Bafflin situation

[Davicious X]

The scenarioSo a couple weeks ago this chick that I had been sleepin with comes to my house. Now the regular routine is for me to draw for the condom cos its not about barebacking the randoms.Anyway this chick aint come to my house on this occasion to get the wood, she's come to blast me for (She says) Giving her some STI.STRIKE 1After some loud talking I sent her on her way and a few days later I went to get tested JIC.Turns out Im fresh and clean, so I text the girl to let her know she aint catch that sh*t from me and she calls back tellin me Im chattin sh*t.STRIKE2That was the last time I had any words with her till couple nights ago when she showed up at my house without even a call or text.STRIKE3She telling me how sorry she is to have cheated, but wait a second, this aint my chick, its just some random. Now this crazy wont leave me alone, the calls and the texts are too much, Ive blasted her by phone, to her face but she aint havin it.Anyone have any suggestions on how Im meant to deal with this crazy?

[JLovely]

Don't answer her calls or reply to her txs. Should do the trick.

[missBee]

aawww aint it sad when pple catch feelings.. u both knew what it was when u first going into it but i guess sometimes u cant plan everything esp matters of the heart..just ignore her. takes a while to work tho so dont expect overnight results. shes mad still sti u kno.. tenseif that doesnt work tell her you have a gal now.. maybe that will work??

[Angelo]

Shank her

[Tee]

just tell her to f*ck off simple duckin her calls wont work tru she done try show up at your do with no invite

[Davicious X]

just tell her to f*ck off simple duckin her calls wont work tru she done try show up at your do with no invite

Done that aint workin

[Fresh]

Daffy them calls g

[Gunner]

Just say if finished beating you, you poor unfortunate soul.

[missBee]

just tell her to f*ck off simple duckin her calls wont work tru she done try show up at your do with no invite

Done that aint workin

call her. then say we need to talk in person. not at your house because she is clearly getting too comfortable & used to being at your house & in public so there is no misunderstanding that you might want to do more than talk. then sit her down & say stop calling me stop sending me textx and i want this to be done for good. shes gonna cry & beg & last resort try & seduce you. be strong & say please dont force me to change my number & tell pple you are crazy. get over it. dont even bother shouting or screaming or cussing. then walk away.she wont call you. probably send u a text. to say im sorry things had to end this way bl bla bla bye. reply and say that best be your last text coz this is my last. bye [entre name here]coz i think screaming at her & cussing is not helping coz she is crazy right now. so the more you shout it just seems like foreplay to her.ignoring her might not work or will take long to work coz technically if a person is not telling you to go away or picking up your calls to say whats what.. you can still keep your little idea that everything is still fine. ie she thinks "well.. although he is not saying he still wants me he still hasnt said he doesnt so we still cool il just call him or send a text again.."speaking to her in person away from a comfort zone shows the seriousness of the situation & drives the messege ome. its easier to front on the phone

[Angelo]

That will not.Mans already given her enough closure.Maintaining contact and meeting in person is just gonna f*ck her sh*t up even more.Ignore from now on.If she come round, you aint in, or don't let her in.

[missBee]

when you spoke to her for this closure the first time. where you guys shouting & screaming or you actually spoke??

[JLovely]

That will not.Mans already given her enough closure.Maintaining contact and meeting in person is just gonna f*ck her sh*t up even more.Ignore from now on.If she come round, you aint in, or don't let her in.

I agree.

[Seth Rollins]

just tell her to f*ck off simple duckin her calls wont work tru she done try show up at your do with no invite

Done that aint workin

call her. then say we need to talk in person. not at your house because she is clearly getting too comfortable & used to being at your house & in public so there is no misunderstanding that you might want to do more than talk. then sit her down & say stop calling me stop sending me textx and i want this to be done for good. shes gonna cry & beg & last resort try & seduce you. be strong & say please dont force me to change my number & tell pple you are crazy. get over it. dont even bother shouting or screaming or cussing. then walk away.she wont call you. probably send u a text. to say im sorry things had to end this way bl bla bla bye. reply and say that best be your last text coz this is my last. bye [entre name here]coz i think screaming at her & cussing is not helping coz she is crazy right now. so the more you shout it just seems like foreplay to her.ignoring her might not work or will take long to work coz technically if a person is not telling you to go away or picking up your calls to say whats what.. you can still keep your little idea that everything is still fine. ie she thinks "well.. although he is not saying he still wants me he still hasnt said he doesnt so we still cool il just call him or send a text again.."speaking to her in person away from a comfort zone shows the seriousness of the situation & drives the messege ome. its easier to front on the phone

Put down Dear Deirdre, and step away from keyboard. Same with Janay. Done read she just shows up at the yard. Females give the worst advice EVER.Blood, I been here before. If you've got the balls then LISTEN.SLEW HER. IGNORING HER AIN'T WORKING. One ting I was beatin back in 07 was on this tip. Started sending her texts like "Suck your mum you d*ckhead delete my number innit prick" whenever she try contact me, threatening to turn up at her yard uninvited and asking her parents for dinner when they ain't met me.She sent one last text after that telling me I'm rude, I've changed, she really will leave me alone if I wanted. I text back "I'm bored of you, be gone, and delete my number". - That was that.Grow some balls and be ruthless. Same way you'd slew a man on here, talk to her like that. Crazy chicks don't go away in normal circumstances, so you have to act out of character.

[missBee]

That will not.Mans already given her enough closure.Maintaining contact and meeting in person is just gonna f*ck her sh*t up even more.Ignore from now on.If she come round, you aint in, or don't let her in.

I agree.

i think it will. how long where u guys sleeping together?? coz if it was for a while then she has caught feelings & ignoring & shouting wont help because she thinks she can turn you around any way coz she thinks she 'knows' you. but she just been chilling with the brain in your pants and you just need to inttroduce her to the one in your head. she will see that things are definately different. if it was for a short while like a month or less just ignore her

[JLovely]

How dare you!LOLBut i do think being rude to her is just spuring her on.

[Seth Rollins]

How dare you!LOLBut i do think being rude to her is just spuring her on.

No.Only so much humiliation a woman can take, right?

[Angelo]

Being rude to my crazy ex didn't work when I wanted her to f*ck off.Had to get my boy to answer the door and say "He's inside but he doesn't want to see you. Ever" and slam it on her face when she actually turned up at the yard.I then got a flurry of texts about:"You're worse than a (insert any number of expletives here)""The police already know about you""My cousin will..."None of which actually happened coz she didn't want it.But ignoring worked in the end.

[Davicious X]

when you spoke to her for this closure the first time. where you guys shouting & screaming or you actually spoke??

She has called me from at least 4 different numbers. told her to piss/f*ck off each time then was just lockin the phone off once I heard her voice after not recognisin the number.Tried the text message reads 'Stop contactin me, we got nuffin 2 talk bout we aint doin nuffin no more and im not even jokin just go away cos ur wastin ur time'

[A Bit Better]

I would say keep ducking the calls etc. and then next time she turns up at your door, grips her up a piece. Nothing fancy, no swinging or anything, just a quick grips and a "I ain't f*ck*ng around" look and she should get lost. Not quietly, but at least she'll be gone. Plus she can't say sh*t to nobody coz she has an STI and you ain't. When you re-tell the story, that can be any STI you want if you get what I'm saying.

[JGGB]

Tell her straight up you don't want her dirty 'cheating' aids infested pum.And aso tell her that she was never 'your girl' but just a link

[Seth Rollins]

Being rude to my crazy ex didn't work when I wanted her to f*ck off.Had to get my boy to answer the door and say "He's inside but he doesn't want to see you. Ever" and slam it on her face when she actually turned up at the yard.I then got a flurry of texts about:"You're worse than a (insert any number of expletives here)""The police already know about you""My cousin will..."None of which actually happened coz she didn't want it.But ignoring worked in the end.

Humiliation. All falls under the same category tbh.

[Davicious X]

I would say keep ducking the calls etc. and then next time she turns up at your door, grips her up a piece. Nothing fancy, no swinging or anything, just a quick grips and a "I ain't f*ck*ng around" look and she should get lost. Not quietly, but at least she'll be gone. Plus she can't say sh*t to nobody coz she has an STI and you ain't. When you re-tell the story, that can be any STI you want if you get what I'm saying.

Funny guy, nah its not about the embelishment, I aint got nuffin against her just want her to go away.Im the guy that gives girls 3 strikes and she wasted hers in the space of 2 weeks.

[Fresh]

Bring her in, strip her off, pull out the rubber, put it on the D, get close to entry...Then last min shriek in horror and ask her wtf that is growing on her flaps.Kick her out in a flurry, (need to wait for her to re-dress) then cuss her from the window as she walks off your doorstep.

[missBee]

just tell her to f*ck off simple duckin her calls wont work tru she done try show up at your do with no invite

Done that aint workin

call her. then say we need to talk in person. not at your house because she is clearly getting too comfortable & used to being at your house & in public so there is no misunderstanding that you might want to do more than talk. then sit her down & say stop calling me stop sending me textx and i want this to be done for good. shes gonna cry & beg & last resort try & seduce you. be strong & say please dont force me to change my number & tell pple you are crazy. get over it. dont even bother shouting or screaming or cussing. then walk away.she wont call you. probably send u a text. to say im sorry things had to end this way bl bla bla bye. reply and say that best be your last text coz this is my last. bye [entre name here]coz i think screaming at her & cussing is not helping coz she is crazy right now. so the more you shout it just seems like foreplay to her.ignoring her might not work or will take long to work coz technically if a person is not telling you to go away or picking up your calls to say whats what.. you can still keep your little idea that everything is still fine. ie she thinks "well.. although he is not saying he still wants me he still hasnt said he doesnt so we still cool il just call him or send a text again.."speaking to her in person away from a comfort zone shows the seriousness of the situation & drives the messege ome. its easier to front on the phone

Put down Dear Deirdre, and step away from keyboard. Same with Janay. Done read she just shows up at the yard. Females give the worst advice EVER.Blood, I been here before. If you've got the balls then LISTEN.SLEW HER. IGNORING HER AIN'T WORKING. One ting I was beatin back in 07 was on this tip. Started sending her texts like "Suck your mum you d*ckhead delete my number innit prick" whenever she try contact me, threatening to turn up at her yard uninvited and asking her parents for dinner when they ain't met me.She sent one last text after that telling me I'm rude, I've changed, she really will leave me alone if I wanted. I text back "I'm bored of you, be gone, and delete my number". - That was that.Grow some balls and be ruthless. Same way you'd slew a man on here, talk to her like that. Crazy chicks don't go away in normal circumstances, so you have to act out of character.

gosh how old was this girl?? thats just childish. & how old is your girl davilicious??this other guy did that to me tho. difference is i was not sleeping sleeping with him & not doing anything at all with him!! the thought actually is disgusting!! nways he was asking me out & all sorts started about 2yrs ago imagine. he went away but came back like 2wks ago saying i want to come to your house & see you. he was friends with my cuz so he knew where i lived coz he came to pick her up from my house once. luckily we moved houses last month coz im sure he was parked outside! anyways 2 wks ago txts me saying im coming to your house. i said no thanx. he sent about 10 txts after that then called. told him no thanx over the phone he goes lets be friends then. so i went to him "i dont want to be your friend but you can take me shopping" lol thought he would leave but nah he was like its cool. then he was calling txting & i told him i dont want his money or anything i was joking now go away. then the abuse txts started coming through. "you're a bitch, i have a gal anyways, your mum is a ho" etc!! sent lmao & witty replies to all lol. in one he said "your mum used to cry loud when i came to f*ck her." lol the hell?! i was like nah she told me u had a little d*ck anyways and you are the one who used to cry now your dad oils you ass you fag. lol it was something to do. my cuz then rang him & told him to f*ck off & threatened to sort him out. she broke her hand beating him uo last year as well lol ye he got hit by a girl!! he sent a few textx then went quiet.maybe you need to let someone else pick up the phone & screw at her actuall. the thought of other pple getting involved makes pple go away coz they hate looking like an ass to other people

[missBee]

Bring her in, strip her off, pull out the rubber, put it on the D, get close to entry...Then last min shriek in horror and ask her wtf that is growing on her flaps.Kick her out in a flurry, (need to wait for her to re-dress) then cuss her from the window as she walks off your doorstep.

lmao!!