maxibonbon Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 suspect everyone, trust no one. even the ones closest to me... im a bit wary of. cos at the end of the day, you can only really rely on yourself. cant be filling up your lives with bitches and bastards at sucha young age. so its best to clear them out as of NOW if you feel they're a problem.people [or shall i say person] who i entrusted to be at a least long term friends [no second thoughts about it] f*cked me over NICELY!! so the whole 2 years of getting to know that person went out the window in the space of 2 weeks.that left me feeling as though no one around me could be trusted. it aint fair to tarnish everyone with the same brush but be alert. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrbillion Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 I used to have the problem of trusting people to easily and telling people far to much stuff that should of been just kept private and il admit ive also been in the position where ive told the wrong people things that they were not suppose to know, and then that then concluded in me getting myself into some stupid situations.buy boy have i learnt from past mistakes and these days im the complete opposite, i dont say a word..and thinking about it, i don't trust anybody, not even my family, i thought i could trust my mum but then something happened earlier on this year and my trust for her dissolved into dust.Not Even Ur Mumsy ..So Ur Gonna Get Married Or Relationship WateverAnd U Aint Gonna Trust Them?nah not even my mumsy, from when she went behind my back and invaded my privacy on more than two ocasions, she crossed the trust line and no im not talking about not knocking before entering my room or some minor sh*t like that.i dont want to get married and it will be a long time before i get in a serious relationship status with someone. i aint got time for all that malarky, i dont need more distractions and disruption in my life at the mo.Fully Respect Ur Decision ... Jus Wondered .. Sorry To Hear That Still Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresh Posted June 19, 2008 Report Share Posted June 19, 2008 Keep everyone at arms length, don't be fooled by people' it's gritty out there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YFSD Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 I don't trust anyone, not my marge, dad, sister; anyone.Everyone knows I'm like it though, been snaked bare times by people I thought were close so I'm not risking it anymorePeople are too fickle and spiteful Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipset Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 Could never trsut anyone 100% Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShowermanSamuel Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 A lot of similar thinkers in here...Trust family and maybe two bredrins MAX. No girl will ever get my trust fully. I've been stung stupidly in the past by both girls and mandem so its just something I don't even allow anymore.I had to lock off EVERYONE a few years back. Couple man didn't back me when I needed some assistance on something so I locked them off and did my thing on my ones for a few months and went in different direction. Now the circle has come back together and everyones earnt their stripes again so its all bless.When it comes to girls.. I think I'm immune to actually getting DEEP DEEP into someone now. I'll like them and possibly even love them but I'm always aware that people f*ck around easy these days so if it happens it happens.. It wont suprise me, thus it won't burn me.To my knowledge I've never been cheated on but the other lies and nonsense I've seen some girls come out with - thinking I hadn't clocked from EARLY is stupid.I see you all, I really do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunner Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 Trust is a feeling. You either feel it or you don't. If you don't trust someone, it's not your problem so 2 speak. All i say is know the levels.I got back with my girl who cheated on me. I don't trust her. It's not right, but it's ok. I've learn't that i cant judge and expect everyone to have the same standards and morals as myself, for the simple fact that we are all different and see things in different ways. Doesn't mean that i will accept any slack or sh*t. Its about knowing the person and knowing their levels. So i trust people up 2 a certain extent, things i know they can be trusted with. Eg this example: im friends with a lion and a mouse. I got beef with these Tigers. I aint gonna bring or expect the mouse to back me in this beef. Thats cos i know the mouse. Now i know the lion will back me. That's cos i know the Lion. They are both my friends equally. Cos the Mouse won't back me i don't trust him any less. Weird analogy but i know what im getting at, maybe you lot will 2 with a little weird thinking on it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenny Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 I got back with my girl who cheated on me. I don't trust her. It's not right, but it's ok.Boy, trust is the key to building a strong relationshipaint you going to be worried what shes up to when shes out and about, or when she dont answer your calls etc etc.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wavant Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 Seen WAY to much f*ckery from boys and girls to give out free trust badges, you have to work for them shits from me.Man like Dan says it perfectly; When it comes to girls.. I think I'm immune to actually getting DEEP DEEP into someone now. I'll like them and possibly even love them but I'm always aware that people f*ck around easy these days so if it happens it happens.. It wont suprise me, thus it won't burn me.To my knowledge I've never been cheated on but the other lies and nonsense I've seen some girls come out with - thinking I hadn't clocked from EARLY is stupid.I see you all, I really do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Robin_Van_PersG Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 Can count the people i genuinely trust on 1 hand and still have fingers left. Its not even with chicks i just have a trust problem and its not even that i've ben badly burned before. People have to show me loyalty for me to even show anything of myself to them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest David Braund Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 100% i trust no one but myselfi try not to rely on anyone for anything major in order to avoid the inevitable dissapointmentminor sh*t that doesnt matter is nuffinbut i dnt trust anyone fullynot even blood Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ella Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 rah why do u lot not trust any girls? you must of been burnt dumblytrust me, I've seen a former friend f*ck up a guy's career, everytime I see or speak to him all I can do is smh.experience has taught me that i can only trust my mother and sistersc/s It's come to the point where I will socialise with my friends outside of work/uni/where ever I know them from, but they'll never enter my house. I've one too many snakes jam in my yard, watch my t.v. and eat my food. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LOGers Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 You know what, call me naive but I wear my heart on my sleeve.IMO who am I to make someone have to earn my trust? You have it until to do something to prove you dont deserve it in my world. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Robin_Van_PersG Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 You know what, call me naive but I wear my heart on my sleeve.IMO who am I to make someone have to earn my trust? You have it until to do something to prove you dont deserve it in my world.Guarentee you have at least 3 female friends (or fag friends) that chat your business in public regular and a few snakish friends that will happily rip you off/walk over you/tek weh ya man if the situation arises.You have to know what people are about and how trustworthy they are. If they haven'y shown me some sort of loyalty to some level then their not much more than a 'safe' and keep things moving.My mum and my gran i trust 100% with whatever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 tbh i'm 20 and have never been burnt by any girls or mandem, so i'm a little bit more trustworthy then all of you but in saying that i have seen things happen to friends, family, ex-gf's that all of you are talking about which makes he very wary of people and who i trust.I don't trust anyone 100% if i'm honest, sometimes not even myself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Teddy Riley Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 Pure emotional bitches in here...Llow living life clothed in bubble wrap... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel cakes Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 This topic is depressing-I didnt realise everybody was so cynical. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Robin_Van_PersG Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 Pure emotional bitches in here...Llow living life clothed in bubble wrap...Llow walking around with your guard down tbh. Ain't emotional, cause aint sh*t changing. My guards up all the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Teddy Riley Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 Pure emotional bitches in here...Llow living life clothed in bubble wrap...Llow walking around with your guard down tbh. Ain't emotional, cause aint sh*t changing. My guards up all the time.Guard ain't down fam but I'm prepared.But that ain't gonna limit the way I interact with other people. It's a philosophy I been carrying for years and it ain't done me much harm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyler Durden Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 Whats with the machiavellian attitude?Cant surround myself with people who just have negative perceptions about other people in general. Depressing to live life like that.YES there are people that wont think twice about cunting you off yes there are people that act like they're down but the second sh*t hits the fan they're gone but there are people that if you get close enough to will have your back through ANYTHING. Maybe its your own negative attitudes that are leading to the negative expieriences with people? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Robin_Van_PersG Posted June 20, 2008 Report Share Posted June 20, 2008 Whats with the machiavellian attitude?Cant surround myself with people who just have negative perceptions about other people in general. Depressing to live life like that.YES there are people that wont think twice about cunting you off yes there are people that act like they're down but the second sh*t hits the fan they're gone but there are people that if you get close enough to will have your back through ANYTHING. Maybe its your own negative attitudes that are leading to the negative expieriences with people?SS the thing is its not goig around being funnny with people its just about being selective what information you tell to certain people. Bare people i chat to on a level don't know anything more about me than my name, age, where i'm from, football team i support and how many siblings i got. Things like my finances, CV of chicks, what i did last week they don't get told.see thats the thing, when i came to uni I dropped my guard and through the year realised i had pricks in my clique. Bit by Bit they started showing what they were about. uni peoples are now around 4/5 strong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lofa Posted June 21, 2008 Report Share Posted June 21, 2008 I am trusting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ankle Murda Posted June 21, 2008 Report Share Posted June 21, 2008 I trust NOBODY!!! Never have.Never trusted anyone besides Michael Jordan in the 4th quarter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn_Carter Posted June 21, 2008 Report Share Posted June 21, 2008 I trust people to behave like themselves.If a guy is a snake then I will trust him to behave as a snake would, so I will allow him to think we are tight or whatever fits the situation and we can par in certain situations, but at the same time I am fully aware of his personality and expect him to conform to this behaviour.Could never trust a female, I done listened too to much rap music when I was younger. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted June 21, 2008 Report Share Posted June 21, 2008 im well pissed off, yesterday i found out my mum has been snooping through my room yet again and im like wtf, what gives you that right.she found information about something and now she is asking 21 questions about it, im thinking ffs its none of your business.im gonna get a lock on my door, this is just getting ridiculous, this is the 3rd time within a couple of months , she is just making me distance myself from her even more.and to think, she used to be a nice chilled out mum and now she has turned into some nosey pleb. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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