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4 years wid uthem say i wanna be wid some goon for one monthwould have dislocated her jawside to be honest .. then gone on holiday wid her best mate or suttin ...but thas deep stillsorry to hear dat boi
thats the messed up thing about it..i would expect this from a relationship that hasnt been going for long..but after 4 years....Im confused just by reading it...like said above dash out her goods and be done with it
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i just read this whole topic start to finish.give us an update blade if you canhope ur feeling better coz that must have been a heavy blow to take but at the same time you must be stronger for it.one thing tho....how the hell did this comment slip through the net unnoticed?

yeah she is in the wrong but same time if the roles wer reversed anyone would do the same thing what she did.. they would test the water before leaving their partner and everyone who says otherwise is full of sh*t.. its a scary thing to explore new partners stil so jus giving up your safety net (you) is not something anyone would do.. or at least right away...
speak for yourself mate but as far as i know this is how it would go with most reasonable adults:- relationship isnt great- someone else looks appealing- discuss relationship problems- solve them and things are ok- or dont solve them and split up- check on someone elsenone of this safety net business
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i just read this whole topic start to finish.give us an update blade if you canhope ur feeling better coz that must have been a heavy blow to take but at the same time you must be stronger for it.one thing tho....how the hell did this comment slip through the net unnoticed?
yeah she is in the wrong but same time if the roles wer reversed anyone would do the same thing what she did.. they would test the water before leaving their partner and everyone who says otherwise is full of sh*t.. its a scary thing to explore new partners stil so jus giving up your safety net (you) is not something anyone would do.. or at least right away...
speak for yourself mate but as far as i know this is how it would go with most reasonable adults:- relationship isnt great- someone else looks appealing- discuss relationship problems- solve them and things are ok- or dont solve them and split up- check on someone elsenone of this safety net business
u probly dont kno alot then tbh cos that reply is so naive its commicallook... i dont kno if they told u this in the land of cute kittens and candy floss where u, if not grew up then at least spent most of ur school holidays... but ur in the real world now mmmmkaye
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i just read this whole topic start to finish.give us an update blade if you canhope ur feeling better coz that must have been a heavy blow to take but at the same time you must be stronger for it.one thing tho....how the hell did this comment slip through the net unnoticed?
yeah she is in the wrong but same time if the roles wer reversed anyone would do the same thing what she did.. they would test the water before leaving their partner and everyone who says otherwise is full of sh*t.. its a scary thing to explore new partners stil so jus giving up your safety net (you) is not something anyone would do.. or at least right away...
speak for yourself mate but as far as i know this is how it would go with most reasonable adults:- relationship isnt great- someone else looks appealing- discuss relationship problems- solve them and things are ok- or dont solve them and split up- check on someone elsenone of this safety net business
u probly dont kno alot then tbh cos that reply is so naive its commicallook... i dont kno if they told u this in the land of cute kittens and candy floss where u, if not grew up then at least spent most of ur school holidays... but ur in the real world now mmmmkaye
no, sorrynot buyin iti've been in that position and i didn't do thati'm not a female, i'm not scared to be by myself; i'm not 38 i'm 21.from time i hit 18 if u held the title of girlfriend it means i actually like u and yur the type of girl i wuld like to marry. ignoring the fact i find it incredibly difficult to like a girl period, let alone two at the same time.if i'm liking sumone else like that, it means we're already having problems, and if we can't get through our problems then theres no future. No future means u dn't need to hold the title of girlfriend.doesn't matter if i think this other chick will be willing to take yur place as girlfriend or notlol at thinkin i NEED a girlfriend... sum female mentality
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i just read this whole topic start to finish.give us an update blade if you canhope ur feeling better coz that must have been a heavy blow to take but at the same time you must be stronger for it.one thing tho....how the hell did this comment slip through the net unnoticed?
yeah she is in the wrong but same time if the roles wer reversed anyone would do the same thing what she did.. they would test the water before leaving their partner and everyone who says otherwise is full of sh*t.. its a scary thing to explore new partners stil so jus giving up your safety net (you) is not something anyone would do.. or at least right away...
speak for yourself mate but as far as i know this is how it would go with most reasonable adults:- relationship isnt great- someone else looks appealing- discuss relationship problems- solve them and things are ok- or dont solve them and split up- check on someone elsenone of this safety net business
u probly dont kno alot then tbh cos that reply is so naive its commicallook... i dont kno if they told u this in the land of cute kittens and candy floss where u, if not grew up then at least spent most of ur school holidays... but ur in the real world now mmmmkaye
no, sorrynot buyin iti've been in that position and i didn't do thati'm not a female, i'm not scared to be by myself; i'm not 38 i'm 21.from time i hit 18 if u held the title of girlfriend it means i actually like u and yur the type of girl i wuld like to marry. ignoring the fact i find it incredibly difficult to like a girl period, let alone two at the same time.if i'm liking sumone else like that, it means we're already having problems, and if we can't get through our problems then theres no future. No future means u dn't need to hold the title of girlfriend.doesn't matter if i think this other chick will be willing to take yur place as girlfriend or notlol at thinkin i NEED a girlfriend... sum female mentality
EDIT: if i was to believe anything u've said it would be because of this.. but most men dont find it incredibly difficult to like women thonever said u was a female nor did i say u NEED a girlfriend... getting sidetracked from the pointare u saying HONESTLY that if u got talkin to some other girl that u THINK may be better suited to u, that u would lock off ur current partner IMMEDIATELY before u've even linked up with this other girl to see whats good?also big boss.. females aint selfish PEOPLE are selfish... u sound hurt tbh
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Hangon.Paradox are you saying you hook up with someone else before you end it "Just to make sure you're sure".That's bitch moves IMO. How can you not know what you want.I thought you were talking about chicks doing it, and it therefore being very common among them. Not among people with any self respect. And certainly not among men.

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i just read this whole topic start to finish.give us an update blade if you canhope ur feeling better coz that must have been a heavy blow to take but at the same time you must be stronger for it.one thing tho....how the hell did this comment slip through the net unnoticed?
yeah she is in the wrong but same time if the roles wer reversed anyone would do the same thing what she did.. they would test the water before leaving their partner and everyone who says otherwise is full of sh*t.. its a scary thing to explore new partners stil so jus giving up your safety net (you) is not something anyone would do.. or at least right away...
speak for yourself mate but as far as i know this is how it would go with most reasonable adults:- relationship isnt great- someone else looks appealing- discuss relationship problems- solve them and things are ok- or dont solve them and split up- check on someone elsenone of this safety net business
u probly dont kno alot then tbh cos that reply is so naive its commicallook... i dont kno if they told u this in the land of cute kittens and candy floss where u, if not grew up then at least spent most of ur school holidays... but ur in the real world now mmmmkaye
no, sorrynot buyin iti've been in that position and i didn't do thati'm not a female, i'm not scared to be by myself; i'm not 38 i'm 21.from time i hit 18 if u held the title of girlfriend it means i actually like u and yur the type of girl i wuld like to marry. ignoring the fact i find it incredibly difficult to like a girl period, let alone two at the same time.if i'm liking sumone else like that, it means we're already having problems, and if we can't get through our problems then theres no future. No future means u dn't need to hold the title of girlfriend.doesn't matter if i think this other chick will be willing to take yur place as girlfriend or notlol at thinkin i NEED a girlfriend... sum female mentality
EDIT: if i was to believe anything u've said it would be because of this.. but most men dont find it incredibly difficult to like women thonever said u was a female nor did i say u NEED a girlfriend... getting sidetracked from the pointare u saying HONESTLY that if u got talkin to some other girl that u THINK may be better suited to u, that u would lock off ur current partner IMMEDIATELY before u've even linked up with this other girl to see whats good?also big boss.. females aint selfish PEOPLE are selfish... u sound hurt tbh
i mean this with no disrespect (honestly) but the mentality u have is whats wrong with the worldyur loyalty (and i'm not talkin about fidelty LOYALTY) means nothingi have been in this position highlighted in red, and NO IT WAS NOT ENOUGHthe fact there is sumone i get along with better, does not mean there is sumthin wrong with my girlit does not over shadow what she has done for meit does not over shadow that i believe that she is truely dwn for me i'm happy with my girl, and true say it is possible that i would be happier with this other chick. But the girl i'm with now has EARNED my loyalty. in other words if it means pissing on everything that we have ever done for each other then i have no interest in being happierthis is the problem that i have with people (the reason for my opening line) people like u only care about yur own welfare and happinesswords like loyalty and friendship only have meaning to u when they immediatly benefit uthis is the reason why u get friends that run away when their supposed best friend is getting stabbed yur nt really dwn for anyone...not really
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I remember reading this topic, that girl is such a bitch!how can you have the guy thinking that everything in the relationship is fine and dandy when clearly your feelings towards him are changingthem ones where she didn't even try and communicate to him that they she felt there were problems in the relationship, she just gave uphow you can do that after being with someone for 4 years i do not know, surely you at least owe it to that person to tell them what is going oni agree with what skola is saying, from time that she felt that she was no longer committed to making the relationship work then she should of just broken it offit shouldn't have anything to do with whether she's sure she wants to be with that next guy, it should be about how she feels about the one she is withnext guy or no next guy, from time she felt that their relationship was no longer working for her she should have let him know the deal

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lol got off topicwent on sum next tangent about people leaving people for sumone elsemy point is i would have to be un-happy to leave my chick, so i wouldn't need to test the waters with this next chick, cuz i'm gonna leave anywayif its just a matter of i'm happy, but i bubble better with this next girl, then no i wouldn't leavei would cut her off, like i did be4

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i just read this whole topic start to finish.give us an update blade if you canhope ur feeling better coz that must have been a heavy blow to take but at the same time you must be stronger for it.one thing tho....how the hell did this comment slip through the net unnoticed?
yeah she is in the wrong but same time if the roles wer reversed anyone would do the same thing what she did.. they would test the water before leaving their partner and everyone who says otherwise is full of sh*t.. its a scary thing to explore new partners stil so jus giving up your safety net (you) is not something anyone would do.. or at least right away...
speak for yourself mate but as far as i know this is how it would go with most reasonable adults:- relationship isnt great- someone else looks appealing- discuss relationship problems- solve them and things are ok- or dont solve them and split up- check on someone elsenone of this safety net business
u probly dont kno alot then tbh cos that reply is so naive its commicallook... i dont kno if they told u this in the land of cute kittens and candy floss where u, if not grew up then at least spent most of ur school holidays... but ur in the real world now mmmmkaye
lmaodon't actually agree but the wording
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marlon: i never said anything about "just to make sure im sure"... basically what i was saying is that people get lazy and complacent.. why would someone end things with their partner if they are "confortable" with how things are? even if they are looking for someone elsehow many times do men cheat? how many man have had overlapping relationships or more than one woman on the go? how many of u VIPers over the last few years ive been here have i seen moaning and taking sh*t off LINKS just cos ur getting p*ssy? which brings me back to my original point, if ur comfortable in a relationship or u feel its on the way out, u wouldnt automatically end it just cos somebody else new comes along.. u'd stay in that half hearted relationship even if its just for the easy sex until ur established in that new relationship or established that ur fed up of women and need a break..oguy: i actually believe u when u say u mean no disrespect and neither do i cos i have agreed with things u've wrote in the past and u seem like a sensible guy... but for u to basically say i have no loyalty is unfounded... u have no idea how i am in real life with my friends.. anytime i contribute to vip its always in this room about relationships and relationshits not once have i spoken of my friends.. but to clear it up i have a handful of ppl i consider mandem and i am the one that everybody turns to for advice or when in trouble as i am in most cases the most reliable person.. i dont ONLY care about my own happiness and welfare i go out of my way and look out for my friends and family, and back when i Liquid this used to be the case for women aswel...back to this topic tho.... when i said if you THINK someone else may be better suited to u, i meant this with the understanding that u r not happy in ur current relationship (just like the female in the original post, whether she told blade about it or not).. obviously if u r truely happy then no one else will be able to catch ur attention for u to actually do anything with... if someone does come along who u get on better with than ur girl, of course it doesnt mean there is something wrong with ur girl, i never said that.. in all honesty i guess i could have worded what i said better but perhaps in reading what ive said to marlon will clear up what i meant... without getting into a whole other arguement tho i do believe love and happiness can change over time, so u may be happy and not willing to cheat anytime soon.. but a year or 2 down the line things may have gotten stale, or u may have had arguements or heard something about ur partner, or something else which changes the way u feel... just like u can fall in love i do believe u can fall out of it aswel and the notion of cheating may seem more realistic.. but all of this is based on ur own happiness.. if u r truely happy and secure it goes without saying ur less likely to cheat and ruin the very thing thats making u happy.. but when ppl cheat its cos they arent happy enit and happiness is subject to changebig boss... tbh u've not stood out to me in anyway thus far nor have u really contibuted to this thread... truth is ur not formidable enuf to have actually gained my respect so dont adress me again.. not even if ur co-signing something ive said

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