Stamina Man Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 I don't know how to word this really, without sounding like some fool, but I shall try anyway...This thread isn't really a question that I want answered because it's happening to me, it's more of an question that I am generally curious about.I have trouble trusting ANYONE, after sh*t that's gone down in the past, not only girls I can't trust, but I can't trust my boys with sh*t either, maybe I should be able to, but I can't that's just me.Anyway, how would you go about trusting someone fully?Say they won't talk to you for a while, won't tell you where they are, won't tell you what their doing, or just won't contact you at all, how would you go about trusting them fully?Say you don't know where they are, they may not answer the phone, or text back, and you can't do anything because you don't know where they are.They may say their at home or whatever, but sometimes you can't take their word.Does anyone know what I mean? I'm trying to word this so I don't sound insecure or anything like that (which i'm not, I just find it hard to hold trust in people)So, how would you go about trusting someone? Is there any way, or do you just have to accept it?As I previously said, I always think the worst in stuff, if someone doesn't pick up their phone all day, I would believe they were with another guy, when really their phone is on silent, or it's not with them.Anyone else have this problem? How would you overcome this, and hold trust in people?I don't normally care about it to be honest, I just live with it, was just wondering if anyone else is like this?----------------Now Playing On iTunes: The Diplomats - Beautiful Noise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OldSnake Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Keep everyone at arms length, don't be fooled by people' it's gritty out there can't even trust family these days, forget about some random guys you roll with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
markthespot Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 trust no1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 i trust no girls... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
General Mac Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 f*ck that, I trust NOBODY. sh*t mothers these days are getting their own sons and daughters locked up or beat and sh*t. f*ck am I going to fully trust a human being for? a human being who is capable of all the bad things on the planet.If a bag of 20billion pounds fell from the sky and I was rolling with wifey and 2 of my niggaz, i know NO SHARING will take place. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GOLDIE Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 i'm the exact same wayexperience has taught me that i can only trust my mother and sisterseverybody can f*ck right offi've more recently noticed i do not trust men at all *them late moment of clarities*one situation unfolded last week where i was like boi... u can't trust anybody!but i don't see it as being insecure, its just the way the world/society is now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 rah why do u lot not trust any girls? you must of been burnt dumbly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hhhhhhh8 Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 I don't trust people. Doesn't mean I don't like them, just don't trust them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 rah why do u lot not trust any girls? you must of been burnt dumblyon the contrary, ive been viewing mandem slyly getting burnt or girls going on f*ckerylike this one yute who broke up wit his chick, got back wit her and he told her the girls he slammed before they got back togetherfast fwd a few months and they break up again sue to him cheating this timeand she drops suttin on him like she f*cked a next yute before they got back togetherwhich he doesnt care bout cah he drops some more sh*t one herthem sorta f*ckery lead me to think 90% of girls have a skeleton in their closet they're willing to use as a weaponnot that i never knew that before but its not a good looksome very cerbal women out therecome like they're always thinkin aheadnot the one... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Uncle Man Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 women are out for revenge against mankindand mandem are hungry snakes with no loyaltyi trust horses atm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
General Mac Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 rah why do u lot not trust any girls? you must of been burnt dumblyon the contrary, ive been viewing mandem slyly getting burnt or girls going on f*ckerylike this one yute who broke up wit his chick, got back wit her and he told her the girls he slammed before they got back togetherfast fwd a few months and they break up again sue to him cheating this timeand she drops suttin on him like she f*cked a next yute before they got back togetherwhich he doesnt care bout cah he drops some more sh*t one herthem sorta f*ckery lead me to think 90% of girls have a skeleton in their closet they're willing to use as a weaponnot that i never knew that before but its not a good looksome very cerbal women out therecome like they're always thinkin aheadnot the one...It's all this Free Spirit Independence garbage thats being promoted, on a whole Females are far more f*ckery nowadays than guys. You got young girls on buses talking about how many man they f*cked, what they did with them and why they cheating on the boyfriend and how this other dude is there just to beat and eat. GRIMEY out there. It's the 16 - 17 generation that will be f*ck*ng horrible. True stories my boy works at BT and his ex chick works in Nationwide, he cheated once before but it wasnt even sexual, it was just a couple phone calls leading up to a smash but he cut that short quick and somehow someway the bitch got hold of his chick and spilled the beans, within 2 days my boy was like shes changed, shes out regular and sh*t, turns out her so called friend from Bush was destroying the p*ssy. And the f*ckery is she told him its over and she nutted the dude 3 days before he was going to take her to Monaco as an apologetic surprise gesture. Obviously not all chicks are that f*cked up but its one story out of many Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelo Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Dont trust anyone 100%You can get to about 90%But theres some sh*t I aint ever telling you.Girls especially.Women talk. Its a fact of life.The amount of confidential, confidential sh*t I've been told at work, when I was at college, when talking to other mans chicks etc.Its f*ck*ng disgusting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
o-guy Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 women are out for revenge against mankindand mandem are hungry snakes with no loyaltyi trust horses atmclocked that time agonot even becuz they did sh*t to me, just by watching their movementsi only trust two people in the whole of this world Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 rah why do u lot not trust any girls? you must of been burnt dumblyon the contrary, ive been viewing mandem slyly getting burnt or girls going on f*ckerylike this one yute who broke up wit his chick, got back wit her and he told her the girls he slammed before they got back togetherfast fwd a few months and they break up again sue to him cheating this timeand she drops suttin on him like she f*cked a next yute before they got back togetherwhich he doesnt care bout cah he drops some more sh*t one herthem sorta f*ckery lead me to think 90% of girls have a skeleton in their closet they're willing to use as a weaponnot that i never knew that before but its not a good looksome very cerbal women out therecome like they're always thinkin aheadnot the one...It's all this Free Spirit Independence garbage thats being promoted, on a whole Females are far more f*ckery nowadays than guys. You got young girls on buses talking about how many man they f*cked, what they did with them and why they cheating on the boyfriend and how this other dude is there just to beat and eat. GRIMEY out there. It's the 16 - 17 generation that will be f*ck*ng horrible. True stories my boy works at BT and his ex chick works in Nationwide, he cheated once before but it wasnt even sexual, it was just a couple phone calls leading up to a smash but he cut that short quick and somehow someway the bitch got hold of his chick and spilled the beans, within 2 days my boy was like shes changed, shes out regular and sh*t, turns out her so called friend from Bush was destroying the p*ssy. And the f*ckery is she told him its over and she nutted the dude 3 days before he was going to take her to Monaco as an apologetic surprise gesture. Obviously not all chicks are that f*cked up but its one story out of manyWTF!! i swear all of your posts are an assignment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
o-guy Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 rah why do u lot not trust any girls? you must of been burnt dumblyon the contrary, ive been viewing mandem slyly getting burnt or girls going on f*ckerylike this one yute who broke up wit his chick, got back wit her and he told her the girls he slammed before they got back togetherfast fwd a few months and they break up again sue to him cheating this timeand she drops suttin on him like she f*cked a next yute before they got back togetherwhich he doesnt care bout cah he drops some more sh*t one herthem sorta f*ckery lead me to think 90% of girls have a skeleton in their closet they're willing to use as a weaponnot that i never knew that before but its not a good looksome very cerbal women out therecome like they're always thinkin aheadnot the one...It's all this Free Spirit Independence garbage thats being promoted, on a whole Females are far more f*ckery nowadays than guys. You got young girls on buses talking about how many man they f*cked, what they did with them and why they cheating on the boyfriend and how this other dude is there just to beat and eat. GRIMEY out there. It's the 16 - 17 generation that will be f*ck*ng horrible. True stories my boy works at BT and his ex chick works in Nationwide, he cheated once before but it wasnt even sexual, it was just a couple phone calls leading up to a smash but he cut that short quick and somehow someway the bitch got hold of his chick and spilled the beans, within 2 days my boy was like shes changed, shes out regular and sh*t, turns out her so called friend from Bush was destroying the p*ssy. And the f*ckery is she told him its over and she nutted the dude 3 days before he was going to take her to Monaco as an apologetic surprise gesture. Obviously not all chicks are that f*cked up but its one story out of manyhonour killingiwah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stamina Man Posted June 19, 2008 Author Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Yeah see i'm not the only person, safe.More time though, I think it's worrying about them, more than lack of trust.I do trust the people mostly, if they trust me, I will trust them.Some decent replies here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Totty Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Only trust my family tbh.I trust the mandem, but not the 'i trust them with my life' typa thing.Lol @ trusting females in 2008 tbh. I try telling my bredrins who are in relationships not to fully trust their wifeys, cos most of these females aren't loyal. They tend not to listen still. Their choice at the end of the day."LIFES A BITCH...... AND THEN YOU MARRY ONE" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Percy Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Never really trust people apart from the fam and the guys I'v know from knee height.Situations recently has just made this choice more profound.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Keep everyone at arms length, don't be fooled by people' it's gritty out there can't even trust family these days, forget about some random guys you roll with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
REAL TALK Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 You know what these are the kinda threads im built for and i gotta say i respect alot of the peoples oppinions on here cause im glad they've got the common sense locked nowadays, mandem shouldnt trust no female and to be completley real females shouldnt trust mandem either we're all just as bad as each other really and truly but nowadays it seems girls go on alot more drastic with their dirty dealings than mandem as you have all said we've heard some stories nowadays and bwoy you could truly believe that it is the work of satan himself with how low they can stoop. i think girls have just had enough of how mandem was gwanin in da past and they feel like its that season to try and get revenge to be honest on my clock it never has or will be that time. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer its funny how much when your in a relationship your partner can seem like your enemy its not even joke thats why brake ups end up bein so bad more time, to the guy who wanted advice dont change your ways you have to keep that knowledge with you because its keep you one step ahead of the game and you will spot tings that other people wouldnt trust me im deep in the game when it comes to this subject and the tings that ive noticed is REAL luckily i had my type of mentality from quite a young age which has helped me develop into who i am today and i take no nonsense from no onetrust is basically havin faith, faith in somethin which may not actually be right so when you trust some one you have to accept the fact that you could be wrong but your beliefs are strong enough to convince you otherwise but trust doesnt mean what you believe is actually right so make sure you understand that before you start blindly believing anythin someone will tell you just because you want to or because you like them Real Talk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrbillion Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Keep The Circle Tight ... Earn Trust ... Dont Give It Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrbillion Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 And Wid Girls Be Careful ....Took Time To Trust The Wife Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 I used to have the problem of trusting people to easily and telling people far to much stuff that should of been just kept private and il admit ive also been in the position where ive told the wrong people things that they were not suppose to know, and then that then concluded in me getting myself into some stupid situations.buy boy have i learnt from past mistakes and these days im the complete opposite, i dont say a word..and thinking about it, i don't trust anybody, not even my family, i thought i could trust my mum but then something happened earlier on this year and my trust for her dissolved into dust. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrbillion Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 I used to have the problem of trusting people to easily and telling people far to much stuff that should of been just kept private and il admit ive also been in the position where ive told the wrong people things that they were not suppose to know, and then that then concluded in me getting myself into some stupid situations.buy boy have i learnt from past mistakes and these days im the complete opposite, i dont say a word..and thinking about it, i don't trust anybody, not even my family, i thought i could trust my mum but then something happened earlier on this year and my trust for her dissolved into dust.Not Even Ur Mumsy ..So Ur Gonna Get Married Or Relationship WateverAnd U Aint Gonna Trust Them? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 I used to have the problem of trusting people to easily and telling people far to much stuff that should of been just kept private and il admit ive also been in the position where ive told the wrong people things that they were not suppose to know, and then that then concluded in me getting myself into some stupid situations.buy boy have i learnt from past mistakes and these days im the complete opposite, i dont say a word..and thinking about it, i don't trust anybody, not even my family, i thought i could trust my mum but then something happened earlier on this year and my trust for her dissolved into dust.Not Even Ur Mumsy ..So Ur Gonna Get Married Or Relationship WateverAnd U Aint Gonna Trust Them?nah not even my mumsy, from when she went behind my back and invaded my privacy on more than two ocasions, she crossed the trust line and no im not talking about not knocking before entering my room or some minor sh*t like that.i dont want to get married and it will be a long time before i get in a serious relationship status with someone. i aint got time for all that malarky, i dont need more distractions and disruption in my life at the mo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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