Pro Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 Do you think some form of fear is necessary in a healthy relationship? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 No That's not healthy Respect yourself and your partner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QPR Dee Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 No Fear leads to control If you need to control you're a c*nt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Badman Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 I agree with this to a certain extent. There should be a level of fear from both sides imo, but not the kind which is self inflicted. More an awareness that certain actions will lead to consequences, so not to be acting reckless 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
underwriter Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 IF YOU DONT FEAR - ITS NOT REAL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supermalt Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 I agree with this to a certain extent. There should be a level of fear from both sides imo, but not the kind which is self inflicted. More an awareness that certain actions will lead to consequences, so not to be acting reckless This Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilwarrior Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 needs to be a small amount of fear. Its not controlling... No ones saying you must threaten or act violently. If you're fearless, your behaviour will cause your own suffering Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yung bawse Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 Small amount of fear is required for all relationships Man and woman Man and dog Man and his fellow employees it can't be forced though, some people have it, some don't.. It's the 1s that don't that turn into controlling weirdos 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 What you mean fear that you would cheat? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yung bawse Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 No not like that, just that air of how you wont take the bullshit/any violations Some man allow themselves to be walked over then wonder why they're being walked over Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 Should a person fear the consequences of cheating or should they respect their significant other enough to not do it? Should they fear the consequences of what could happen to them or fear the upset of their partner (which is respect in a way)? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yung bawse Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 what they should or shouldn't do is irrelevant, its not 1 or the other.. Both fear and respect should be there When you're angry and not thinking respect isn't going to stop you, that will soon be forgotten.. Fear isn't forgotten A dog can respect you but without fear of consequences he's still going to teef that bit of meat off your plate Same logic applies to a friend, respect isn't always going to stop him moving to your ex but fear will Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 ....about fear that dnt stop no one doing what they doing if they get down like that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yung bawse Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 Fear will stop a lot more things than what respect will IMO But if you have both you're winning 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supermalt Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 Should a person fear the consequences of cheating or should they respect their significant other enough to not do it? Should they fear the consequences of what could happen to them or fear the upset of their partner (which is respect in a way)? lol you just dont like the word fear, but it is what it is. its: fear = respect rather than fear = superiority Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nidge Weasle Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 i would hate the women i love to fear me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yung bawse Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 It's the way a religious person both loves and fears God Or 'a feeling of anxiety concerning the outcome of something' 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nidge Weasle Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 it's nothing like a persons relationship with God Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yung bawse Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 Oh course it is, you're not scared of the person/thing, you're anxious about the outcome of your actions Works both ways, if you know 100% your girl will leave you then you're a lot less likely to be unfaithful as if you've cheated before and she lets you off That's the fear I'm talking about anyway People aren't scared of god they're anxious about the chance of not being accepted by him/it due to their actions That's my interpretation someone's relationship with god but I'm not religious Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nidge Weasle Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 hmmm i was saying you cant compare the fear people have for God compared to the fear people might have for a human. / not cheating on your mrs cause she will leave you has nothing to do with fear, it should be about love. if there is fear, its not fear of the women but fear of not having her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
underwriter Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 loooooooooooooooooool Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yung bawse Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 hmmm i was saying you cant compare the fear people have for God compared to the fear people might have for a human. / not cheating on your mrs cause she will leave you has nothing to do with fear, it should be about love. if there is fear, its not fear of the women but fear of not having her But it's still her you fear because you know she's strong enough to leave without lookin back where as you could be with a girl you can walk over which has no fear in it and can lead you into unfaithfulness or just unfaithful acts That fear that no violations will be accepted is the fear you need in a healthy relationship IMO (from both sides) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nidge Weasle Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 its not fear! i dont know, lets just agree to disagree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yung bawse Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 There's no right or wrong answer anyway Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim Posted December 30, 2015 Report Share Posted December 30, 2015 Just love like you have never been hurt.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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