revs Posted May 19, 2008 Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 looking at someone constantly when talking without breaking eye contact is actually weird (like what Cockney Thug). Strong and controlled eye contact is great for trying to exert dominance in a convo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Cousin Of Sleep Posted May 19, 2008 Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 Maintain eye contact when you are speaking, not so much when listening. You and the person you are talking to will generally take turns in this anyway. People look away when listening but maintain eye contact when talking, as if they are keen for you to take interest.If one of my ho's looks away from me while im speaking to her I'll go upside her head with a chainsaw. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Most Wanted Posted May 19, 2008 Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 i always look people in the eye and flutter the lashes. old habit.but today took the biscuithow can some guy whose tryin to get my number blush when i looked at him?bless lol :D moistvery moistthe more i think about itgayvery gay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Action Dan Posted May 19, 2008 Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 looking at someone constantly when talking without breaking eye contact is actually weird (like what Cockney Thug). Strong and controlled eye contact is great for trying to exert dominance in a convo.They won't be clocking your eyes at all times so won't clock you are maintaing there's.Important to gauge people's reactions to what you are saying.Also to see if they're bluffing when they've check raised you tbh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Action Dan Posted May 19, 2008 Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 Maintain eye contact when you are speaking, not so much when listening. You and the person you are talking to will generally take turns in this anyway. People look away when listening but maintain eye contact when talking, as if they are keen for you to take interest.If one of my ho's looks away from me while im speaking to her I'll go upside her head with a chainsaw. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revs Posted May 19, 2008 Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 looking at someone constantly when talking without breaking eye contact is actually weird (like what Cockney Thug). Strong and controlled eye contact is great for trying to exert dominance in a convo.They won't be clocking your eyes at all times so won't clock you are maintaing there's.Important to gauge people's reactions to what you are saying.Also to see if they're bluffing when they've check raised you tbh.truethe whole reading eyes thing is quite fascinating. eg eye darts during certain thought processes etc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipset Posted May 19, 2008 Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 depends who im talking to...i give eye contact but got a habit of looking away when tlking Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Q Posted May 19, 2008 Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 depends who im talking to...i give eye contact but got a habit of looking away when tlkingyeah i do this sometimes...and people think im not listening. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Flat Eric Posted May 19, 2008 Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 Wo0o0ooyy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G-dub Posted May 19, 2008 Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 i stare at there ears, it makes um think they got somethin wrong with them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn_Carter Posted May 19, 2008 Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 My earlier post obviously only applied to men.If I'm talking to a woman know that I'm looking approximately 6 inches below their chin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kurious Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 if i keep eye contact too long ppl get hypnotised an usually think im a witch a good witch tho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest PennyTraitor Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 eye contact is a powerful tool still. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mizchif Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 I killed someone once for looking at me for too long. Would do it again TBH. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn_Carter Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 eye contact is a powerful tool still.definitelyswear eye contact alone can determine whether u get sucked, hotted, drawn (if female) or anything else Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest PennyTraitor Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 eye contact is a powerful tool still.definitelyswear eye contact alone can determine whether u get sucked, hotted, drawn (if female) or anything elsetrust. u can see confidence or whatever in someones eyes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest David Braund Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 im usually lookin str8 behind the person if talkin for a while n looks like im lookin at someone else/someone is approachin. like really concentrating on one arean randomly turning aroundim so f*cked i swear Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sho Case Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 eye contact is a killernearly every teacher disliked me cause i didn't give it to them,got me in nuff troublei don't even intend to not give it..but i don't even see why people care so much,i certainly don't when talking to somebodyplus, when i do give eye contact my facial expression doesn't always do me any favours Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Uncle Man Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 i stare at there ears, it makes um think they got somethin wrong with them.your sig makes me happpythe never end ing story ?what was that kid called again ?!?nohmomothats atreyu and the horse is artakthe main kid was called bastian... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drifterman Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 Ok firstly I just looked a the bottom of my screen and theres an ad for"Gay THUG Dating"WTF??Anyway..I used to always look people in the eye when I was younger. When I was being sent for disciplinary meetings at school or telling a lie to a teacher I'd be sure to look them dead in the eye for the whole convo. They often commented how impressive it was that I always kept eye contact.In the past year I noticed that I don't do it anymore. I look them in the eye for maybe 3-5 seconds then my eyes flicker downwards & right for a second then move back to theirs.When I noticed what had changed I started trying to keep eye contact for as long as possible. But this made people feel incredibly uneasy. I'd find myself staring deeply into peoples eyes (No Homo whatsoever). Then I'd find my mind wandering when I did this. I would stop listening to them and ignore my eye's and start thinking about something totally unrelated. This would lead to embarrassing silences where they'd stop speaking and wait for a response, my eyes would be in auto pilot staring deeply into theirs, but I wouldn't be registering anything except what was happening in my brain, which had no relation to the conversation. God knows what people thought.So now I've got a system for maintaining eye contact but making sure people don't feel as if i'm trying to intimidate them. I look at them, then nod my head in agreement, as I nod I blink and look away to give them a break from eye contact and make them feel more comfortable.If I am arguing I will stare someone directly in the eye until they look away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Creamy Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 i look straight thru people moretimehundred yard stare wen i'm ere Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucarelli Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 eye contact is scary sh*t makes man uncomfortable Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I.B.Blackman Posted May 20, 2008 Author Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 EYE CONTACT CAN BE FAKED THOI WALK AROUND EYEBALLING A LOT OF PEOPLE AND I NEVA LOOK AWAY EVEN IF ITS SOME GOONSITS MORE OF A PREEMPTIVE ATTACK ... LIKE A PEACOCK DISPLLAYIN HIS FEATHERS OR A RATTTLLE SNAKE RATTLING HIS TAILIVE NEVA BEEN ROBBED BE4 SO IT HAS WORKED SINCE IWAS 13... OR MAYBE IWAS JUS LUCKYWhere do you live? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaman Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 got lazy eyes still Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natalie Posted May 20, 2008 Report Share Posted May 20, 2008 Majority of the time I maintain eye contact with people.Also I have them times where your not even intentionally looking at the person but your eyes just meet. Feels like ageeeees, but in reality its only 1-2 secs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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