Girls and close male friends... and guys with close female friends

[Guest Van Der Wavy]

Speaking of which.The link that got brave and who we stopped talking to each other contacted me again today."Can we start over again just as friends, and forget what happened in the past?"DING DING DING DING DINGAnother link back on line.

Slap her for me, when you see her next and when she asks, why you did that?Tell her:''It wasn't my hand that struck you, it was the Iron Fist inside of the Velvet Glove''I'll provide you with the glove if you want....

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

i dont care about male friends tbh a girl can have as many as be as close as she likes jsut like she can go nappa if she wants.but by default ill just not take you serious any more and i will leave you or stray and or cease to give a sh*t when you call me and not rush to the phone no more.basically its just natural progression i wont tell a girl she cant and i wont make a big deal of it in this topic but its just a turn off just like i would be instantly turned off a sexy chick only to find out she is a transexual my d*ck will go SOFT on sight so likewise i will just go off the chick and she will end up in the friend zone.no longer will i discuss this or give girls prior warning let them learn the hard way cos ya dad should of taught you better.its not even an arguing ting either when you find out ya girl is cheating and ya like "HOW CAN THIS BE"why be so shocked when you are allowing ya missus to roll so loose.loyalty is what MEN value most its dumb to find it in a girl that rolls like this IN YOUR FACE.

[prdx]

i dont care about male friends tbh a girl can have as many as be as close as she likes jsut like she can go nappa if she wants.but by default ill just not take you serious any more and i will leave you or stray and or cease to give a sh*t when you call me and not rush to the phone no more.basically its just natural progression i wont tell a girl she cant and i wont make a big deal of it in this topic but its just a turn off just like i would be instantly turned off a sexy chick only to find out she is a transexual my d*ck will go SOFT on sight so likewise i will just go off the chick and she will end up in the friend zone.no longer will i discuss this or give girls prior warning let them learn the hard way cos ya dad should of taught you better.its not even an arguing ting either when you find out ya girl is cheating and ya like "HOW CAN THIS BE"why be so shocked when you are allowing ya missus to roll so loose.loyalty is what MEN value most its dumb to find it in a girl that rolls like this IN YOUR FACE.

c/s tbh...been thinkin this way for a little while now.. jus need to master it stil almost relapsed recently smh

[General Mac]

Thing is, my fiancee has a real close friend who goes by the name Riad, they been close for 3 years or so and me and my chick been together 8months but we were together before for 2 years until we broke up for religious reasons. Now this dude is cool with me, super cool to the point where I think he is gay, he has some fine ass females around him but wont date none of them because "hes going to UNI far out and doesn't want the hassle", but at the beginning homeboy used to always invite me to outings with my chick, now he never invites, gives me some nasty body language and basically does a competition thing with me. Bearing in mind he used to like her but she didn't/doesn't and considers him a older brother and he pretends to call her "baby sis". I was cool with this up until recently when i clocked that hang on, wifey is erasing all my female buddies but she's withholding to erase one which is him. I told her men can only be plutonic friends with women only if they are unattractive and immature etc and vice versa but she insists this dude is 100% not into her and shes not into him.FOR EXAMPLEShe always asks me to go out with her and him but I always refuse and say I don't want, up until she needed my support for some graphic design thingy and he happens to be a photographer so he can advise her, and shes all like he will come round mine to help me out on the Macbook, ALARM BELLS rang in me and I immediately changed and started acting strange which was out of character because i am usually the type to say 'If you put yourself in a compromising position there is no point of return'. and slowly slowly shes getting rid and ducking calls and sh*t. Anyway, she was supposed to meet him yesterday but opted not to and she was all depressed because she felt like men and women can't be friends, I told her yes they can only if **above** and if they are my friends etc. If you got a man and you love him ditch the males because in a males brain, it's been proven that any male is seen a competition/threat.I like the dude but I hate his strategy, if you want to f*ck my girl do it the Uncle Murda way not the long way because that results in more beats for deception.

[Guest LOGers]

No matter how much u try. Lines get blurred. Keep ur distance if you wanna keep your relationshipa real friend will understand.lol at me ever phoning up a male friend to complain about my man to him.when my name is not stupid.

[Supernova]

LOLThis happend to meI was 16 at the time, my ex never liked some female friend I had, tbh I wont lie, given the chance wudda mashed that down lolBut boi after prom (my girl went to a next school)I stayed round some girls hosue with 3 other girls including this female friendand when ex fouind out boiiiiiiiiI was too tired to argue back but she was tryna pick fights loooltbhshes justified

[Guest Tronics]

No matter how much u try. Lines get blurred. Keep ur distance if you wanna keep your relationshipa real friend will understand.lol at me ever phoning up a male friend to complain about my man to him.when my name is not stupid.

Alie!But some girls just don't get that logic.

[LuLu]

Whether you are in a relationship or not please post your views/experiences... You are in a relationship just starting out or has been going a while etc... your Man or Girl, who has notably close friends of the opposite sex...Have you ever felt sidelined in a relationship as a result of this? or do you not mind and feel totally at ease (for arguments sake... your girl spending time her close male friend... in situations what you may consider should be an exclusive ting between you two alone...) ...

my sixth sense wud make me suspect that the situation is a danger tbhand either the friends wud be eliminated,or the relationship wud be compromised IMO

LOL at the video 'UNAGI ' ...................... ' DANGER 'Arr u gotta love friends.

[dotcomma]

This male and female fren fren ting is bullshit in my opinion. In my yunger years i had nuff female friends who had bf but i eventually f*cked all of them. Not a case of us being majorly attracted to one another but a thing where they're bf's wernt about me the guy that their close to and trust is about at the rigth time to satisfy their appitites.i got a female friend now, shes been my co d for years i dont find her attractive but she is pretty. certain times when we're jus chilling or watevr the male instinct takes over and i literally have to take a step back or i will f*ck her and f*ck up our friendship in the process.

[Fresh]

strong post

[CAMECHI89]

17?Minor, be glad it happened then. Trust me, those sort of things are a BLESSING more than anything.Too many people wanna gwarn like they're invincible but it really is a case of no pain, no gain.

I couldnt agree with you any more.

[Guest WAVE MACHINE]

FRIENDS NEVER FELL OFF.ONE OF THE HARDEST COMEDIES OF THE 90'S

[Black Casper]

No matter how much u try. Lines get blurred. Keep ur distance if you wanna keep your relationshipa real friend will understand.lol at me ever phoning up a male friend to complain about my man to him.when my name is not stupid.

Alie!But some girls just don't get that logic.

[bbnique]

All comes down to whether you're a jealous person. I mean, my man dont get jealous even when he knows I have more male friends than females but at the same time, there's all reason to be jealous if theres some subconscience flirtin goin on.Hard doe, cusz i always wonder if gurls and boys can be friends with no strings....i aint one to talk. My best friend became my man and still is after almost a year.

[Angelo]

All comes down to whether you're a jealous person. I mean, my man dont get jealous even when he knows I have more male friends than females but at the same time, there's all reason to be jealous if theres some subconscience flirtin goin on.Hard doe, cusz i always wonder if gurls and boys can be friends with no strings....i aint one to talk. My best friend became my man and still is after almost a year.

AYEEEEEEEEEEEEE

[Guest Van Der Wavy]

All comes down to whether you're a jealous person. I mean, my man dont get jealous even when he knows I have more male friends than females but at the same time, there's all reason to be jealous if theres some subconscience flirtin goin on.Hard doe, cusz i always wonder if gurls and boys can be friends with no strings....i aint one to talk. My best friend became my man and still is after almost a year.

Seen, depends on what ends your from though? Certain things don't get tolerated in certain areas. Also an age thing too...Where are you from?How old are you?

[bbnique]

All comes down to whether you're a jealous person. I mean, my man dont get jealous even when he knows I have more male friends than females but at the same time, there's all reason to be jealous if theres some subconscience flirtin goin on.Hard doe, cusz i always wonder if gurls and boys can be friends with no strings....i aint one to talk. My best friend became my man and still is after almost a year.

AYEEEEEEEEEEEEE

lmfao smh. nah, we're trustin honest.

[bbnique]

All comes down to whether you're a jealous person. I mean, my man dont get jealous even when he knows I have more male friends than females but at the same time, there's all reason to be jealous if theres some subconscience flirtin goin on.Hard doe, cusz i always wonder if gurls and boys can be friends with no strings....i aint one to talk. My best friend became my man and still is after almost a year.

Seen, depends on what ends your from though? Certain things don't get tolerated in certain areas. Also an age thing too...Where are you from?How old are you?

tbh yeah, there aint nothin to "tolerate". I ain't the type to be goin out with my male friends on the regs without my boyfriend. Girls that are too 'on it' wit their male frends run the risk of gettin hunt down, if not by their boyfriend but by their conscience.

[Guest Van Der Wavy]

All comes down to whether you're a jealous person. I mean, my man dont get jealous even when he knows I have more male friends than females but at the same time, there's all reason to be jealous if theres some subconscience flirtin goin on.Hard doe, cusz i always wonder if gurls and boys can be friends with no strings....i aint one to talk. My best friend became my man and still is after almost a year.

Seen, depends on what ends your from though? Certain things don't get tolerated in certain areas. Also an age thing too...Where are you from?How old are you?

Yeah, agree totally.But where you from, how old are you?tbh yeah, there aint nothin to "tolerate". I ain't the type to be goin out with my male friends on the regs without my boyfriend. Girls that are too 'on it' wit their male frends run the risk of gettin hunt down, if not by their boyfriend but by their conscience.

[Guest Van Der Wavy]

All comes down to whether you're a jealous person. I mean, my man dont get jealous even when he knows I have more male friends than females but at the same time, there's all reason to be jealous if theres some subconscience flirtin goin on.Hard doe, cusz i always wonder if gurls and boys can be friends with no strings....i aint one to talk. My best friend became my man and still is after almost a year.

Seen, depends on what ends your from though? Certain things don't get tolerated in certain areas. Also an age thing too...

tbh yeah, there aint nothin to "tolerate". I ain't the type to be goin out with my male friends on the regs without my boyfriend. Girls that are too 'on it' wit their male frends run the risk of gettin hunt down, if not by their boyfriend but by their conscience.

Where are you from?How old are you?Where are you from?How old are you?

[Seth Rollins]

Girls who have loads of male friends fit into these two categories:Are naive, and believe men and women can be just friends. Naive girls learn the hard way and tend to encourage "passa passa", and set themselves up to be in predicaments where certain "situations and scenarios" could have been avoided.Already know the above and obviously like entertaining "foolishness", probably even think keeping a man on his toes will have him on point 24/7. F*ck either category of this woman.

[Guest WAVE MACHINE]

lol at mk

[Seth Rollins]

Recently I have been told by a few females I have too many female friends, and as an example (as I didn't believe them) was made to observe my calls for a whole day.Even looking on my facebook etc, I came to the conclusion that I needed to cut several ties, especially considering i have tried it on (successful or not) with most of them, and flirt with pretty much ALL of them.

[Guest LOGers]

Goli do u have any women that u are truely just friends with?this best friend/man thing doesnt tend to work btw.

[Seth Rollins]

One, and that's because she's THAT much of a bunny boiler that the repucussions of anything happening would probably see the world coming to an end. To the point where I am physically UNABLE to step back and even judge her looks (Remember who is writing this, it must be true).I'm her best friend, she tells everyone that, we're cool, anyone who sees us out and about assumes we're a couple, yet I don't flirt, touch/feel nothing.I actually need help in figuring out what on earth gives people this impression. :|Anyway, other than her, everyone else has either slapped me or slept with me for trying it. Gyal are there to be moved to. Simple. Friends calling at 1.30am. Backside!*Edit: I must admit tho, I'm currently sleeping with no one, so all them people for now, genuinely phone/text on a friendship tip. But somewhere down the line that road might have been visited or suggested at least.