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ladies have you ever been DUMPEDi know it seems like a boring concept but after recent findings i have come to realise that girls always make themselves seem the victim of a break up and say"we ended it"or"i dumped him" etcits like they never actually get dumped themselves because they are such QUALITY. one girl i locked off recently (that one where i got a next number to text her and she said she SINGLE) and she text back the number saying i dont have a man i dumped him (minutes after i told her its done and hung up lol)discussmandem add your views too.

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Honestly, a boy I was involved with boyed me nicely and sent me a tx to say he thinks we should call it a day. I was like aight cool, I didnt care tht much cos he was frustratin me anyway. Phones me next day and was like "I did it cos I had a feelin u was gona lock me off" biggrin.gif

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Honestly, a boy I was involved with boyed me nicely and sent me a tx to say he thinks we should call it a day. I was like aight cool, I didnt care tht much cos he was frustratin me anyway. Phones me next day and was like "I did it cos I had a feelin u was gona lock me off" biggrin.gif
Lol, tryin to pull the defensive as well
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Honestly, a boy I was involved with boyed me nicely and sent me a tx to say he thinks we should call it a day. I was like aight cool, I didnt care tht much cos he was frustratin me anyway. Phones me next day and was like "I did it cos I had a feelin u was gona lock me off" biggrin.gif
Lol, tryin to pull the defensive as well
precisely
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Honestly, a boy I was involved with boyed me nicely and sent me a tx to say he thinks we should call it a day. I was like aight cool, I didnt care tht much cos he was frustratin me anyway. Phones me next day and was like "I did it cos I had a feelin u was gona lock me off" biggrin.gif
Lol, tryin to pull the defensive as well
Wt u mean?
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Honestly, a boy I was involved with boyed me nicely and sent me a tx to say he thinks we should call it a day. I was like aight cool, I didnt care tht much cos he was frustratin me anyway. Phones me next day and was like "I did it cos I had a feelin u was gona lock me off" biggrin.gif
Lol, tryin to pull the defensive as well
Wt u mean?
He dumped you cos he was afraid you were gonna dump himHe got defensive - he didnt want to get dumped by you..
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well i dont know what HE meant but what i mean is that girls always have to make themselves look a certain way when they discuss the demise of a relationship.that way could beSOUL SURVIVOROR VICTIMbut never in a month of sundays will they be dumped because they cheated and they DID take the piss.im sure most will agree on this and even girls will agree (PROVIDED ITS A NEXT GIRL AND NOT THEMSELVES THEY ARE TALKIN ABOUT)

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well i dont know what HE meant but what i mean is that girls always have to make themselves look a certain way when they discuss the demise of a relationship.that way could beSOUL SURVIVOROR VICTIMbut never in a month of sundays will they be dumped because they cheated and they DID take the piss.im sure most will agree on this and even girls will agree (PROVIDED ITS A NEXT GIRL AND NOT THEMSELVES THEY ARE TALKIN ABOUT)
Yh I see what you mean.
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Honestly, a boy I was involved with boyed me nicely and sent me a tx to say he thinks we should call it a day. I was like aight cool, I didnt care tht much cos he was frustratin me anyway. Phones me next day and was like "I did it cos I had a feelin u was gona lock me off" biggrin.gif
Lol, tryin to pull the defensive as well
Wt u mean?
He dumped you cos he was afraid you were gonna dump himHe got defensive - he didnt want to get dumped by you..
Yh ur right. He obviously saw I was gettin annoyed with him. I guess he was too lazy to fix up, or I werent worth it. Meh!
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it obviosly come dwn to saving face, no one wants to be perceived as a d*ckhead so they will sugger coat it in a way that looks like it was a joint decision. ppl are less likely to question a joint decision rather than the gyal sayin blah blah i dumped him (and visa versa) which would cause problems and the truth be reveiled

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Yep been dumped after I got battered by him. Bastard knocked my door after i was discharged from hospital, told me in colourful language that it was finished and that he was going to finish me off next time. Got locked up for 4 yrs 2 months later anyway. Meh.
Yet...Never mind.
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Way I see it, if someone says "We split up" its obvious that they got dropped like a bad habit.
Not necessarily true, i wont go out and be like yeah i dumped her reh teh teh. its pointless i dont air my business out like that.
Exactly.My last breakup, I ended it. It was the most disgustingly messy breakup as well. Im talkin hundreds of missed calls/texts/voicemails - but it was the only way to get her to jam. Just wouldn't take no for an answer.When people asked me, I said yeah "We split up, just didnt work, we argued too much". I never like to badmouth ex's or air out my issues.Which people took for "I got dumped but Im trying to save face". Didn't help that she went round saying how much of a d*ckhead I was. So eventually I just told certain people whats what, what happened, and everyone jammed their hype.I wouldnt do it again though, better what they THINK than what I KNOW.
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