Reivax ™ Posted May 24, 2010 Report Share Posted May 24, 2010 My uncle's been dealing with some f*ckery movements for his wedding, but then again some aint that f*ckery he's just being real.He and his fiancé have been arranging the invitations. Now they have friends but they don't like their other half, so what they have basically done is invited just the friends and not the other half on the invitation letter.So my uncle is basically saying, if they ring up and say can so and so go, he will say "What does the invitation letter say?" with no qualms lol and if they decide not to go then so be it./Now say if your in that position where a friend invites you to a wedding and not your other half, would you go? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charliechalk Posted May 24, 2010 Report Share Posted May 24, 2010 Obviously, it's their decision who they want at their wedding init. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 Yeah i would still go but why ban all partners? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelo Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 Depending on how well I knew a friend of mine, and how long I'd been with my partner, if he barred her, I wouldn't go.It's their wedding and I'd respect that, but I'd also respectfully bow out.lol @ any of my friends not inviting my other half though. Just lol.Sounds like some bullshit cost saving in disguise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lemons Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 I go to extreme lengths to avoid my own partner so I'd be pretty happy with this arrangement. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KayGee Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 It would depend on the reasoning tbh. Its a difficult one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
E.A.S.E Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 Depending on how well I knew a friend of mine, and how long I'd been with my partner, if he barred her, I wouldn't go.It's their wedding and I'd respect that, but I'd also respectfully bow out.lol @ any of my friends not inviting my other half though. Just lol.Sounds like some bullshit cost saving in disguise.Basically this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kurious Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 I go to extreme lengths to avoid my own partner so I'd be pretty happy with this arrangement. id be like 'aww deep, they like me more than u, how dare they i must go and sabotage in your honor'come home 'omdz twas SICK u shudda been there...oh...oh yh ' 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lisa Turtle Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 Tbh there would be no reason to dislike my partner in the first place tbh. So if its a serious relationship that I'm in and you don't want him there, we're not going. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaiKkoNen Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 Tbh there would be no reason to dislike my partner in the first place tbh. So if its a serious relationship that I'm in and you don't want him there, we're not going.Spoilsport. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nola D Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 Tbh there would be no reason to dislike my partner in the first place tbh. So if its a serious relationship that I'm in and you don't want him there, we're not going.c/s Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 Thats a bit deep though. I would have to absolutely despise my friends partner to exclude them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mame Biram Diouf Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 but people just assume there partner is invited or bring them anywaycant see you uncle saying go away when they turn up all dressed up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lisa Turtle Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 Make it clear on the invite then. Most organised parties I go to say plus one on it. Unless my other friends are invited, I wouldn't be going to an event completely by myself.If an invite didn't say plus one on it I wouldn't assume that I could bring someone, I would clarify with the celebrant. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yuri Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 u sound like quite the party queen :D"celebrant" you know 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lisa Turtle Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 Lol allow me. Its a word my parents/uncles/aunties useI wouldn't say I'm a party queen tbh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lisa Turtle Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 You would be incorrect then young man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lemons Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 But do you like to party though? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lisa Turtle Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 Not really. I'm quite awkward in social settings. I'm the wet blanket that leaves early or doesn't come in the first place. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lemons Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 What I'm saying is, do you want to party with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lisa Turtle Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 Nah its okay lemons. I already have my party partner for the rare occasion I'll attend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lens Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 is it not an unwritten rule that wedding invitations are "+1"?still, makes sense if it's some1 You know and dnt like. if You never met their partner, no need 2 ban them, but allow having someone You dislike at Your wedding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skola Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 its all been said but this reminds me of a recent weddingmy cousin got married. invited his aunt (my mum) and I but didnt invite his uncle. they live in the same city.i was shocked tbh. they arent on bad terms or anything they are just not....close.i feel for my mum coz her brothers are doctors etc and dont really make time for the rest of their family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guillermo Rigondeaux Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 Tbh there would be no reason to dislike my partner in the first place tbh. So if its a serious relationship that I'm in and you don't want him there, we're not going.ur partners coming on tour with me,gaffer,gambino,philos and the lads 2 falarakisnmwhats happens on tour stays on tourbirds banter and booze ooo f*ckin wants it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest M12 Part 2 Posted May 25, 2010 Report Share Posted May 25, 2010 Tbh there would be no reason to dislike my partner in the first place tbh. So if its a serious relationship that I'm in and you don't want him there, we're not going.ur partners coming on tour with me,gaffer,gambino,philos and the lads 2 falarakisnmwhats happens on tour stays on tourbirds banter and booze ooo f*ckin wants it 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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