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you know when you mess around and always linking girls etc. lashing and dashing etc...then finally you find the girl that you think is perfect for you and she will do anything to make u happy then after a while she changes and starts acting differently not careing all the things you do for her and then u break up but all u can do is think about her and the thought of her getting with sum1 else makes u feel sick.there other stuff i want to say but cant be arsed.what do u think u should do all u can do is think about this girl thats perfect inyour eyes but she dont seem to give a sh*t,should you MAN UP and just allow it and move on to a next chick.or what?at the moment im on a downer usually i dnt care about girls but i thought i found the perfect girl looks wise and perosnality but its flopped, she made me get jealous insecure and parnaoid over certain things. messing my head up at the same time i cnt think of any other girls and all i want is her. and tonight shes going clubbing and i said to her dont get wid ne guys and she is like i dont go clubbing to pull guys im clebraitng with my mates blah blah so i said u deffiantlly not getting withen1 then? and she said i dont know wats going to happen plus im single so i dnt have to tell u anything.this made me feeeel so sickDO I NEED TO MAN UP or what

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aint really been in ur situation so i cnt exactly comment or giv advicebut... when a chick wont link me i jus get a nexx onemight nt b the same.. but

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man up POST HASTEor lose you flopped this one learn from yr mixtapeplenty more fish in the seamaybe shell be back wen u dont give a sh*t but with all this soppy sh*t she thinks yr a wastemannuttin u can do but keep it moving atm playerIMOI HAVE TO STRESS BITCHES ANT sh*t BUT TRICKS AND HOESu may think shes perfect thats just yr mind tricking u into a lazy solutionshe sounds like any slut tbh u cant seriously wife these uk chicks mayne

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imagine a size 8 jamacian chick minus the ghettoness, with 32 e breasts. and nice tonedbody and a face like rhiannas but abit darker skinned.plus this chick can make u laugh more then any of your freinds or fam.y do u think i should move on? would you? and would the thought of another guy getting this perfect girl of yours f*ck u up or wat? how would u react

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and tonight shes going clubbing and i said to her dont get wid ne guys and she is like i dont go clubbing to pull guys im clebraitng with my mates blah blah so i said u deffiantlly not getting withen1 then? and she said i dont know wats going to happen plus im single so i dnt have to tell u anything.this made me feeeel so sick
i'm sorry butLMFAObruvu knw the answer to yur question alreadytrust me i've been there (nt as deeply as u seem to be still)shes a whoreand yur better off without
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you know when you mess around and always linking girls etc. lashing and dashing etc...then finally you find the girl that you think is perfect for you and she will do anything to make u happy then after a while she changes and starts acting differently not careing all the things you do for her and then u break up but all u can do is think about her and the thought of her getting with sum1 else makes u feel sick.there other stuff i want to say but cant be arsed.what do u think u should do all u can do is think about this girl thats perfect inyour eyes but she dont seem to give a sh*t,should you MAN UP and just allow it and move on to a next chick.or what?at the moment im on a downer usually i dnt care about girls but i thought i found the perfect girl looks wise and perosnality but its flopped, she made me get jealous insecure and parnaoid over certain things. messing my head up at the same time i cnt think of any other girls and all i want is her. and tonight shes going clubbing and i said to her dont get wid ne guys and she is like i dont go clubbing to pull guys im clebraitng with my mates blah blah so i said u deffiantlly not getting withen1 then? and she said i dont know wats going to happen plus im single so i dnt have to tell u anything.this made me feeeel so sickDO I NEED TO MAN UP or what
I know where you're coming from mate and it sucks.When you're with the right person they're bang on you then you eff it up and its like they're completely over you and the so-called "magic" aint there like it used to be."i said to her dont get wid ne guys and she is like i dont go clubbing to pull guys im clebraitng with my mates blah blah so i said u deffiantlly not getting withen1 then?"them paranoid lines there.Hate to say it but you have to get over her in order of there being any chance you both might get back together cos at the mo you're playing the insecure role whereas I think relationships work better when its the girl that has a little bit of that.At the mo you're just THAT guy whos sitting at home whining over her. So when she is out clubbing and she meets another guy shes more likely to get with him cos of the way you acting.You gotta man up soldier, you are better than this...
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and tonight shes going clubbing and i said to her dont get wid ne guys and she is like i dont go clubbing to pull guys im clebraitng with my mates blah blah so i said u deffiantlly not getting withen1 then? and she said i dont know wats going to happen plus im single so i dnt have to tell u anything.this made me feeeel so sick
i'm sorry butLMFAObruvu knw the answer to yur question alreadytrust me i've been there (nt as deeply as u seem to be still)shes a whoreand yur better off without
yeh but sounds like they ain't even goin out, so the girls droppin bars really...
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You're an idiot.She likes you. So don't show her she has power over you. If she tells you that she is going out raving, tell her you are going to check a friend. Be vague. Don't answer directly. Don't ring her.Why the f*ck are you telling her not to get with anyone while she is out raving?

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You're an idiot.She likes you. So don't show her she has power over you. If she tells you that she is going out raving, tell her you are going to check a friend. Be vague. Don't answer directly. Don't ring her.Why the f*ck are you telling her not to get with anyone while she is out raving?
tru say.. why you letting her kno u care so much.. its obvious shes guna try hurt or manipulate u... think if the roles wer reversed u would be doing the same thing...but like spawn is sayin wen shes sayin shes goin out blah blah etc... let her kno ur goin to see a friend but be subtle with it.. if u shout or start hypin ur baitin the fact u lying.... watch the movie "two can play that game" yh an revise the scene bout the transfer of negative energy.. that sh*t is real..EDIT: bringing up the scenario of her been with a next man is an ameteur mistake and u hate to see it...
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Blood, let me put this into the simplest terms for you so you can understand wah gwan from the get go... You say this girl is perfect right? Well in your ideal terms do you think the perfect girl for you would ever try chat to you like you mean nothin or drop bars about her not havin to answer to you or tell you anythin? cause if thats your idea of perfect you got this ting twisted so obviously she aint perfect at all is she cause i kno my idea of the perfect girl would never try boy me off cause she would kno the LEVELS of those consequences plus she shouldnt wanna hurt you like that if she likes you that deeply. Basically you lookin at how fine she is and yeah you like her a lil too or maybe like her a lot but your lettin it cloud your mind too much to the point where you just lettin her get away with tings that she knos is a liberty and the longer you let it run the more she might think she can do tings and get away with it ya get me? As much as you like her you gotta show her that she is not the only ting on this gods green earth and if she wanna go clubbin bwoy you may just have a lady friend in the pipeline who may wanna get to kno you yazimmie? Now this may ruin tings or it might make tings work but you gotta be prepared to lose someone to stop yourself from bein boyed off cah you can ask trevor nelson that aint the lick this aint no film and you aint no actor so its not about tryin to do some lovey dovey scene where you flyin all over the world and jumpin hurdles like a dog to get one girl to fall in love with you this is real life and this is how it works G do your ting for a lil while rude boy and see how tings gwan from there but dont pay her so much mind blood cause if she dont make no effort to try make tings work then she obviously aint worth botherin with anyway you just been given da reality check Real Talk

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Been in this situation myself and sh*t is hard, I thought the sun shone out of her arse, I really thought it didn't get any better than her, then she split and I chased for a while but then gave up, but I never really accepted it, she was on a whole 'let's be friends thing' and like a fool I went along with it.Made a complete fool of myself tbqh. I tried her friends thing and she be telling me she was texting such and such a bloke or meeting up with some fella and I put on a front like it was all cool but it was cutting me up inside. Killed me seeing her with other guys. It was unhealthy tbh.Then one day eventually I manned up. Didn't text her back, didn't reply to her on msn, erased her number, didn't answer her calls, when I saw her on the street I showed no emotion, didn't put on a screwface, nothing, just stared through that bitch like she wasn't even there.I know it seems to you like it hurts but trust time is the best healer. Since then i've seen her about and had polite conversations, she said the way I acted cut her deep too and she wanted me more but I said she'd no chance of ever going back there, best decision I ever made tbh.Now times is moved on and it doesn't bother me if I seen her with a man or whatvever and I got the proper perfect girl these days ( I think lol).So imo you just gotta do what I did and man up. You'll be glad of it in the end.

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at the moment im on a downer usually i dnt care about girls but i thought i found the perfect girl looks wise and perosnality but its flopped, she made me get jealous insecure and parnaoid over certain things.
"i said to her dont get wid ne guys and she is like i dont go clubbing to pull guys im clebraitng with my mates blah blah so i said u deffiantlly not getting withen1 then?"them paranoid lines there.
I tried her friends thing and she be telling me she was texting such and such a bloke or meeting up with some fella and I put on a front like it was all cool.
been there too, aint good me and this chick were getting on well for time, chatting everyday and sh*t she said she liked me nuff and all the rest of it...she did know a few guys friends, but i thought for once i will let that slide. But there were certain things she wud say that made me a bit para big time......when that sets in im like a detective. There are times when she wud chat about certain guys she knows and all that....going out with them all the time, man taken her out as "friends"....sh*t got to me certain timesfrom when a girl gets u like this...u are better off moving on...this is why i always say when gyal knows too much guys it is NOT a good thing sometimes....time is a healer for real
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