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Ive never lived with my dad..... I dont know how or if its affected me 'cause i dunno how id be if i lived with him.... if you get what i mean
You missed some great times kid. Playing football with your old man on a sunday afternoon, being taught how to box, man do you watch Joe Calzaghe fight as his Dad cheers him on from the corner and cry in your lap? I just hope you can give your son all these expieriences that you never got.
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Ive never lived with my dad..... I dont know how or if its affected me 'cause i dunno how id be if i lived with him.... if you get what i mean
You missed some great times kid. Playing football with your old man on a sunday afternoon, being taught how to box, man do you watch Joe Calzaghe fight as his Dad cheers him on from the corner and cry in your lap? I just hope you can give your son all these expieriences that you never got.
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Ive never lived with my dad..... I dont know how or if its affected me 'cause i dunno how id be if i lived with him.... if you get what i mean
You missed some great times kid. Playing football with your old man on a sunday afternoon, being taught how to box, man do you watch Joe Calzaghe fight as his Dad cheers him on from the corner and cry in your lap? I just hope you can give your son all these expieriences that you never got.
i guess other people had to just learn to make friends n junk(its just a passing quip)
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Ive never lived with my dad..... I dont know how or if its affected me 'cause i dunno how id be if i lived with him.... if you get what i mean
You missed some great times kid. Playing football with your old man on a sunday afternoon, being taught how to box, man do you watch Joe Calzaghe fight as his Dad cheers him on from the corner and cry in your lap? I just hope you can give your son all these expieriences that you never got.
i guess other people had to just learn to make friends n junk(its just a passing quip)
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Ive never lived with my dad..... I dont know how or if its affected me 'cause i dunno how id be if i lived with him.... if you get what i mean
You missed some great times kid. Playing football with your old man on a sunday afternoon, being taught how to box, man do you watch Joe Calzaghe fight as his Dad cheers him on from the corner and cry in your lap? I just hope you can give your son all these expieriences that you never got.
i guess other people had to just learn to make friends n junk(its just a passing quip)
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i live on my own,aint seen my father figure in about 15 yrs,grew up with single mumbut like to think i raised myself with the help of television and the code of the street of course
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didnt knwo there where that many single parents here.i live with both, cant ask for anything different... thankfully he is one of my true role models. i know alot of single mom'ed kids who are good as gold.and one guy and his sis were raised by their dad alone, he never remarried..had a few long term GFs but nothing into marriage as yet.single dad is a rarity,

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I dont live at home anymore but I lived with both parents yes.Dad was a part time dad really, used to say we were going to the park & stuff when I was young and lock it off and bare sh*t like that so I resented him abit still.Remember I got bare trophies at football 1 year and I couldnt go to the awards night cos he couldnt be bothered to take me, I'll never forget that.Used to always watch Man U together and all that but he is volatile at times & used to disrespect my mum certain time and one time he did it when I was 17, my friend had just died days earlier and I wasnt in the mood and I sparked him in his boat, bare police everything.Didnt chat to him for like a year living in the same house, some f*cked up situation.I got introuble with the law soon after, but the situation with the courts and sh*t kinda made us start speaking again.Had a few other disputes later on and I just couldnt be bothered so I locked him off totally and moved out with my girl which is the best thing I ever did cos I used to feel to kill him when he came home, just used to boil over with anger differently.Cant stand his family either apart from his dad, my grandad, who is a very kinda man, nothing like him at all.But its all good still cos I know if God gives me the chance I will learn from all that and make sure im a better dad than him, I wana be a dad like Lewis Hamiltons dad still, bust a gut for them, never let down my yutes.

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I dont live at home anymore but I lived with both parents yes.Dad was a part time dad really, used to say we were going to the park & stuff when I was young and lock it off and bare sh*t like that so I resented him abit still.Remember I got bare trophies at football 1 year and I couldnt go to the awards night cos he couldnt be bothered to take me, I'll never forget that.Used to always watch Man U together and all that but he is volatile at times & used to disrespect my mum certain time and one time he did it when I was 17, my friend had just died days earlier and I wasnt in the mood and I sparked him in his boat, bare police everything.Didnt chat to him for like a year living in the same house, some f*cked up situation.I got introuble with the law soon after, but the situation with the courts and sh*t kinda made us start speaking again.Had a few other disputes later on and I just couldnt be bothered so I locked him off totally and moved out with my girl which is the best thing I ever did cos I used to feel to kill him when he came home, just used to boil over with anger differently.Cant stand his family either apart from his dad, my grandad, who is a very kinda man, nothing like him at all.But its all good still cos I know if God gives me the chance I will learn from all that and make sure im a better dad than him, I wana be a dad like Lewis Hamiltons dad still, bust a gut for them, never let down my yutes.
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Up to a few years ago still, but im basically fully grown now.Couldnt imagine growin up without ma dad, I wouldnt have grown up waste though as my mum would never let that happen, she aint one of dem let yr youts out till 2 in the mornin at 13-14 an think thats alright mums. Always on top of everything like my Dad from my education to making sure I was respectful etc etc.Mum and Dad both have their own roles, love them both equally, but ma dad done all them things with me that I wanted to do that really an truelly ma mum was never on, playing football wateva the weather (or waeva other sport), going to some northern towns to watch my team on cold wet nights, out riding bikes, random trips about london, etc etc.I have nuff respect for single mothers that do their best to take up both roles for their sons, instead of jus blaming it on absent fathers or the system or those that jus cant b assed in general.those saying ____ >>> Dads, not about confirming yrself to Wasteman status already.

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I dont live at home anymore but I lived with both parents yes.Dad was a part time dad really, used to say we were going to the park & stuff when I was young and lock it off and bare sh*t like that so I resented him abit still.
Same. First 10 or so years of my life I was dropped off at my grandmas every day until about 8 when my mum would come pick me up. Although looking back it was more coz my parents just couldnt afford to stay at home. It was either bring me up and starve, or take me round relatives.
Didnt chat to him for like a year living in the same house, some f*cked up situation.
Same again. Only started talking again regularly, and now its just awkward. We both know theres not gonna be a close relationship, but we both try and make the effort if you get me.
Cant stand his family either apart from his dad, my grandad, who is a very kinda man, nothing like him at all.
Same again. I have 4 uncles and 4 aunts on his side, none of which ive ever met. I have 24 Cousins, only 4 of which Ive met, but dont have the contact details of. My whole dads side of the family is ripped apart, bare hate and resentment.
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my mum and dad split up when i was about 15, it was then that i "got in with the wrong crowd" and started smoking weed heavily. However these things aren't connected, regardless of wot ppl think. I don't know how it has affected me because i don't know wot i'd be like if they were still together, but i'm a nice guy, i dont fight much and i'm polite so it didn't do me too bad.

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Live with both, been together for 26 years, married for 12.My pops is my main role model. Everything Im on now is because of his guidedance. Im the only one out of all my boys that has both parents at home. My pops is cool as hell. Bought me Snoop Dogg Doggystyle and Dr Dre the Chronic for my 9th Birthday. haha levels.

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Not since i was 10. I wldnt say its had a major effect on how I turend out as a person as I am who I am regardless. But things wld of been WAAAYYY different had he been around. I wldnt of got into the lil madness that I did as a young teen as 1. I wldnt of been living where I lived 2. I wld never of lived alone @ 16 3. I wldnt of been able to get away with what I did had he been there.Saying that, my mom did a good job & I turned out good..................... eventually. And had he been around things may of not hv been as good, who knows? Its not something one should dwell on.
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I haven't lived my dad since I was 14 when my parents got divorced.I am still close with him especially since he is very ill and quite elderly, the man is still a hero of mine despite his many and obvious flaws because of the kind of man he is (hard working, up-standing, very morally sound).

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Live with my dad. Dads cool.I will make sure my mum and dad never spilt up, only until me and my sister areold enough n out of their house.
lol at u
I'm being serious bout that. My mum and dad put me and my sister thru misery in 2006, so much that me and my lil sister had to get out of the country for about a month to avoid seeing and going thru things. I cried soooo much that summer, and so did my sister.Police and the courts were involved countless of times. But theyre cool now. I think they both know and understand NEVER EVER to put me and my sister thru wat they put us thru last year ever again.Thats why ill make sure they never spilt up or go thru any madness until were out of their sight.
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Live with my dad. Dads cool.I will make sure my mum and dad never spilt up, only until me and my sister areold enough n out of their house.
lol at u
I'm being serious bout that. My mum and dad put me and my sister thru misery in 2006, so much that me and my lil sister had to get out of the country for about a month to avoid seeing and going thru things. I cried soooo much that summer, and so did my sister.Police and the courts were involved countless of times. But theyre cool now. I think they both know and understand NEVER EVER to put me and my sister thru wat they put us thru last year ever again.Thats why ill make sure they never spilt up or go thru any madness until were out of their sight.
I hear what your saying truss me but if they really wana break up they should do it as soon as. Them staying together for you and your sisters benefit isn't a good idea imo.
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