Bacardi_Up Posted June 16, 2008 Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 Ok here it is, my swagger has gone!I dunno how but it went.It's been 8 months since I last mashed a girl.I am a fat c*nt and not the greatest looking fella (I'm alright though) but that never stopped me before and women were drawn to me because of my swagger. I could get girls at my uni sheerly because of the confidence I exuded but somewhere between now and November of last year I have lost it.I used to get places with women would typically be way out of my league but I'm now to shy to even contemplate trying it on with girls, too afraid of rejection and I don't know how to get my swagger back.Any man here ever had a dip in confidence like mine how did you get it back if you did? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrbillion Posted June 16, 2008 Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 egfaert rgtaeqtyaq t hatdhthtahathLOLOLOLOLOL8 MONTHS .. WOWtbh .. das a gym ting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Posted June 16, 2008 Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 looked in the mirror tbhbut seeing as your fat and ugly i dunno matemaybe get on profilepic and get some of those myspace angle pics Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted June 16, 2008 Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 Well for a start, you shouldn't be so hard on yourself, i mean calling youself a fat c*nt does not reflect the portrait that you like your self image a lot. If you dont feel comfortable in your own skin, then do something about it ( dont do a wacko jacko thing though )and also by you saying .' im not the greatest looking fella ( im alright though ) NO NO NO make your self believe that infact you are indeed a fine looking man and you can get pretty much any woman out there.make the most of what you have got and try and work with it sumhow.nothing is sexier than a guy with confidence actually in this post, you are coming across as some what insecure , certain man eaters would take advantage at this and eat you alive * evil laugh * HA HA HA * Evil laugh *nah but if this is a geuwine post from threadstarter dude and not some joke thing, then i hope you get your confidence back soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mR ReZiW Posted June 16, 2008 Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 u probably never had swagger then. i may go through dry seasons but i never lose my swagger. ur swagger was fake. my swagger is actually MY SWAGGER. useeme Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacardi_Up Posted June 16, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 looked in the mirror tbhbut seeing as your fat and ugly i dunno matemaybe get on profilepic and get some of those myspace angle picsCorrection:Fat not ugly.Swagger used to be too much round uni, I would basically act as though I was the greatest guy in the world, had the confidence to pull off my own style (not the generic fad fashions). I could sing fairly well and used that so many times to my advantage.But now I find myself not shaving and sometimes growing a beard unintentionally, I ain't styling with my garms no more (well not as much as I used to).I just generally don't make as much of an effort anymore, I'm caught in a funk.I need that confidence back.Been feeling nuff tired of late went to a doctor and he reckoned I have depression. Went to a couple of counseling sessions and they were asking bullshit questions about bullshit topics like my childhood.The only time I really have any sort of confidence is when I am drunk and even then it doesn't compare to how I was in my first year at uni.As dumb as this may sound I have been considering going to a hypnotherapist to help me get my confidence back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anelka Posted June 16, 2008 Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 ouch! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Posted June 16, 2008 Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 looked in the mirror tbhbut seeing as your fat and ugly i dunno matemaybe get on profilepic and get some of those myspace angle picsCorrection:Fat not ugly.Swagger used to be too much round uni, I would basically act as though I was the greatest guy in the world, had the confidence to pull off my own style (not the generic fad fashions). I could sing fairly well and used that so many times to my advantage.But now I find myself not shaving and sometimes growing a beard unintentionally, I ain't styling with my garms no more (well not as much as I used to).I just generally don't make as much of an effort anymore, I'm caught in a funk.I need that confidence back.Been feeling nuff tired of late went to a doctor and he reckoned I have depression. Went to a couple of counseling sessions and they were asking bullshit questions about bullshit topics like my childhood.The only time I really have any sort of confidence is when I am drunk and even then it doesn't compare to how I was in my first year at uni.As dumb as this may sound I have been considering going to a hypnotherapist to help me get my confidence back.go on a shopping trip, get some of them nice garms u was feeling.take care of your appearance. If you feel better about how u actually look then u will naturally feel more confident. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacardi_Up Posted June 16, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 u probably never had swagger then. i may go through dry seasons but i never lose my swagger. ur swagger was fake. my swagger is actually MY SWAGGER. useemeBelieve me when I tell you the swagger was genuine and was too much.To be honest and I say this with no equivocation that the women I have pulled>>>>>>than them crusty hoodrat been bored through by 20 different man bitches that you go for.My swagger back when I had it>>>>>>>>your swagger ever was.Your swagger probably comes like the black guy in Kidhulthood when he is trying to chat up the police woman. Cringeworthy.Not sendage.Useeme. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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mR ReZiW Posted June 16, 2008 Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 u probably never had swagger then. i may go through dry seasons but i never lose my swagger. ur swagger was fake. my swagger is actually MY SWAGGER. useemeBelieve me when I tell you the swagger was genuine and was too much.To be honest and I say this with no equivocation that the women I have pulled>>>>>>than them crusty hoodrat been bored through by 20 different man bitches that you go for.My swagger back when I had it>>>>>>>>your swagger ever was.Your swagger probably comes like the black guy in Kidhulthood when he is trying to chat up the police woman. Cringeworthy.Not sendage.Useeme.im not even bothered to get involved in a war of words. u already deaded yourself numerous times in this thread and are trying to go back on ur words now u realised how sad u sound.so i'll repeat if u had 'genuine' swagger it wudnt be possible to lose it, as it is just YOU. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacardi_Up Posted June 16, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 looked in the mirror tbhbut seeing as your fat and ugly i dunno matemaybe get on profilepic and get some of those myspace angle picsCorrection:Fat not ugly.Swagger used to be too much round uni, I would basically act as though I was the greatest guy in the world, had the confidence to pull off my own style (not the generic fad fashions). I could sing fairly well and used that so many times to my advantage.But now I find myself not shaving and sometimes growing a beard unintentionally, I ain't styling with my garms no more (well not as much as I used to).I just generally don't make as much of an effort anymore, I'm caught in a funk.I need that confidence back.Been feeling nuff tired of late went to a doctor and he reckoned I have depression. Went to a couple of counseling sessions and they were asking bullshit questions about bullshit topics like my childhood.The only time I really have any sort of confidence is when I am drunk and even then it doesn't compare to how I was in my first year at uni.As dumb as this may sound I have been considering going to a hypnotherapist to help me get my confidence back.go on a shopping trip, get some of them nice garms u was feeling.take care of your appearance. If you feel better about how u actually look then u will naturally feel more confident.Might just do that.Lost 3/4 of stone in the last month and hoping to lose a 2 more by the end of the year. Might just take a little all day shopping trip and see if I can get myself feeling good again with some of them garms (but the level of slim fit sh*t pisses me off nowadays, place I used to go to don't do my size anymore).Need a haircut as well.Cheers mate, not bad advice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacardi_Up Posted June 16, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 u probably never had swagger then. i may go through dry seasons but i never lose my swagger. ur swagger was fake. my swagger is actually MY SWAGGER. useemeBelieve me when I tell you the swagger was genuine and was too much.To be honest and I say this with no equivocation that the women I have pulled>>>>>>than them crusty hoodrat been bored through by 20 different man bitches that you go for.My swagger back when I had it>>>>>>>>your swagger ever was.Your swagger probably comes like the black guy in Kidhulthood when he is trying to chat up the police woman. Cringeworthy.Not sendage.Useeme.im not even bothered to get involved in a war of words. u already deaded yourself numerous times in this thread and are trying to go back on ur words now u realised how sad u sound.so i'll repeat if u had 'genuine' swagger it wudnt be possible to lose it, as it is just YOU.What going back on my words? I told you the swagger was there but now it has gone along with my confidence.Swagger is linked to confidence, confidence has dropped and the doctor has been going on about depression which I initially took as nonsense but I dunno what to think anymore.Now the statement I was putting out there was that the confidence is gone and thus so has the swagger. How does this mean that I never had swagger?People go through their ups and downs and that is why I put this story out there, because maybe just maybe there is someone on this forum who knows what I am going through and has come out the other side. If I am indeed suffering from depression as the doc says, does that still mean I never had swagger?Perhaps I have made myself look sad but hey it's the internet, I ain't gonna shed tears over any man here. If that's what my situation appears to you like then that's your opinion.There are many guys that can come with fakeness and say they mash on a regs and their swagger>>>>>>>>>>>>______________ just because the internet has it's anonymity but I come with the truth and my real experiences because I don't feel the need to front. How I am in real like is how I am here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mR ReZiW Posted June 16, 2008 Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 never got the rezzy from emmerdale.but any, i never said u didnt have swagger. im just saying it was fake it obviously wasnt who u are as a person. maybe our definitions of 'swagger' is different. im saying swagger is 'within' u dnt need no fresh garms, fresh trim to have swagger. its just YOU, i cud be rocking charity shop garms and still have swagger. let me quote a hov bar'its only so long fake thugs can pretend' obviously u can see how that relates to u.btw llow catching feelings, this is my opinion init. u dnt know me so it shudnt matter that much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
local Posted June 16, 2008 Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 Well for a start, you shouldn't be so hard on yourself,comments like this will jus make him feel like more of a twati kno wot he means thogettin some new clothes is a gd ideaits normally some stupid random thing like a gal smilin at u or somethin that suddenly snaps u backu probably never had swagger then. i may go through dry seasons but i never lose my swagger. ur swagger was fake. my swagger is actually MY SWAGGER. useemewhy lie really95% of black geezas THINK they hav swagger......believe me........u don't.......every1 laughs at u Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacardi_Up Posted June 16, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 never got the rezzy from emmerdale.but any, i never said u didnt have swagger. im just saying it was fake it obviously wasnt who u are as a person. maybe our definitions of 'swagger' is different. im saying swagger is 'within' u dnt need no fresh garms, fresh trim to have swagger. its just YOU, i cud be rocking charity shop garms and still have swagger. let me quote a hov bar'its only so long fake thugs can pretend' obviously u can see how that relates to u.btw llow catching feelings, this is my opinion init. u dnt know me so it shudnt matter that muchweren't sending. Just got a bit carried away because I thought you were sending me.but fair play to you. You raised a poignant argument. However opinions do matter to me hence why I started the topic. But it's just that I would appreciate something constructive.I don't think I was putting on an act, it genuinely not so long ago come so easily to me in my first year at uni, it was natural at the time.I was loved by all when people met me but it doesn't come easily to me anymore. I'm a bit withdrawn now whereas before whether they thought I was a c*nt or a diamond geezer I didn't give 2 f*cks and it's that I want back Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mR ReZiW Posted June 16, 2008 Report Share Posted June 16, 2008 never got the rezzy from emmerdale.but any, i never said u didnt have swagger. im just saying it was fake it obviously wasnt who u are as a person. maybe our definitions of 'swagger' is different. im saying swagger is 'within' u dnt need no fresh garms, fresh trim to have swagger. its just YOU, i cud be rocking charity shop garms and still have swagger. let me quote a hov bar'its only so long fake thugs can pretend' obviously u can see how that relates to u.btw llow catching feelings, this is my opinion init. u dnt know me so it shudnt matter that muchweren't sending. Just got a bit carried away because I thought you were sending me.but fair play to you. You raised a poignant argument. However opinions do matter to me hence why I started the topic. But it's just that I would appreciate something constructive.I don't think I was putting on an act, it genuinely not so long ago come so easily to me in my first year at uni, it was natural at the time.I was loved by all when people met me but it doesn't come easily to me anymore.i shud give u one of them 'SNAP OUT OF IT' slaps, lolWTF did i tell you. if this whole 'swagger' tings really YOU. den you aint got nothing to worry about.if ur a serious striker (Alan Shearer) you'll never lose your eye for goal. ITS ALL MIND OF MATTER! *father/son hug* NO HOMOedit- steffidge i like the way u think son keep it up how many black 'geezers' was your survey based on? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lofa Posted June 17, 2008 Report Share Posted June 17, 2008 Only read the title of the topic.True swagger never leaves you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DRC Posted June 17, 2008 Report Share Posted June 17, 2008 Not even sending but Rez how you gonna tell man about swagger when you was pretending to be someone else on a some next forum...aka overstarish v2[movado]aaaaaaaaaanyway[/movado] True swagger never leaves you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
local Posted June 17, 2008 Report Share Posted June 17, 2008 edit- steffidge i like the way u think son keep it up how many black 'geezers' was your survey based on?every non geek black geeza i kno....if u was to ask everyone on this forum, which is mostly full of blacks, do u have swagger........u kno, i kno, everyone knos.......most ppl would say they didwhen in reality alot of u are neeks, prolly with some emotional issues, ur not actually confident in the slightest altho u like ppl to think u areme.....i kno i've got swagger......cos i'm an ugly c*nt......yet the females are drawn to meu on the other hand......pretend to be ppl ur not Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revs Posted June 17, 2008 Report Share Posted June 17, 2008 LuLu came with the real talkYou have to love yourself first because if you don't, who will? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capital Posted June 17, 2008 Report Share Posted June 17, 2008 bruv life jus austin powered u 4 a minute ul get ur mojo back if u really had it in the 1st place no homezeveryone goes thru lil blips jus come back better than beforelook in the mirror and repeat "my swagger is untouchable" 5 times a day n thas you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revs Posted June 17, 2008 Report Share Posted June 17, 2008 lol at some of the fraff in this thread thoughswagger can leave you and come back just like any person can fall off in sport, talents, skills etc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted June 17, 2008 Report Share Posted June 17, 2008 Well for a start, you shouldn't be so hard on yourself,comments like this will jus make him feel like more of a twatiLOL true, people have said it to me in the past, im like fcuk off, you saying that does not make me feel any better.but i thought hmm i might try and say it to someone else seeing as people tend to use that line a lot lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Eduardo Posted June 17, 2008 Report Share Posted June 17, 2008 lol at some of the fraff in this thread thoughswagger can leave you and come back just like any person can fall off in sport, talents, skills etc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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