Doug Posted October 16, 2008 Report Share Posted October 16, 2008 This is a uni situation mainly, but everyone can chime in.....do they work...one nigth stand with flat mate??long term relationship with flatmate??one ting is on me but i dont know my options....bare in mind i need to live hare for a whole year Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ChoccyLog Posted October 16, 2008 Report Share Posted October 16, 2008 My friend met her man in halls when she started uni in 06.They moved into an apartment in second yearThey are married, and have had a baby.Seems to have worked for them.I couldn't do it personally. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Viva_La_Vixen Posted October 16, 2008 Report Share Posted October 16, 2008 I couldn't do it, Im not good with the whole sharing thing at times and when i want to be alone i just want to be left alone! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Poetic Posted October 16, 2008 Report Share Posted October 16, 2008 I could not do it myself. If it all goes tits up you have to see her everyday. Wait till the end of the year and hit it then. What are doing living with a woman anyway? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DN Braund Posted October 16, 2008 Report Share Posted October 16, 2008 bruvu dnt sh*t wer u eatbring sand to the beachetc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missBee Posted October 16, 2008 Report Share Posted October 16, 2008 I really wouldn't advice on it tbh..A whole yr you will have to live with that person. If it's a one night stand it will get weird esp when you want to bring other girls over.. If it's a relationship it will get a bit hard because if you live with a person you will see all the things you like but mostly the little things that annoy & piss you off. So living together early days wouldn't be good.But like the example logers gave.. you never know things could turn out great. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanessa Posted October 16, 2008 Report Share Posted October 16, 2008 Unless your planning on having a lasting relationshipDO NOT DO ITits just going to cause drama at a later date. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A Bit Better Posted October 16, 2008 Report Share Posted October 16, 2008 My bredrin mashed his housemate last year and they are still together now but she has moved in with other people (arranged before they got together). However, I know of plenty of times when people have lived together and started going out, split up and everything has just been f*cked. Especially when they split up because they don't like being around their partner 24/7. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DRC Posted October 16, 2008 Report Share Posted October 16, 2008 I've done it twice (yes I didn't learn my lesson the first time)Don't do it.You may be lucky and not have the same sh*t I went through....but just to make sure...don't do it.There's plenty more p*ssy in the sea and all that malarkey*thats sexual encounters btw not actual full-blown relationships* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MARLO STANSFIELD Posted October 17, 2008 Report Share Posted October 17, 2008 on the same levels as meeting a wifey in nappa most people living in halls are on a the HYPE of meeting new people and runnin riot you dont even have to live in halls or residence to know this so i wouldnt recommend it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mic Man Posted October 17, 2008 Report Share Posted October 17, 2008 My Experience with it werent bad.Did it in my first year at uni in Halls.was some white girl from essex. Knew she was on it from the first week, quite pretty but parred it off cos i don't really deal with White Chicks plus she had a boyfriend back in Essex.few months down the line, i go through a bit of a dry spell and was craving sex HARD.So one late night when everyone had gone to bed i was sitting in my room bored, and just knocked on her room door with a DVD, and she knew wot i was on. Didn't even try impress, some quick ting, lol.Wasn't really awkward cos she knew the situation cos i brought girls round all the time anyway- she had a boyfriend as well. TBH i think we just used each other to relieve sexual frustration when we werent getting any sex.Did a ting with her 3 times during the 1st year, once during 2nd year (but no longer my flatmate). Still saw her round every so often, and it was normal, no real awkwardness.My advice Bobby would be to make sure beforehand she knows who you are, and feelings won't get caught Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Egghead Posted October 17, 2008 Report Share Posted October 17, 2008 f*ck buddies is you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doug Posted October 17, 2008 Author Report Share Posted October 17, 2008 Mic Man was u really good friedns with the girl before you beat or did u keep a distance?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacardi_Up Posted October 17, 2008 Report Share Posted October 17, 2008 One night stands with a flat mate are cool.Just as long as neither party are under any illusions about the nature of the relationship. Though feelings can inevitably develop and things get a little muddier in this situation.However I wouldn't enter into a relationship unless you're bang on it and think it could work out. If things go tits up between you two then it will make it an uncomfortable environment to live in for yourself and your other flat mates. Also if you happen to get a house with these people for subsequent years of study and things f*ck up then boooy dunno what you will do then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruno Di Gradi Posted October 17, 2008 Report Share Posted October 17, 2008 reh.. rah.. its a bad idea.theres millions of chicks in uni... f*ck dem lot... allow doing it with someone u gota live with if ur not ina relationship... sh*t will get ugly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revs Posted October 17, 2008 Report Share Posted October 17, 2008 don't do itseen it happen twice and both times it f*cked up the house when it ended in tears. All the room mates tooks sides and certain people moved out etc. Created the shittest atmosphere to come home too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted October 17, 2008 Report Share Posted October 17, 2008 Ive been talking with my male friend tonight , he is lookin at some flats for me 2moro because he has come across something which may be suitable for me, and as im 270miles away with a bandaged foot at the mo, i thought cool, let me kno how it goes ...... but then he suggested flatsharing together.he is a male jigilo for christ sake, i dont wana wake up to find semi naked girls walking around the place every day.fair enough i could live with my gay male friends but nah, not my straight male friend..... would be weird. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mic Man Posted October 18, 2008 Report Share Posted October 18, 2008 Mic Man was u really good friedns with the girl before you beat or did u keep a distance??we spoke a little, we shared the most in common out of the 7 of us that lived together. Werent really close to say i would ring/text her in the holidays to find out what she's up to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelo Posted October 18, 2008 Report Share Posted October 18, 2008 don't do itit f*cked up the house when it ended in tears. All the room mates tooks sides and certain people moved out etc. Created the shittest atmosphere to come home too.This Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Em Dott Posted October 19, 2008 Report Share Posted October 19, 2008 bruvu dnt sh*t wer u eatbring sand to the beachetc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Risky Posted October 19, 2008 Report Share Posted October 19, 2008 My friend met her man in halls when she started uni in 06.They moved into an apartment in second yearThey are married, and have had a baby.Seems to have worked for them.I couldn't do it personally.you could ive u'd give it a try... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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