Getting the swagger back

[Guest Flat Eric]

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c/sandget a shape up init

[Fresh]

I wont lie, similar thing happened to me when I came out of a long term relationship. It's 100% conifdence ting, buy yourself some outfits, go gym, get a bottle of ameretto and go scoping.

[mR ReZiW]

Not even sending but Rez how you gonna tell man about swagger when you was pretending to be someone else on a some next forum...aka overstarish v2[movado]aaaaaaaaaanyway[/movado]

True swagger never leaves you.

like i said, man was bored. it was a why not ting tbh

every non geek black geeza i kno....if u was to ask everyone on this forum, which is mostly full of blacks, do u have swagger........u kno, i kno, everyone knos.......most ppl would say they didwhen in reality alot of u are neeks, prolly with some emotional issues, ur not actually confident in the slightest altho u like ppl to think u areme.....i kno i've got swagger......cos i'm an ugly c*nt......yet the females are drawn to meu on the other hand......pretend to be ppl ur not

ok den, ur swaggers alot coming from the guy that went on his lil brothers computer and posted pics of 13 yr old girls in knickers. ur a gee.

swagger can leave you and come back just like any person can fall off in sport, talents, skills etc

[Guest Teddy Riley]

Go lose a weight fam...

[markthespot]

i agree with what bert said its a confidence thing really i come out a longgg term relasionship aswell n its just building yourself back up cuz u aint used to it n aint done it for so long

[Steven]

This thread has turned pathetic. I agree with what Stef said you make a topic asking whos got swagger you would get everyone saying "my swagger is second to none" but having a pair of air max trainers with blue/green laces isnt swagger. When someone makes a topic like this you gotta have the maturity to respect it and leave it be. Jokes are for the whatever room.Sounds to me Brem you lost a lot of confidence and self belief like Revs said its very normal. You just have to gradually start doing things that are gonna get you back to where you wanna be.Why dont you start gym? If you're overweight theres probably nothing better that you can do for your confidence than that. Clearly this is an internal thing as you stated you didnt look too unsimilar when you were macking. Hygiene is a big a thing so start grooming yourself better make sure you're shaving, washing etc a lot more regularly.Start off setting yourself small goals that you can reach and you will feel a lot better when you do achieve them.

[YFSD]

^^ Smart about the goal thingYou attract people in the amount of value you are, if you consider yourself low value why would people consider you high value. My advice would be to get your hair cut and shave or whatever. People will see your effort and should mention it whatever, it will boost your confidence then. Then quickly use that confidence in another way to benefit you again.You'll get into a nice circle of confidence and you'll be back to your former self.

[Jubez II]

LuLu came with the real talkYou have to love yourself first because if you don't, who will?

You should read Neil Strauss - The Game.

[Trane]

Good topic. Good advise given. Good luck Brem.

[I.B.Blackman]

I'm currently in a deeeeeep dip boi, my swagger dissapeared, come summer though it's coming back I swear down.

[LuLu]

BRem dude, May i add that the image you see looking back at you in the mirror, yes you may not like it or feel comfortable looking at it but OTHER PEOPLE ( females ) do like it and see that there is nothing wrong with your shape or facial looks, what may look ugly to one person may look f*ckin fantastic to another person. No one can truely define what ugly is. sometimes people tend to think the worst about themselves and are completely oblivious to the fact that there is nothing wrong with them when it comes to their self image.And also try and remember that there a lot worse looking people out there than yourself whenever you have a ' i feel ugly and fat ' day , try and think of someone who is fat and ugly and then think to yourself, ' well it could be worse, i could look like that ! 'i use this method sometimes, it does make me feel better for maybe a minute or two lol

[RaiKkoNen]

Drink Gatorade.100% Swagger returning Juice.if it doesn't work, call a prostitute.warning: might lead to side effects such as herpes and AIDS.

[Percy]

As Revs said, swagger is a skill and can be lostMay I recommend The Venusian Arts Handbook, quite a good read tbh.

[Fresh]

As Revs said, swagger is a skill and can be lostMay I recommend The Venusian Arts Handbook, quite a good read tbh.

Of course, swagger isn't eternal. Visual swagger back in the day looked like this

[mrbillion]

Bruva .. U Seem To Have Low Confidence .. From Wat I Saw .. Boyy Few Things U Need To Adjust An Ur Nice

[serpent]

i would say do you smoke weed? if so i think that could be major factor

[Guest Radio]

when im high my swagger improves tbh

[Trane]

i would say do you smoke weed? if so i think that could be major factor

How so?

[SPEAK NO EVIL]

brother the dip in swagger is minor. on a level, you've got that hint of depression. in my expert opinion your best bet is exercise. just go and bang out gym and don't f*ck about with pills. watch some decent movies and read books and sh*t. all the best.

[missBee]

ave thot about it this way.. mayb u r growing up & as u gro up the gals around u gro up 2 unles if u stil going 4 the same age gals.. & they r not impressed by sillgestures & the so-called "swagga" without brains. maybe wen u stop referring 2 gals as bitches & stop f***ing for sport ul get sumwer. jst an idea!!!!

[Bacardi_Up]

i would say do you smoke weed? if so i think that could be major factor

Not really. Do it once in a blue moon, probably last time I did it was 6 months ago.As far as the gym thing goes.I'm on the losing weight thing already, always been big since childhood but lost at least 1/2 a stone in the last 5 weeks and my jeans are literally dropping of me without a belt.Gonna joina gym when I scale down my hours at work because mostly I feel nakered after 8-9 hours of my boss moaning at me and dealing with posh twats.

[Bacardi_Up]

ave thot about it this way.. mayb u r growing up & as u gro up the gals around u gro up 2 unles if u stil going 4 the same age gals.. & they r not impressed by sillgestures & the so-called "swagga" without brains. maybe wen u stop referring 2 gals as bitches & stop f***ing for sport ul get sumwer. jst an idea!!!!

I never refer to women as bitches.If I did it was a Freudian slip. I joke.In terms of f*ck*ng for sport I'm not one of those guys. I don't f*ck like a rabbit in heat and never have but I still miss my swagger and the effect I had on people especially women. I'm more of a relationship guy but haven't find the right one yet.I am very mature/wise as others have commented but I have my sense of humour.Thanking you kindly for your assumption.

[HBK]

Fake it until you believe. It's not like women are clever enough to tell the difference anyway.

[Uncle Man]

get rich or go gym and if u dont f*ck for sport maybe thats wer yr fattoucchednt watch that tho its a joke,u can also try telling jokes but i hear that is for broke folks,and they are out atmwhy not try swagger jacking sum1 like lil wayne,get a hoodie, lipse man and pretend yr high and have a sore throat,and wen u get a girl back to yr place just explain that the leather is very soft,this shud workbrb

[Uncle Man]

Fake it until you believe. It's not like women are clever enough to tell the difference anyway.

in fact they are probly more likely to believe u 'have swagger' if u are faking it tbhall about replicating televisual/audio representations of swagger,as many current women will need a popular frame of reference to ease them ineg if u act exactly like hurley from lost they will say to ther friend 'i like him though reminds me of hurley from lost,seems like a really genuine guy'etc prhaps