Shawn_Carter Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 ^^^ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cipher Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 I feel for you.You cant really MAKE IT happen, it just happens, its like "time heals all wounds"Try cutting whoever it is out of your life, deleting numbers, deleting msn/myspace etc.Losing contact with them will help you forget about them, but then sh*t comes back twice as strong when you happen to see them in a club or something...:SThose are things to help, also mocing onto someoen else, but that doesnt really work with LOVE, so if that is the case, you haev to try jus soldier it innit, time is a healer......you qill likely have to go through months of pain/awkwardness to get over it, even years.Gettting someoen else is a short term answer, but it isnt fair to drag someoen else itno somethign and cause them to have feelings for you, in order to heal yourself, then ou en du p f*cking them over and they are in the same position that you were in if you get me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn_Carter Posted January 8, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 I feel for you.You cant really MAKE IT happen, it just happens, its like "time heals all wounds"Try cutting whoever it is out of your life, deleting numbers, deleting msn/myspace etc.Losing contact with them will help you forget about them, but then sh*t comes back twice as strong when you happen to see them in a club or something...:SThose are things to help, also mocing onto someoen else, but that doesnt really work with LOVE, so if that is the case, you haev to try jus soldier it innit, time is a healer......you qill likely have to go through months of pain/awkwardness to get over it, even years.Gettting someoen else is a short term answer, but it isnt fair to drag someoen else itno somethign and cause them to have feelings for you, in order to heal yourself, then ou en du p f*cking them over and they are in the same position that you were in if you get me...safei thought bout cutting her out and everything but like you said i would probably end up seeing her sometime anyway cos some of the people i would go out with go out with some of the people she goes out with etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 so you got dumped or dumped her but regret it yeah?gonna take TIMEmaybe years one year minimum and thats cuttin it fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 ask gunner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Link as many new chicks as you can.This will show you how much is out there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cipher Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 I feel for you.You cant really MAKE IT happen, it just happens, its like "time heals all wounds"Try cutting whoever it is out of your life, deleting numbers, deleting msn/myspace etc.Losing contact with them will help you forget about them, but then sh*t comes back twice as strong when you happen to see them in a club or something...:SThose are things to help, also mocing onto someoen else, but that doesnt really work with LOVE, so if that is the case, you haev to try jus soldier it innit, time is a healer......you qill likely have to go through months of pain/awkwardness to get over it, even years.Gettting someoen else is a short term answer, but it isnt fair to drag someoen else itno somethign and cause them to have feelings for you, in order to heal yourself, then ou en du p f*cking them over and they are in the same position that you were in if you get me...safei thought bout cutting her out and everything but like you said i would probably end up seeing her sometime anyway cos some of the people i would go out with go out with some of the people she goes out with etc.You can try completely avoid that circle of friends, but that probly isnt practical for you, so I think the long, healing road might be the best thing...Still you could ask your man/gyaldem to be discreet innit, if you know what I mean, like if they goin out, not to be invitin her when they know you goin..Try focusing your time/energy on something else, career/football/games etc, just something to fill the void in your life & mind. Keeping yourself busy is a good way to keep things off your mind, though this again, may be delaying the inevitable, that one day you probly gotta come to terms with stuff, it stinks but it is always that way ....*regretful look* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn_Carter Posted January 8, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Link as many new chicks as you can.This will show you how much is out there.the thing is i can sex other chicks but i dont feel anything for them at all.where as i keep thinking about this other girl.i try think of all the things i dislike about her and sometimes i almost extremely dislike her, but at the same time still have feelings/love (im not sure) for her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn_Carter Posted January 8, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 You can try completely avoid that circle of friends, but that probly isnt practical for you, so I think the long, healing road might be the best thing...Still you could ask your man/gyaldem to be discreet innit, if you know what I mean, like if they goin out, not to be invitin her when they know you goin..Try focusing your time/energy on something else, career/football/games etc, just something to fill the void in your life & mind. Keeping yourself busy is a good way to keep things off your mind, though this again, may be delaying the inevitable, that one day you probly gotta come to terms with stuff, it stinks but it is always that way ....*regretful look*so basically im gonna be depressed for ages?i am pissed stilli just wanna stop caring about her, to the point where sometimes i dont even like her no more but i cant help it cos i still 'love' her at the same time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
En Sabah Nur Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 u no wat man, i can honestly say im finally past the barrier of caring 4 the ex wifeytook me like 6 monthslast nyt had a massive bust up wiv her, sed alot of things that i neeeded 2 say2day we had an on a level chat. talked everything thrugoin our own seperate ways now n im much better 4 itword of advice, dnt stay friends wiv her. with a normal ex then yeh u myt b able 2 get away with it, but neva wiv an ex wifeythe feelings will always b there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supernova Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 If ur lucky like meit might go very quuickit dependson circumstances really...but stilli thought i wa sin love and than we must of broke up in beginning of July....i was over it by nend of julybut i guess u shud mvoe on blah blahhave some fun cut males/females out ur life for a few weeks go out with ya sistren dem or ur bredrin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cipher Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Link as many new chicks as you can.This will show you how much is out there.the thing is i can sex other chicks but i dont feel anything for them at all.where as i keep thinking about this other girl.i try think of all the things i dislike about her and sometimes i almost extremely dislike her, but at the same time still have feelings/love (im not sure) for her.Yeh I know what you mean thre^ Cuz even the dislike feeling, is connected to the fact that yo ulike/feel something for her..Try not to just link & f*ck girls, try to get to know a few of em better, you may start to like them, then you can start to forget about this current girl.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cipher Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 You can try completely avoid that circle of friends, but that probly isnt practical for you, so I think the long, healing road might be the best thing...Still you could ask your man/gyaldem to be discreet innit, if you know what I mean, like if they goin out, not to be invitin her when they know you goin..Try focusing your time/energy on something else, career/football/games etc, just something to fill the void in your life & mind. Keeping yourself busy is a good way to keep things off your mind, though this again, may be delaying the inevitable, that one day you probly gotta come to terms with stuff, it stinks but it is always that way ....*regretful look*so basically im gonna be depressed for ages?i am pissed stilli just wanna stop caring about her, to the point where sometimes i dont even like her no more but i cant help it cos i still 'love' her at the same timeYeh, try talking things over with her/voicing what you are pissed about, this should give you peice of mind, just airing your greivances with her, then you should be able to break way more easily...but yea im afraid, you probly will be depressed for a little while at least.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn_Carter Posted January 8, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Link as many new chicks as you can.This will show you how much is out there.the thing is i can sex other chicks but i dont feel anything for them at all.where as i keep thinking about this other girl.i try think of all the things i dislike about her and sometimes i almost extremely dislike her, but at the same time still have feelings/love (im not sure) for her.Yeh I know what you mean thre^ Cuz even the dislike feeling, is connected to the fact that yo ulike/feel something for her..Try not to just link & f*ck girls, try to get to know a few of em better, you may start to like them, then you can start to forget about this current girl..yeh, safeits just it sounds weird, but cos like i WANT to stop thinking bout her etc. but sometimes i think like "sh*t, i might never see her again" and that kinda scares me. or maybe scared isnt the right word but, boy, its difficult, thanks for the advice still Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LIQUID Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 there is no way to make urself fall out of love with someone, its just one of them things that ur gonna have to deal with head on.besides vip an other forums, talk to someone in person this can really help. but make sure the person u talk to is UR friends and not hers, an make sure they real, cah no one likes their bizness the word on road.i found that getting rid of anything that reminded me of her (ie txts, fone number, msn, pics, gifts, items, etc) helped alot but did not make me fall out of love, it just assisted.time and ur mind state are the biggest healersEDIT:also acceptance and forgivness. accept that its over, and work on forgiving her for whatever makes u feel u dislike her. if u love or hate someone they are in ur heart, if u forgive them, then they are no longer, ucmi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cipher Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Link as many new chicks as you can.This will show you how much is out there.the thing is i can sex other chicks but i dont feel anything for them at all.where as i keep thinking about this other girl.i try think of all the things i dislike about her and sometimes i almost extremely dislike her, but at the same time still have feelings/love (im not sure) for her.Yeh I know what you mean thre^ Cuz even the dislike feeling, is connected to the fact that yo ulike/feel something for her..Try not to just link & f*ck girls, try to get to know a few of em better, you may start to like them, then you can start to forget about this current girl..yeh, safeits just it sounds weird, but cos like i WANT to stop thinking bout her etc. but sometimes i think like "sh*t, i might never see her again" and that kinda scares me. or maybe scared isnt the right word but, boy, its difficult, thanks for the advice stillIts cool man, here to help, as liquid said, time & your mindstate are the biggest healers.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scorpzz Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 As others have said time is the only healer.I wouldn't stay friends with her either, it will only make the process longer.Just avoid and when you find yourself drifiting off thinking about her, just stop and think about something else.I don't even think it's the feelings that make the process longer, probably the memories. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cipher Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 As others have said time is the only healer.I wouldn't stay friends with her either, it will only make the process longer.Just avoid and when you find yourself drifiting off thinking about her, just stop and think about something else.I don't even think it's the feelings that make the process longer, probably the memories. Yeh I agree... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn_Carter Posted January 8, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 As others have said time is the only healer.I wouldn't stay friends with her either, it will only make the process longer.Just avoid and when you find yourself drifiting off thinking about her, just stop and think about something else.I don't even think it's the feelings that make the process longer, probably the memories. Yeh I agree...this is what's killing mei must spent ages everyday just thinking about her and remembering dumb sh*t like making her laugh or something we did together and then il snap out of it and feel like sh*t. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 As days, months, years go by, you'll think about her less and less, and eventually your feelings will die down and you'll move on.Linkin other girls doesn't help move on, coz when it's not good it'll remind you of what you had with your ex when it was good.Take time, focus on you, and what you want to improve on in your life. You'll find that girls will notice you (moving on doing your thing).Can't avoid things for now. Some days you'll be cool, and other days it'll bun you like crazy, especially when hearing she's met someone.Short of it is, do your thing, focus on you and move on that way! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Can't believe I missed this out.DON'T STAY IN CONTACT WITH HER. CUT HER OUT.Doesn't help at all! Friends with ex's is LONG! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dotcomma Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 took me nearly 7months to get over my ex of 2 years.it took that long bcos we tried to be friends but we found that we'd try 'outdo' each other in slittle ways. Not on a bait childish thing but it would jus come up that one of us hate a date or sutting then the other would react.Say if she rang me and i was at a chicks yard she'd get mad then remembr we aint together but its too late.Staying friends means ur probly gona still f*ck bcos its normal, to you, which in turn equals still being attached.Cut her off. Worked for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djbmc Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 get out of the routine u were in when u started to have them feelings. Go somewhere new, meet new ppl so u feel u have moved on and soon you'll cringe when u look back on the feelings u had. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Link as many new chicks as you can.This will show you how much is out there.not soyou can f*ck as many or whoever they could be celebs but you will still think about your main squeeze cos you love hercome on toney you know this is lies what if it was you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipset Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Yup, can be a hard and long processMeeting other ppl is a good thing, although ull end up comparing ure ex to themJust gotta be patient and wait 4 ur feelings to die down. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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