Finding your life again

[Lieutenant]

That is touching

[Trilliam]

Bang on this catharsis ting yeah?Well done chap

[BLACK VICTIM]

yeah i would have shed a tear if I read all that

[REAL TALK]

Skola I'm genuinley happy to see how far you've come, your open mindedness to the situation has helped you look at a lot of things from a different point of view n helped you gain your own perspective on not only other things but ur own flaws. Congratulations, pos'd well done for comin out of this situation so much stronger. Its times like this that show just how much a forum can help some people if used in the right way. All the best for the future man

[Skenghis Khan]

yeh well done mate,now make this your theme tune for a while

[O.Man]

i reached out to hug her and my hand hit the wall

[Skola]

Cheers guiseCatharsis - purging of emotional tensions? Not sure what ur tryin 2 sayLol O.Man funny sh*t eh? it was one of those laugh or cry moments. I think at the time I did a mixture of bothReal talk you seem like a pretty deep sorta guy appreciate the advice and commens.

[Uncle Man]

happy to be of service my crazy red haired kilt wearing friendheres a modern scottish hiphop song im sure you will be bumping during this crazy party time

[KayGee]

Nice to hear you have come out the other side and are better for it, to the future.

[Angelo]

Good to hear that sh*t.Won't lie broke up with mine around 4 weeks ago and keeping busy is the thing that works the most. Every day. Every minute. Just make sure you're doing something.

[Skola]

Thanks KayGee - to the future *raises glass*I never thought I'd see the other side. Guess it kinda all happened at the right (for lack of a better word) time - my mate broke up with his ex just before Christmas and was miserable all of Christmas and new year and then it was winter! For me it was the spring moving on to the summer which no doubt has helped a bit.lol Social you deserve a neg for your lame Scotland jokes but appreciate the sentiment none the less.Angelo - sorry to hear that bro. Im sure your aware theres light at the end of the tunnel - its not as far away as it might seem.

[SoCo KinG]

I'd prob be the same if i broke up with my chick..but my short temper wouldn't last the time it took to get over her..so like someone said id have to delete everything about her cuz if i happened to see her on someone else so quick id switch (no gun though)

[Project Mayhem]

This thread has given me a lot to think about.

[Project Mayhem]

And reading the whole thing, it's really good to see how you managed to turn the corner Skola. Gives me hope!

[JLovely]

Nice to hear you have come out the other side and are better for it, to the future.

C/S/I really can't wait to get to that happy place. I'm stuck in a serious rut.

[Reivax ™]

This is a great thread. It's good to see how far you have came Skola.I went through a similar situation as yourself. I broke up with my ex a week after valentines who i was with for a yr and a half.it was soo hard to move on for the first few weeks, especially when i kept seeing her that sh*t cut me up. But then i got a new job and i kept myself busy without looking back and thinking about it now i don't think i could have handled it any better. Although i still think about her even when i'm with other girls lol, but your update has been really encouraging for me anyway.The best advice on here is certainly keeping yourself busy and hanging out with your friends.

[Lieutenant]

Skola I'm genuinley happy to see how far you've come, your open mindedness to the situation has helped you look at a lot of things from a different point of view n helped you gain your own perspective on not only other things but ur own flaws. Congratulations, pos'd well done for comin out of this situation so much stronger. Its times like this that show just how much a forum can help some people if used in the right way. All the best for the future man

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[RaiKkoNen]

Surprised it took you 6 months. Never that for me, all the things that took you that long to do are things are you should auto do, delete everything etc etcOnly thing that works best IMO is getting back on the horse, seriously seeing your ex moving on and getting with other guys will hit you harder if you're getting zero action.

[Skola]

Project Mayhem - Im glad to have helped that was one of the main reasons I updated this thread. Nice to know I might be helping others after the help and advice I received here.J you'll get there too! RaiKkoNen you might have misunderstood - I was doing some reflecting when I realised it had been 6 months since we split up then I decided I should update this thread. It all happens in stages but I'd say after about 4 months I had a moment where I thought to myself - "I really dont feel so bad any more". Your right about getting back on the horse/in the game - exploring other women helps/is fun/gives you someone else to think about.And finally, about 2 weeks ago she moved flat and is no longer directly across the road. Only moved like 3 blocks away so I bump into her from time to time but a little space is still good and its not difficult to stop and say hi as it once was.

[REAL TALK]

Skola I'm genuinley happy to see how far you've come, your open mindedness to the situation has helped you look at a lot of things from a different point of view n helped you gain your own perspective on not only other things but ur own flaws. Congratulations, pos'd well done for comin out of this situation so much stronger. Its times like this that show just how much a forum can help some people if used in the right way. All the best for the future man

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If all u can gain from that is moist you have the mentality of a child.@skola yh man its just gd 2 see someone get somethin positive out of a bad situation, lifes hard enough n I kno these situations aint easy. I dnt kno about others but when I post on here I try to give a oppinion but also just another perspective to think about in certain situations, it may not be right but at least it gives another angle to think on things n if it helps then I'm glad I could contribute towards that. Even tho some small minds try n discredit it