How big is your circle

[DINKY]

just my brother told me he see u down west end

[Carpe_Deum]

Aye Jamal.It's fashionable to be misanthropist.I have to say that I do get along with people very easily so naturally I do trust people in general especially as the vast majority of people I've known have been (as far I know) trustworthy.

Yea man, same ere.

wow, me and jamal agree on something. 08 shall be a good year

[smaddy]

thats y i get bare air from old fogeys over here they r 2 moany in the west indies u see an old lady ur like 'good morning/eve/night'and she will have big convo with u about life in generalhere nowold ppl just kiss their teeth or look at u like 'get out of it'scurry away like the shook little burdens they are

LMFAOits mainly london tho, in brum u c someone more than once, you say somethingin london no ones even lookin, speciallly come winter timesJAMALits not often people grow from young without trusting people, u come to realise that it isnt a good ideatalking to someone and being friendly isnt the same as trusting themi can get on with people if i choose, doesnt mean im goin to tell them my secrets the only thing you can keep to yourself in this world is whats in your headtrust is BIG THINGand i think your being a pedant with this trust and 'trust in'

[Train]

Aye Jamal.It's fashionable to be misanthropist.I have to say that I do get along with people very easily so naturally I do trust people in general especially as the vast majority of people I've known have been (as far I know) trustworthy.

Yea man, same ere.

wow, me and jamal agree on something. 08 shall be a good year

If I recall correctly, thats the second time youve said that now. 2008 is looking bright.

[Lofa]

To be fair, smaddy has a pointFrom a young age you learn to not trust any old sodeg: don't take sweets off the man in the trenchcoat EVERRRR

[Train]

thats y i get bare air from old fogeys over here they r 2 moany in the west indies u see an old lady ur like 'good morning/eve/night'and she will have big convo with u about life in generalhere nowold ppl just kiss their teeth or look at u like 'get out of it'scurry away like the shook little burdens they are

LMFAOits mainly london tho, in brum u c someone more than once, you say somethingin london no ones even lookin, speciallly come winter timesJAMALits not often people grow from young without trusting people, u come to realise that it isnt a good ideatalking to someone and being friendly isnt the same as trusting themi can get on with people if i choose, doesnt mean im goin to tell them my secrets the only thing you can keep to yourself in this world is whats in your headtrust is BIG THINGand i think your being a pedant with this trust and 'trust in'

Thin line between me being a pedant and you not agreeing or understanding me.

[kurious]

Aye Jamal.It's fashionable to be misanthropist.I have to say that I do get along with people very easily so naturally I do trust people in general especially as the vast majority of people I've known have been (as far I know) trustworthy.

Yea man, same ere.

wow, me and jamal agree on something. 08 shall be a good year

If I recall correctly, thats the second time youve said that now. 2008 is looking bright.

'guuuy love'

[Gaara]

Big enough for me.I have close friends, friends and aqquaintances(sp) but in terms of this group ting more time i'd rather move solo.

[ChickenCottage]

Nuff heads up on here have next trust issues.NOT EVERYONE IS LOOKING TO f*ck YOU OVER BRUV.Its cool, just let me hold you innit.

[Yoshie]

'baat 10 boys 5 girls in school.Coupla people I live near too.Don't mix.

[Karizma]

i have a few circles i ride in...the hustlers...rappers...gyal dem man dem...older g's...scholars...gym guysmy immediate fam consists of 2 or 3 dudes though...them is the guys that can jus show up round mine without callin or go in my fridge and my mom wudnt bat an eyelidK-dot.1

[Shawn_Carter]

Not in a circle. I tend to drift between different ones and can fit in into most ones, just act differently with each group. I think I deliberately avoid getting too attached with a particular person/group of people cos I hate it when people associate me with other people, like when someone says "oh yeh you and so-and-so are best friends innit" i get this reflex to kill off my relationship with so-and-so.

[ShowermanSamuel]

Its kinda hard to find people with the same attitudes as you as you get older, people who wont drain your soul with their bullshit.Im open to meeting new people still, they just have to be the right type of people cos the older you get the less time for drama you have.

These two points are so true. I've had to drop couple people and come back to them a couple years later cos of the top one still and we're totally bless now that they caught up with my way of thinking.These days I have prob 3-4 close freinds that I see regularly - but mainly on a raving tip. I'm a grown man now I don't need to 'roll' with people everyday to feel contented.But I got certain heads that I don't even need to see regulalry, even once a month or two... When we buck up it's like I saw them yesterday. I've had too many people try tell me suttin cos they don't see me for a while - Why do you need to be up in each others sh*t all the time for it to count as a friendship?Bare outside circles though - youngers round the area, family, work friends, musical acquaintences etc - It's all love with them but they don't need to be in my life every day.

[juju]

some good points raised in this thread u know...feelin what carpe's sayin about the british reserved-ness

Not in a circle. I tend to drift between different ones and can fit in into most ones, just act differently with each group. I think I deliberately avoid getting too attached with a particular person/group of people cos I hate it when people associate me with other people, like when someone says "oh yeh you and so-and-so are best friends innit" i get this reflex to kill off my relationship with so-and-so.

this is me, this is me too but im not sure if its very healthy, also i've found this like facebook make this whole thing 1000x worse

[En Sabah Nur]

used 2 hav the safe boys, the party boys, the good time lads and the 1s hu no fit girlsb4 my alevels i cut all that sh*t out my lifeonly chill wiv my real dargs now, boys hu i known 4 years. is the best way, allow fake friends

[Removal Man]

plenty cirlces, plenty friends in all circlesdon;t limit myself to one typa person see...oh, and if u think its all bout havin kids by 27... i feel for ya

[Ella]

I have friends that I went to primary school with, secondary school, and college. Those that I work with, live near, go uni with and the fam. But i'm not really close with any of them apart from my cousins and two girls and 1 guy I went to school with.

[Flat Eric]

Basically the same as this Ella woman above me.