Guest Waka Flocka Dave Posted January 10, 2011 Report Share Posted January 10, 2011 cnt watch every penny, life aint that easyjust do what feels right, if u buy her sutin for 10Gs n she leaves the next day so be itsame way u could buy nothing n ur together for 50 yearsjus gotta get the balance right, the you cant .. if your.. never really work in real life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KayGee Posted January 10, 2011 Report Share Posted January 10, 2011 There shouldnt be any rules, just dont be a fool, dont be a mug. Its pretty simple, do what you feel if it feels right. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davicious X Posted January 10, 2011 Report Share Posted January 10, 2011 I'm a believer in balance tbh. Give AND take. If I'm gonna do something then it better come back at some point, I can't be the only person doing or spending. It's not even about the amount spent obviously but at the same time if the most you spend on your partner is £35 for cab fare in 18 months then the commitment to the relationship kinda has to be questioned. And if your the one questioning your partners commitment to it then maybe some rules do need to be established.The rules I typed out aren't about either being tight or being overly extravagant. I look at it as a sound amount to invest if your young and are actually trying to secure a relationship in what I see as early days.In 18 months 2 Christmases can pass so by the 2nd Christmas £100 is IMO a good limit to set if your a typical under 25yo.Obviously if your earning grade A paper then maybe in your mind £100 is not enough. And if your struggling for funds that same £100 might seem a little steep, but its an investment in the relationship, thems not the kinda rules you set if your only planning to beat.I mean seriously what you got planned for your 1st anniversary? Is it really just to sit and watch tv then go upstairs and beat? What I'm saying is your partner will expect some kind of effort (male or female) and any lack of it will make them question your commitment. Monetary value isn't the part that's important but the effort more often than not won't come cheap.If someone thinks that's idiotic then I would ask them to drop a constructive alternative. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yuri Posted January 10, 2011 Report Share Posted January 10, 2011 Couple questions for M12 and Carpedeum. Actually anyone can answer this, it'll be a good gauge of where people might be going wrong in over treating the opposite sex.What's the most you've spent on a partner you've known for less than 18 months? Are you still with this person?What's the most you've spent on a person inside 18 months that your no longer with?I had a big win in poker and took my girl to Paris for a weekend, paid for hotel and flights, when we'd been going out for like 4 months. We are still together a few months later Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lens Posted January 10, 2011 Report Share Posted January 10, 2011 The rules I typed out aren't about either being tight or being overly extravagant. I look at it as a sound amount to invest if your young and are actually trying to secure a relationship in what I see as early days.If someone thinks that's idiotic then I would ask them to drop a constructive alternative.i didn't invest anything securing the relationship. lol @ thisi don't think it's idiotic, but i think You will grow resentful towards Your partner if You have to watch the way money is being spent by the 2 of You so closely. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davicious X Posted January 10, 2011 Report Share Posted January 10, 2011 The rules I typed out aren't about either being tight or being overly extravagant. I look at it as a sound amount to invest if your young and are actually trying to secure a relationship in what I see as early days.If someone thinks that's idiotic then I would ask them to drop a constructive alternative.i didn't invest anything securing the relationship. lol @ thisi don't think it's idiotic, but i think You will grow resentful towards Your partner if You have to watch the way money is being spent by the 2 of You so closely. It's not even about the amount spent obviously but at the same time if the most you spend on your partner is £35 for cab fare in 18 months then the commitment to the relationship kinda has to be questioned.What I'm saying is your partner will expect some kind of effort (male or female) and any lack of it will make them question your commitment. Monetary value isn't the part that's important but the effort more often than not won't come cheap. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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DJ Stashman Posted January 10, 2011 Report Share Posted January 10, 2011 Go out with a girl that doesnt bring up anything to do with finance in your lifeno man should be under pressure to buy something for a femalethats the females perception and i blame music videos and reality tv shows Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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carpedeum Posted January 11, 2011 Report Share Posted January 11, 2011 I'm a believer in balance tbh. Give AND take. If I'm gonna do something then it better come back at some point, I can't be the only person doing or spending. It's not even about the amount spent obviously but at the same time if the most you spend on your partner is £35 for cab fare in 18 months then the commitment to the relationship kinda has to be questioned. And if your the one questioning your partners commitment to it then maybe some rules do need to be established.The rules I typed out aren't about either being tight or being overly extravagant. I look at it as a sound amount to invest if your young and are actually trying to secure a relationship in what I see as early days.In 18 months 2 Christmases can pass so by the 2nd Christmas £100 is IMO a good limit to set if your a typical under 25yo.Obviously if your earning grade A paper then maybe in your mind £100 is not enough. And if your struggling for funds that same £100 might seem a little steep, but its an investment in the relationship, thems not the kinda rules you set if your only planning to beat.I mean seriously what you got planned for your 1st anniversary? Is it really just to sit and watch tv then go upstairs and beat? What I'm saying is your partner will expect some kind of effort (male or female) and any lack of it will make them question your commitment. Monetary value isn't the part that's important but the effort more often than not won't come cheap.If someone thinks that's idiotic then I would ask them to drop a constructive alternative.the balance you mention is to me what i feel right with, since i also dont always see it as an investment. its just a response to the way i feel at that time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greens Posted January 13, 2011 Report Share Posted January 13, 2011 C/S Ephren & Kompressor/If a girl doesn't at least offer to pay on the 2nd date then it lets me know where the relationship is heading. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michel Kane Posted January 13, 2011 Report Share Posted January 13, 2011 Cutting back on my girl.Not enough balance & my money's needed elsewhere. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lens Posted January 13, 2011 Report Share Posted January 13, 2011 If a girl doesn't at least offer to pay on the 2nd date then it lets me know where the relationship is heading. :!: and ^ lol @ MK makin "cutbacks" 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michel Kane Posted January 13, 2011 Report Share Posted January 13, 2011 Do you even have money to cut back on? 4 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lens Posted January 13, 2011 Report Share Posted January 13, 2011 dunno what You're talkin aboutbut i was laughin at Your wordingand yeah i do, and yeah, i'm cuttin back 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michel Kane Posted January 13, 2011 Report Share Posted January 13, 2011 Ok. Good for you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Lieutenant Posted January 13, 2011 Report Share Posted January 13, 2011 Do you even have money to cut back on? CREASED 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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