Flat Eric Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 Bane when you have experienced guys making comments or moving to your girl in front of you in the past.. What did you do Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mame Biram Diouf Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 Bane when you have experienced guys making comments or moving to your girl in front of you in the past.. What did you do Check the venting thread for the last few months Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Badman Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 Im not even going extrapolate that, its full of contradictions  However,  You are basically saying you chose a decent venue where you are not going to get as much trouble? Sounds like you are just being smart about the situation which is what I would expect. And you had an enjoyable time as well  That isnt you saying that you are forced to go to a gay club which was the general consensus earlier on in this thread  "It's a drop in the ocean sized sacrifice to make" which is correct, so why all the bitching about it?  Ultimately  Its just really not this deep. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seydou Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 Its just really not this deep. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mame Biram Diouf Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 That isnt you saying that you are forced to go to a gay club which was the general consensus earlier on in this thread General consensus from which posters? You and Eric have both said that but said no names. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 Its just really not this deep. ! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
underwriter Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 i went to a dance about a year ago in shoreditch with a ting who had a batty  from whence we stepped out of the car i can feel all eyes from every angle on us/her  after the rave couple guys were like 'yeah cuz you did good'  2 cars passed by tryna beep and holla but just drove on  that day i thought to myself being with a girl who 'LOOKS' like this would be for me... quite long  but then you could say it was because of the area... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruno Di Gradi Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 Imagine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sleepz Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 DST though, your girlfriend is a solid 9. You have to literally accept how disrespectful niggas can be and be confident in her shutdown game or youll end up losing your mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruno Di Gradi Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 DST though, your girlfriend is a solid 9. You have to literally accept how disrespectful niggas can be and be confident in her shutdown game or youll end up losing your mind. Worst thing is my girl is quite shy and gets scared so I'm caught between a rock and a hard place. She's a iPod headphones in specialist on road Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruno Di Gradi Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 Basically i need to learn that being assertive doesnt always mean be aggressive/confrontational Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heero Yuy Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 Tbf I don't know anyone who has to get into arms over this. Swear it's just a normal, Â You - "yo that's my girl yanno", Â Him - "sorry fam, didn't know that was you still", Â You - "ye ye no worries" Â *spud* and/or *head nod* Â keep it moving Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruno Di Gradi Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 Tbf I don't know anyone who has to get into arms over this. Swear it's just a normal, You - "yo that's my girl yanno", Him - "sorry fam, didn't know that was you still", You - "ye ye no worries" *spud* and/or *head nod* keep it moving Post sauce this is not how the conversation will go 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flat Eric Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 Lost in di sawce Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nidge Weasle Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 oi eric u cheeky c*nt.  i see your comments bout gay club.   bro dust the chopper off and come link me, im gonna take u to the frutiest gay bar we can find (will shout bane before hand for advice) and then i show u how easy it is to get that sweet sweet pwussy in there.  and lets not lie, its rainging men is a sly banger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruno Di Gradi Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 lol it should be more like  guy tries move to girl/grab her  girl - "sorry im with my bf"  you - *strong head nod, followed by a bringing her in closer to you*  you - before they can react "everything cool yh? (rhetorical question) and hand out to spud like yh move on now  NOT  "Thats my girl Fam" while flying aggressively towards man  all about the body language i think this is where im going wrong.  I do this first no spud...nothing...i guess its a bit too hostile Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 Don't feel spudding is even necessary but you asking if everything is good could be taken in two ways depending on tone etc. Puffing out your chest and mean mugging is obviously going to send out the wrong msg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flat Eric Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 Lol at spudding Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i5_PRODUCER Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 Something proper corny about is everyhing cool yh?  Feels like man was waiting for exactly the right time buss out that line   zero patience for that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i5_PRODUCER Posted October 30, 2015 Report Share Posted October 30, 2015 Obvs the venue has to be taken into account sometimes u gotta keep it low key  anywhere else and its 0-100 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Posted October 31, 2015 Report Share Posted October 31, 2015 Lol at spudding Lol at ever needing to tell a man that's my girl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mame Biram Diouf Posted October 31, 2015 Report Share Posted October 31, 2015 Lol at spudding Lol at ever needing to tell a man that's my girl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOHN DOE Posted October 31, 2015 Report Share Posted October 31, 2015 I've been out with a gf many times and guys have tried to move to her if they don't see me/ don't realise She will say my mans in here or point to me and brothers keep it moving Never heard of a guy continuing to move to a girl when she's with her man Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flat Eric Posted October 31, 2015 Report Share Posted October 31, 2015 I've been out with a gf many times and guys have tried to move to her if they don't see me/ don't realise She will say my mans in here or point to me and brothers keep it moving Never heard of a guy continuing to move to a girl when she's with her man You probably werent in a club full of black boys A man would grab your girl by the armpit and thats the last you would see of her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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lol it should be more likeÂ
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guy tries move to girl/grab her
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girl - "sorry im with my bf"
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you - *strong head nod, followed by a bringing her in closer to you*
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you - before they can react "everything cool yh? (rhetorical question) and hand out to spud like yh move on now
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NOT
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"Thats my girl Fam" while flying aggressively towards man
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all about the body language
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i think this is where im going wrong.
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I do this first no spud...nothing...i guess its a bit too hostile
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JLovely
Don't feel spudding is even necessary but you asking if everything is good could be taken in two ways depending on tone etc. Puffing out your chest and mean mugging is obviously going to send out the wrong msg
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Flat Eric
Lol at spudding
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i5_PRODUCER
Something proper corny about is everyhing cool yh?
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Feels like man was waiting for exactly the right time buss out that lineÂ
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 zero patience for that
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i5_PRODUCER
Obvs the venue has to be taken into account sometimes u gotta keep it low key
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anywhere else and its 0-100
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JOHN DOE
I've been out with a gf many times and guys have tried to move to her if they don't see me/ don't realise
She will say my mans in here or point to me and brothers keep it moving
Never heard of a guy continuing to move to a girl when she's with her man
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Flat Eric
You probably werent in a club full of black boys
A man would grab your girl by the armpit and thats the last you would see of her
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