MARLO STANSFIELD Posted June 10, 2009 Report Share Posted June 10, 2009 i got one hot male friendwe met on the premis of i like u still, ur hot, reh rehsituation took a turn, and we ended up as 'friends' at the time he wernt with no one, used to be at eachothers yard all the time smokin drinkin cookin eatin, i began to value his friendshipmonths went by, i went away, i come back hes got a wifey, and it really ain the sameit saddens me, secretly i jus wanna sex him now, all this friend business is tediousat the same time tho, i got so much respect for him i would rather be his friend then a link or spoil the situation with goin no where sexgreat guy, sad times, im happy hes happy, i can't do what shes doin for him anywaydid u feel this way back then or only since hes got a new girl now??either way unlucky smaddzyh i felt the same way back then except that the friendship wasnt tediousso why daint u put it on him kinda early then? u say u let months go by then u actually went away, then when u came back he had a girl... wha did u expect tho? u cant stay exclusive to a friend uno bgood questionusually if i like a man, im not really shy like that, but i liked him so much that it made me over shy, to the point where i would sit down the other end of the sofa and all madness like thati jus didnt kno how to put it on him, and the more i look back i had umpteen chances and i kno he was on it aswell, most i got was a few hugs, feel the dude squeeze my waist, an i still didnt respond properlyguess im jus stupid reallycouple bredrins are tellin me to put it on him now, but its too late for all that there you have it people how you met these friends plays a part and makes it obvious why they are around in the first placeas for the bold bit i highlighted :they aint friends they are associates that want you in the same bucket as them.swear you got a man now though unless the guy you have been mentioning lately is indeed this same guy.either way not judging YOU but you have pretty much solidified why having female friends is a no no thanks for being honest. I keep saying this, friends is a WASTE OF DAMN TIME, MONEY & IT'S MENTALLY TAXING. What 2 reasonably attractive people do you know who meet and immediately think he/she would be a fantastic friend. Attraction is what drew you together therefore friendship after that is a concoction of deceit and self denial. If homeboy squeezed the waist and probably was flirting with you during your cookery foolery then 'friends' should have been thrown in the bin. A better word to replace friends is 'asscosiates' as ^^^ said or 'possibility'. they are all possibilities.You wanted to f*ck him at first, but I bet you wanted to f*ck him tenfold when you got wind of his relationship status. Them f*ck your chick f*cks thereyou know what pisses me off about this macwhen chicks go on like this aint the case (with the exception of smaddy) it REALLY annoys me because these same chicks wanna point the finger at a nigger for all sorts of infidelity claims etcive even had an ex try this friend sh*t and i like a FOOL believed that it wasnt because she wants me but now with what smaddy said and how my girl is going on NOW im truly pissed offim actually suffering because of this sh*t RIGHT f*ck*ng NOW (yeah im ranting and the temperature is rising with every god for saken word)PISSED OFFkmt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gods Son Posted June 10, 2009 Report Share Posted June 10, 2009 If i met a Girl Shes Peng, She Has no Man and shes not the friend of a Link/ Ex girlfriend Than i tried to move it! if she didnt have it or it pied means where acquaintances aint got time for a friendship tingDont mind speaking now and again but is neva a run to me with ur problems flex& ontop of that i would have told them openly im tryna f*ck them!Sum girls in this same said bracket i have f*cked jus on a random one then acted like nothing ever happened afterwardsSum girls end up in this bracket after iv linked them banged them then jus been cool, Odd Bang here and there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
General Mac Posted June 10, 2009 Report Share Posted June 10, 2009 If i met a Girl Shes Peng, She Has no Man and shes not the friend of a Link/ Ex girlfriend Than i tried to move it! if she didnt have it or it pied means where acquaintances aint got time for a friendship tingDont mind speaking now and again but is neva a run to me with ur problems flex& ontop of that i would have told them openly im tryna f*ck them!Sum girls in this same said bracket i have f*cked jus on a random one then acted like nothing ever happened afterwardsSum girls end up in this bracket after iv linked them banged them then jus been cool, Odd Bang here and thereI like your style son Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MARLO STANSFIELD Posted June 10, 2009 Report Share Posted June 10, 2009 i like it too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted June 10, 2009 Report Share Posted June 10, 2009 one of my good friends is a PENG male, i forgot to add when i first posted in this topic cos he dont even cross my mind like thathe told me that when we first met, he thought i was a lesbo, this is only because i wasnt bang on it like every other girl who clocks himit is possible to be friends with a good lookin member of the opposite sex, it really is Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
General Mac Posted June 10, 2009 Report Share Posted June 10, 2009 one of my good friends is a PENG male, i forgot to add when i first posted in this topic cos he dont even cross my mind like thathe told me that when we first met, he thought i was a lesbo, this is only because i wasnt bang on it like every other girl who clocks himit is possible to be friends with a good lookin member of the opposite sex, it really isThat line has been used relentlessly since Homosexuality was common. Call a girl a lesbian and you immediately spark something in her which I will not disclose for MENS sake. But hey, to each their own. Nobody disagrees fully that you can't be ascossiates but the term friends is being over used, do you talk to him everyday or every other day? Do you meet up regularly like normal friends do? Do you go shopping with him, you get my drift. If he doesn't fit that small criteria i have provided he is not your friend, your just a girl he talks to occassionally.Now upon your meeting he immediately assumed you would move to him, that already indicates that he was not looking at you the way you say you looked at him, but he couldn't be bothered to persue the case because you say hes good looking therefore p*ssy is abundant for him. However, give him a dry spell and you will become a target. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted June 10, 2009 Report Share Posted June 10, 2009 one of my good friends is a PENG male, i forgot to add when i first posted in this topic cos he dont even cross my mind like thathe told me that when we first met, he thought i was a lesbo, this is only because i wasnt bang on it like every other girl who clocks himit is possible to be friends with a good lookin member of the opposite sex, it really isThat line has been used relentlessly since Homosexuality was common. Call a girl a lesbian and you immediately spark something in her which I will not disclose for MENS sake. But hey, to each their own. Nobody disagrees fully that you can't be ascossiates but the term friends is being over used, do you talk to him everyday or every other day? Do you meet up regularly like normal friends do? Do you go shopping with him, you get my drift. If he doesn't fit that small criteria i have provided he is not your friend, your just a girl he talks to occassionally.Now upon your meeting he immediately assumed you would move to him, that already indicates that he was not looking at you the way you say you looked at him, but he couldn't be bothered to persue the case because you say hes good looking therefore p*ssy is abundant for him. However, give him a dry spell and you will become a target.we lived together, he only told me that after bout 2 yearswe go shopping, we speak few times in the weeki dnt use the term friend lightlyhe only assumed that cos hes a big head, thinks every girl is on it, 99% actually are Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MARLO STANSFIELD Posted June 10, 2009 Report Share Posted June 10, 2009 it is possible to be friends with a good lookin member of the opposite sex, it really isno one is saying it isnt possible because it isthe point is its pointless and YOU pretty much broke it down why it isNO FEMALE wants her man to be friends with some girl factany girl disagreeing with this isSINGLEIN A sh*t RELATIONSHIPDONT KNOW HOW TO KEEP A MANHAS SPENT MOST OF HER DATING YEARS AS A LINKAGE SO HAS NO CLUE ON WHATS APPROPRIATE TO MAKE A REAL RELATIONSHIP WORK. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MARLO STANSFIELD Posted June 10, 2009 Report Share Posted June 10, 2009 he only assumed that cos hes a big head, thinks every girl is on it, 99% actually areYOU LIKE being the person that dont have to work hard (let off p*ssy) to be around him to show off to other chicks and make them feel inferior to you tbhgirls do this alot :rolleyes:maybe it so they can show other girls they can HANDLE not liking him cos you got some imaginary self control (dont forget ya friend you said you WANT to f*ck thats how i know this)all some big gamebeyond all the posts that go beyond 3 sentences we have all made the same conclusionman and woman being too close for comfort = p*ssy FI GET f*ck (and when it comes to enjoying the overwhelming feeling of something that apparently shouldnt happen...................... the pleasure is all yours)i aint knocking anyone for doing this if thats how you get ya kicks but ME?im in a serious relationship now and only today i REALLY realised how much i love and adore my woman and i aint letting some indecisive alterior motive chick provide ANY opportunity for doubt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revs Posted June 10, 2009 Report Share Posted June 10, 2009 been there done that it got long and i said to myself never again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted June 10, 2009 Report Share Posted June 10, 2009 i duno man i think u read too much into thingsbut i am not gna lie i cannot have my man being friends with no damn girlsbitchesvery serious about this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MARLO STANSFIELD Posted June 11, 2009 Report Share Posted June 11, 2009 i duno man i think u read too much into thingsbut i am not gna lie i cannot have my man being friends with no damn girlsbitchesvery serious about thisthe more girls that say this the HAPPIER i am tbh cos it shows they KNOW average tom foolery will not work with me.and the bit about your man being friends with girls AGAIN just makes me know the levelsso basically ya on having male friends but ya man cant have female ones? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abc123 Posted June 11, 2009 Report Share Posted June 11, 2009 i duno man i think u read too much into thingsbut i am not gna lie i cannot have my man being friends with no damn girlsbitchesvery serious about thisBut you, yourself, have male friends, not serious serious. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted June 11, 2009 Report Share Posted June 11, 2009 i duno man i think u read too much into thingsbut i am not gna lie i cannot have my man being friends with no damn girlsbitchesvery serious about thisBut you, yourself, have male friends, not serious serious.i dont businessim not justifying anything, i only know myself and i kno how most girls stay/i dnt expect the girlfriend of any male friend i have to be happy dappy with our friendship, not cos im necessarily up to something, jus cos i understand Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted June 11, 2009 Report Share Posted June 11, 2009 its gas anyway, what can i tell him 'you cant be friends with her'i jus wouldnt be happy about it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MARLO STANSFIELD Posted June 11, 2009 Report Share Posted June 11, 2009 i duno man i think u read too much into thingsbut i am not gna lie i cannot have my man being friends with no damn girlsbitchesvery serious about thisBut you, yourself, have male friends, not serious serious.one of which she has openly admitted she wants to f*cksmaddy mana LOT of man here rate youfix up its not even a dig you need to come to a positive conclusion about this hypocrisy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abc123 Posted June 11, 2009 Report Share Posted June 11, 2009 To be honest. its only a certain TYPE of female that mans wife would be ever jealous of/feel a way about.Them ''Snoop, from The Wire'' type girls would get a bly.So lets be honest here, females like smaddy are the archetypal ''girl bestfriend'' and are perfect example of how SOME people really can have platonic friendships where there are NO attractions whatsoever.No send, I rate her. She is real when she responds to topics. None of this airy fairy nonsense that some of this other cookie cutter, holier than thou bullocks that most of the other female members on here come with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted June 11, 2009 Report Share Posted June 11, 2009 there isnt a positive conclusion here, i dont talk on here for man ratingsnimbyi am not saying it isnt possible for a man and woman to be friends, im doin itbut most of the time, as in the instance of my first situation and the later we are in life the more likely it is that these so called 'friendships' develop from attractions at the get goif a girl is friends with my man, solely because she was attracted to him in the first place or he was attracted to her (what am i second best?), how is that beneficial to mehow can i have this girl sitting, waiting, plotting for the downfall of my relationship, a thorn in my side, chattin sh*t to him about meALSO how am i meant to know if this girl is attracted to him or not, im naturally gna think that she is because i am, regardless of the story behind how they metive been in situations where men have asked me for my advice on their relationships, and i could easily put spanner in the works (tho i havnt)all now, if this first yout told me he had a issue with his girl, i would jus say wow i dno man, its up to you, stayin neutralin conclusion, i know myself, i dnt kno or trust these other girls Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Gold Posted June 11, 2009 Report Share Posted June 11, 2009 If i met a Girl Shes Peng, She Has no Man and shes not the friend of a Link/ Ex girlfriend Than i tried to move it! if she didnt have it or it pied means where acquaintances aint got time for a friendship tingDont mind speaking now and again but is neva a run to me with ur problems flex& ontop of that i would have told them openly im tryna f*ck them!Sum girls in this same said bracket i have f*cked jus on a random one then acted like nothing ever happened afterwardsSum girls end up in this bracket after iv linked them banged them then jus been cool, Odd Bang here and there :!: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MARLO STANSFIELD Posted June 11, 2009 Report Share Posted June 11, 2009 in short you said you wanna sex the guyya happy to be friends with a guy that you wanna sex or may wanna sex you REGARDLESS of him having a girl yet you aint happy if your man is friends with a female in conclusion, i know myself, i dnt kno or trust these other girlsim sure every girl your referring to or further more every girl with a male friend will say EXACTLY THAT this is why so many females fail in dating you dont even practice what you preach and have no loyalty for womanhood other than ya own needs.THE END Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
General Mac Posted June 12, 2009 Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 In a nutshell she will have her 2 male friends and defend her innocence but will not tolerate any other female........Kind of like us guys actually, cut off her males friends but keep/salvage our female friends. f*cked up TBH Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted June 12, 2009 Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 In a nutshell she will have her 2 male friends and defend her innocence but will not tolerate any other female........Kind of like us guys actually, cut off her males friends but keep/salvage our female friends. f*cked up TBHbasicallycos u kno what ur like in different situations, with different femalestherefore u know the potential possibilities of what other males could be up tomy only point is that it is possible to be platonic friends with the other sex, rare tho it may be Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted June 12, 2009 Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 in short you said you wanna sex the guyya happy to be friends with a guy that you wanna sex or may wanna sex you REGARDLESS of him having a girl yet you aint happy if your man is friends with a femaleas i stated before a lot changed when he got a girl, which i can only expect and respect, as i also stated, i would not expect any woman to be happy with her man being friends with certain girls, for the afore mentioned reasons Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MARLO STANSFIELD Posted June 12, 2009 Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 In a nutshell she will have her 2 male friends and defend her innocence but will not tolerate any other female........Kind of like us guys actually, cut off her males friends but keep/salvage our female friends. f*cked up TBHi dont do thisall girls i told to bounce tbhallow me boying my girl like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted June 12, 2009 Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 depends how much u value said 'friends'if ur wiillin to jus cut dem off 100% then they cant have been ur friend in the first instance Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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