind of person.
Lol, its not about digger its about bitterness & hurt, and while money isnt going to change that, your going to feel pay back and entitlements fr your emotions, time, effort and blind faith.
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er well that was refreshing..anyways back to topic.i guess you never know sometimes how things can turn out in marriage. & the love of your life could leave you with 3 kids & £22 in your account after 15yrs for an 18yr old..but if you are a good person i believe things can always work out..but anyways like i said if i ever decide to be a housewife (which i highly doubt)it will be after at least 4yrs of just me & hubby & been working so have money in my acc, have a job & career i can always fall back on.. i would leave the job when we decide to start a family always have a plan b.. & it should not involve him if he is leaving you so let him go with his 20

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Your be a house wife & not expect p if he trades you in, ater you've looked after his kids, home & been nothing but loyal...
diary of a mad black woman.why you should go into marriage with your own.. if you want to be a housewife make sure you at least have a plan B the moment he makes you sign the prenup. he has his plan so make yours
Good point. As much as I will have my own money... it would still hurt me to know I put time & all my energy into a marriage... only for him to walk away with his chick on the side still rich.
The penny drops...
LOL No digger... I said it would hurt me... I wouldn't ask for a percentage of his sh*t.... time and emotion wasted on what? Fighting for money? Like I said I'm not that kind of person.
Lol, its not about digger its about bitterness & hurt, and while money isnt going to change that, your going to feel pay back and entitlements fr your emotions, time, effort and blind faith.
Pay back in a different form. Not through his pockets... oh no... that would be too easy. :D
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Your be a house wife & not expect p if he trades you in, ater you've looked after his kids, home & been nothing but loyal...
diary of a mad black woman.why you should go into marriage with your own.. if you want to be a housewife make sure you at least have a plan B the moment he makes you sign the prenup. he has his plan so make yours
Good point. As much as I will have my own money... it would still hurt me to know I put time & all my energy into a marriage... only for him to walk away with his chick on the side still rich.
The penny drops...
LOL No digger... I said it would hurt me... I wouldn't ask for a percentage of his sh*t.... time and emotion wasted on what? Fighting for money? Like I said I'm not that kind of person.
Lol, its not about digger its about bitterness & hurt, and while money isnt going to change that, your going to feel pay back and entitlements fr your emotions, time, effort and blind faith.
Pay back in a different form. Not through his pockets... oh no... that would be too easy. :D
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Those thinking about pre-nups... I bet you want your wife to take your surname too smh.
A Wife that doesn't take the husbands surname is NOT a Wife (In My Opinion), and she certainly won't be mine.
Tbh I agree... but don't think I'm marrying you if you're asking for a pre-nup. About I'm changing my name to yours yet you don't want to share your things.Probably a bad comparrison but meh.
be my guest share my flat as long as im in a serious relationship with youllow taking half my sh*t after you tell me u want a train ran on youanyways my chicks gonna have her own sh*t, she'll want me to sign pre nupand @ topic, yeh its about breaking even to the extent which its possible, unless i get super rich then, i won't even be working then qw can both sponge off large ammountsin this life, one thing counts
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are you willing to give a woman financially.lets say ur living together. is it evens on the rent/mortgage or u gonna let her slide with just paying food and the occasional bill.are u looking to get that pre-nup signed before u hit the altar or u thinking i don't mind giving her half because shes been a big part of my life.Are you gonna cop her the whip and pay for her insurance?i've realised recently i'm quite selfish in regards to this kinda thing. obviously i want to look after the wife but at the same time i have a bad mentality. im not inna this i'm spending most of my cash on bills and necessities, while cos im carrying you, you can flutter your cash on anything.am i alone?
LMFAO @ thinking that any of the JSA claimants on here will be making their spouse sign pre-nups :D:D:D
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but anyways like i said if i ever decide to be a housewife (which i highly doubt)it will be after at least 4yrs of just me & hubby & been working so have money in my acc, have a job & career i can always fall back on.. i would leave the job when we decide to start a family always have a plan b.. & it should not involve him if he is leaving you so let him go with his 20
Thats as bad as a pre-nup IMO & depending on your age not that realistic.
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my boy pays everything. as in everything. bills food clothes everythingbut then he doesnt do ANYTHING and he expects that. he dont wash clothes. fold. iron. clean anything. cook. nothing what so ever.
i wouldn't mind this set up at all to tell u the truthalsopeople need to 4get about pre-nups if you're living over herethey are of almost no use
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