Drama

[Mystery]

ok my lil sis is seeing this guy and everything was going good UNTIL his EX calls him and tells him she is pregnant and is keeping it? WTF? What advice would u give and y? how would u handle the situation if this was you?TBH i think my man still has feeling for his EX, though he says he dont coz she f*cked out on him, but boy, you just never know. HELP!Would b easy 2 tell her 2 walk away, only if she didnt care bout him, on real my man seems 2 care about her, but as we all know sh*t can b deceiving u know?

That's why ppl are slewing & don't believe you, your better off just saying its you. You would have got a better response.On topic:All I'm gonna say is at the age of 24 she (you) should do what she (you) wants to do right or wrong. f*ck what ppl think, live your life.Sister or not (you), leave her to it (do you).

well im guessing there aint really no trust in this relationship, true you say that he still has feeling for his ex and what makes it worse is that thier having a baby so there is always going to be that possiblity that when the baby comes he will get back together with his EX. So tell your sick to get out from now, it's only gona get harder when the baby comes.TELL HER 2 RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN lol

[Goddaz]

Mystery, are you & 1andonly the same?IP check somebodyBtw why did you quote me? Your addressing 1andonly's 'sis' but imo I think its her & not her sis soooooooooooooo? lol

[Mystery]

Mystery, are you & 1andonly the same?IP check somebodyBtw why did you quote me? Your addressing 1andonly's 'sis' but imo I think its her & not her sis soooooooooooooo? lol

Sorry, to quote, im still new to this didn't mean to.No i am me n 1andonly is who ever she is. Ip it if you like. Sorry 4 any stress im new to this site and just wanted to give my opinion on this topic.

[shaian]

if my man said he got NO feelings for his ex, y ppl sayin llow it. if he dont have feelings for her then whats the probbabies dont = relationships

[Mystery]

if my man said he got NO feelings for his ex, y ppl sayin llow it. if he dont have feelings for her then whats the probbabies dont = relationships

At times babes do = relationship. How do you know that when the baby don't drop my man aint gona feel different? say you was the man, can you really say you can grantee your girl that this sh*t won't happen?So if he got no feeling 4 her why is she having his baby.Run yes. To much unnecessary dramas.

[Soca Junkie]

ok my lil sis is seeing this guy and everything was going good UNTIL his EX calls him and tells him she is pregnant and is keeping it? WTF? What advice would u give and y? how would u handle the situation if this was you?TBH i think my man still has feeling for his EX, though he says he dont coz she f*cked out on him, but boy, you just never know. HELP!Would b easy 2 tell her 2 walk away, only if she didnt care bout him, on real my man seems 2 care about her, but as we all know sh*t can b deceiving u know?

That's why ppl are slewing & don't believe you, your better off just saying its you. You would have got a better response.On topic:All I'm gonna say is at the age of 24 she (you) should do what she (you) wants to do right or wrong. f*ck what ppl think, live your life.Sister or not (you), leave her to it (do you).

''My man'' is slang still. Not her man literally. A lot of people getting confused though lol

[A Bit Better]

1andonly, how old are you?

[Uncle Man]

how comes yr both repping moon gang

[1andonly]

25, shes just turned 24.And just 2 clear things it is not my situation. It is my sisters, as Soca Junkie pointed out, i did mean 'my man' in slang terms. thank u 4 point out how it mayb (is) confusing, I do agree should have made it more clear and will try 2 watch this in future.As 4 the ip address, pls feel free, and if u wanna check my age im sure admin can confirm

[The Drama]

If she loves him and he loves her then they could try and make things work. But the ex will make things difficult so the relationship will either make or break. Let time take its toll.

[Goddaz]

ok my lil sis is seeing this guy and everything was going good UNTIL his EX calls him and tells him she is pregnant and is keeping it? WTF? What advice would u give and y? how would u handle the situation if this was you?TBH i think my man still has feeling for his EX, though he says he dont coz she f*cked out on him, but boy, you just never know. HELP!Would b easy 2 tell her 2 walk away, only if she didnt care bout him, on real my man seems 2 care about her, but as we all know sh*t can b deceiving u know?

That's why ppl are slewing & don't believe you, your better off just saying its you. You would have got a better response.On topic:All I'm gonna say is at the age of 24 she (you) should do what she (you) wants to do right or wrong. f*ck what ppl think, live your life.Sister or not (you), leave her to it (do you).

''My man'' is slang still. Not her man literally. A lot of people getting confused though lol

Thank you for the definition & clarification I'm just convinced she's talking about herself thats all.

[Guest Flat Eric]

Could've sworn I posted in this topic. . .Oh well

[A Bit Better]

1andonly, how old are you? (Thought I had asked this before but can't find the post.)Edit: Looking at what Eric posted I have a feeling I actually did post this already.

[kurious]

i met this guy he was like 'i dont like drama'and i said 'what about role play?'any relevance? meh...

[violet]

all depends on their relationship and their life situation tbhno one can really say what they should do.people can say what they would do in this situation...but at the end of the day it your sisters decision.all i know is that would be a lot of stress to handle...it would put a lot of strain on their relationship.especially if he really does still have feelings for the ex.depends whether she thinks she can handle it init.have you spoken to her about it? has she indicated what she wants to do?

What makes this stutation hard is that if i tell her to leave him then she just thinks im being big sis and pickin on her, tryin a ruin her life etc.I think she could handle the stress if he was being true.....But really and truly, deep down, i think she knows what has 2 b done its just hard 2 let go sometimes...?!Thanks btw

tbh it sounds like you are acting a bit like the interferring big sis...(no offence)if she thinks she can handle it then you should let her try...just because hes having the baby with the ex it doesn't mean their relationship is doomed to fail.but even if they manage to maintain their relationships through this drama and end up staying serious...when they try and move their relationship to next levels...like living together (maybe they already do i don't know), getting married, having a baby of their own...that child and his ex may cause problems with all of these.just make sure she knows that its not just the initial drama that she needs to think about...but what it means for the future of their relationship too.

[Badman]

Could've sworn I posted in this topic. . .Oh well

lol happens to me all the time

[Guest Cousin Of Sleep]

Could've sworn I posted in this topic. . .Oh well

lol happens to me all the time

Memory loss is one of the many side-effects of

[shaian]

if my man said he got NO feelings for his ex, y ppl sayin llow it. if he dont have feelings for her then whats the probbabies dont = relationships

At times babes do = relationship. you said it, AT TIMESHow do you know that when the baby don't drop my man aint gona feel different? how do you know he wont feel diffsay you was the man, can you really say you can grantee your girl that this sh*t won't happen?nothingin life is guaranteed, but deathSo if he got no feeling 4 her why is she having his baby.SHE, is having the baby, not HIM. regardless what is said when a baby is involved, its the woman who has the final decision in bringing a child into this worldRun yes. To much unnecessary dramas. yes it is unnecessary dramas. but also, topic starter never said how the ex came into play. was it the man cheated on her sister with the x. or what, we dont know that.

[o-guy]

ok my lil sis is seeing this guy and everything was going good UNTIL his EX calls him and tells him she is pregnant and is keeping it? WTF? What advice would u give and y? how would u handle the situation if this was you?TBH i think my man still has feeling for his EX, though he says he dont coz she f*cked out on him, but boy, you just never know. HELP!Would b easy 2 tell her 2 walk away, only if she didnt care bout him, on real my man seems 2 care about her, but as we all know sh*t can b deceiving u know?

That's why ppl are slewing & don't believe you, your better off just saying its you. You would have got a better response.On topic:All I'm gonna say is at the age of 24 she (you) should do what she (you) wants to do right or wrong. f*ck what ppl think, live your life.Sister or not (you), leave her to it (do you).

''My man'' is slang still. Not her man literally. A lot of people getting confused though lol

Thank you for the definition & clarification I'm just convinced she's talking about herself thats all.

y are u trying it 4always acting up uneccessrilyas if to say yur something more than u areu probably think that in topics like this u drop truth, or some form of unseen wisdomu really dn'tmost of the time u either say wats already been said and act like u were the first to say itor just chat sh*tu add nothing... always an yur poor attemts at wit, like the high lighted recieve air sit dwnseriously

[Mystery]

if my man said he got NO feelings for his ex, y ppl sayin llow it. if he dont have feelings for her then whats the probbabies dont = relationships

At times babes do = relationship. you said it, AT TIMESHow do you know that when the baby don't drop my man aint gona feel different? how do you know he wont feel diffsay you was the man, can you really say you can grantee your girl that this sh*t won't happen?nothingin life is guaranteed, but deathSo if he got no feeling 4 her why is she having his baby.SHE, is having the baby, not HIM. regardless what is said when a baby is involved, its the woman who has the final decision in bringing a child into this worldRun yes. To much unnecessary dramas. yes it is unnecessary dramas. but also, topic starter never said how the ex came into play. was it the man cheated on her sister with the x. or what, we dont know that.

1st of I'd like to make it CLEAR that this ain't my DRAMA, I was simply stating how i would tell me lil sis or any other female to handle this mad situation.As for the Ex, f*ck knows, your going to have to wait for 1andonly to get up on here and reply as i don't know the whole story, i only know as much as you.But i'm replying to you as you quoted what i had wrote.Yeah, how do we know he ain't gona feel diff, i guess no1 will know until the baby is here, but at the end of the day it all boils down to how he treats his girls and how he acts with his ex, cause its obvious that the ex is going to be first priority as she is the one having the baby. So if the guy is in a loving relationship with his girl and he's treating her and giving her the reassurance she needs then yeah, i do agree with you that the relationship can work. its not going to be easy but it can work.Its going to be hard as the ex will be a big part of his life, but its how he handles the situation that will effect the outcome of his relationship.As for the ex having the baby, its a two way thing and i'm sure if he dealt with it properly from the start there would be no baby. But i cant really say to much about that, true some women just do what they want to do regardless the outcome.And yes, nothing in life is guaranteed apart from death, but just remember that it all depends how the guys handle the situation himself, for example is he going to be real involved, like going to anti natal classes with his ex and to scans and that, and how is his girl going to feel. tbh, i think its going to be a hard road to go down, the relationship is going to have to much stain on it regardless how the situation is handled.But hey, who am i to say whats wrong and whats right, im just here like you trying to give my opinion on this drama, which is just long, seems like a load of heartache for nothing, as we all know which way its going to end and it aint in favor of the girlfriend.

[hhhhhhh8]

Unless you have an inability to do so I advise you (and by you I of course mean your 'sister') to get a new boyfriend.

[FACE OFF]

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[Em Dott]

ok my lil sis is seeing this guy and everything was going good UNTIL his EX calls him and tells him she is pregnant and is keeping it? WTF? What advice would u give and y? how would u handle the situation if this was you?TBH i think my man still has feeling for his EX, though he says he dont coz she f*cked out on him, but boy, you just never know. HELP!Would b easy 2 tell her 2 walk away, only if she didnt care bout him, on real my man seems 2 care about her, but as we all know sh*t can b deceiving u know?

That's why ppl are slewing & don't believe you, your better off just saying its you. You would have got a better response.On topic:All I'm gonna say is at the age of 24 she (you) should do what she (you) wants to do right or wrong. f*ck what ppl think, live your life.Sister or not (you), leave her to it (do you).

''My man'' is slang still. Not her man literally. A lot of people getting confused though lol

Thank you for the definition & clarification I'm just convinced she's talking about herself thats all.

y are u trying it 4always acting up uneccessrilyas if to say yur something more than u areu probably think that in topics like this u drop truth, or some form of unseen wisdomu really dn'tmost of the time u either say wats already been said and act like u were the first to say itor just chat sh*tu add nothing... always an yur poor attemts at wit, like the high lighted recieve air sit dwnseriously

Calm down boss.

[Guest Mr. BLK]

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[1andonly]

yes it is unnecessary dramas. but also, topic starter never said how the ex came into play. was it the man cheated on her sister with the x. or what, we dont know that. ShaianAs for the Ex, f*ck knows, your going to have to wait for 1andonly to get up on here and reply as i don't know the whole story, i only know as much as you. MysteryThanks to everyone that took the time out to read my post and reply. In reply to Shaian's Q.Him and the ex broke up, but they slept together before broke up and then 2months into the relationship, now ex says she's pregnant, so this is how the drama strarted.............. On a real my sis is a pretty girl, and good ppl, so she wouldn't have a problem finding some1 else, but she aint about that, think she has real feelings 4 this dude. Tbh i think my sis is going to end up moving on cause he ain't really been the same since he found out about the baby. He's kind of been distant with her, i think he really didn't expect this, and doesn't really know how to handle the whole situation. I know he likes my sis, but at the same time i can c he don't want to hurt her. But with him acting the way he is, he is hurting her, cause she's left here feeling confused. Like mystery said if the reassurance ain't there then she don't really have a leg to stand on. Especially as he is acting all funny with her.imo, i think he will go back to his ex for the simple fact that she is having the his baby. And his ex still seems to have a strong hold over him and even more so now that theres going to be a baby involved. He's showing love to the wrong girl, as apparently, they broke up because she was unfaithful. It's like he put the feeling he was starting to have for my sister on hold. It's bad for my sis as the relationship was all good before the ex came with her bullshit. But then if he's acting like this now whats he going to be like when the baby is here.........He needs to be a man about it and face his consequences and either tell my sis how he feels and whats really going on in his mind. What does he want, and is this relationship really going to work, then we can get progress, but most men would rather run away than to tell someone how they really feel. He's going to end up losing a good woman because of this.The joys of life.......