So I been with my chick for 4 years..

[Wavant]

I sympathise with you bredrin she did the dirty, but its time for you to move on. Obviously easier said than done.sh*t like this has my confidence in females at -17%

thats the worst thingcnt let one speed camera put u off the rest of ur road tripway i see it is like f*ck iteveryones different, cnt let one person paint a picture for me of how everyone isbut on the other hand i go into everything with an expectation of dissapointment, so wen the innevitable does occur, its not that bad

I know and I dont say sh*t without thinking but the sh*t going on these days is morally draining. Absolute greaze.I have a few years on you bredrin and believe me when I say the cesspool activities will change your mind.That Dre song needs to be on autoplay inside this topic.

[Guest Van Der Vaart]

Straight madness...sh*t like this puts me off movin' to girls in relationships.

[Gods Son]

Women Are Mad Mad Creatures, They Lack foresight and General Decision Making Skills Which Is Why They Cant Play Football Or Drive Well.I Would Be So Full Of Rage Right Now, All This Talk ABout Doing Nothing is AIRDo Your Ting Will Make You Feel ALot Better If Shes Hurting AswellPublic Humiliation is My Forte, But You Know What Would Effect Her Best& No Matter How Legit A Women is If There Under 21 There Not Ready For a Serious Long Term Relationship (Although They Think They Are) You DO Too Much Growing Up in Your Teen Age Years To Your Mid Twenties and Thats When These Waste Girls Start To Change And Wanna Act Waste

[Guest Van Der Vaart]

It's been 2 hours since I've read this and I'm still SMH

[Ankle Murda]

WTF??? After 4 years, and she just ends it like that???NAAAAAH, I'll buss her head open tbh.Some next violation, took the piss differently.If she does come running back then tell her to duck out.f*ck that.Keep your head up though.

[Da Luv Doc]

Blade listen to me, do not take it out on this boy.Become the better man and do not attack him and do not do this to other mens women what he done to you.It is a fact that the boy will take her for a slag and duppy her anyway, then you can laugh in her face.LISTEN..........My ex, you know the greek slag, she done got duppied by her boyfriend and now everytime she sees me she alwasy tries to look and smile, like say she remembers the old days and ting, coming to where I work and trying to have a convo with me that gets air.BUT..............................She knows that my gurl is 2895623495623498549851384956 times sexier than she is.........Has a better body than she does........Has a prettier face than she does..........Has bigger breast than she does..........Has an african batty, which my ex doesn't..........Has a better personality than she does............Is doing a sick uni degree, when my ex works full time in retail.............Is a better f*ck than my ex...............Is not like a "I want mixed raced babies, I want to talk road" like my ex is.............THE FACT IS BLADE, SHE KNOWS THAT I HAVE WON, SO BLADE, DO NOT TAKE IT TO HEART, SHE WILL GET HER MERKAGE IN DUE TIME BROTHER, I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL MAN, BUT IN THE END, YOU WILL THINK SHE IS BUTTERS LIKE I THINK MY EX IS BUTTERS!!!!!!!!!!!Blade, I can only say, I know your hurting and have anger towards the guy, it's ok to, but direct most of the anger towards your ex.TBH, if you NEED to do something about it, get a close female to slap her up a few times, but she will get taken far worse than she took you.After reading this, do you think I should send a text saying "haha, karma bit your butt" to my ex???

[Guest David Braund]

I sympathise with you bredrin she did the dirty, but its time for you to move on. Obviously easier said than done.sh*t like this has my confidence in females at -17%

thats the worst thingcnt let one speed camera put u off the rest of ur road tripway i see it is like f*ck iteveryones different, cnt let one person paint a picture for me of how everyone isbut on the other hand i go into everything with an expectation of dissapointment, so wen the innevitable does occur, its not that bad

I know and I dont say sh*t without thinking but the sh*t going on these days is morally draining. Absolute greaze.I have a few years on you bredrin and believe me when I say the cesspool activities will change your mind.That Dre song needs to be on autoplay inside this topic.

i hear thative witness and heard about some f*ckry aswell, it does put mans guard up n sh*t but i jus cnt bring myself to treat people differently based of how others have treated me, its a mirror behaviour ting with me u act right n i treat u rightalso another reason why i dnt jump in relationships quick or get into relationships i dnt want 2 jus for the sake of it 2 get someone i wanna bang or sutinmy chicks go through some vetting process, n i know.. i know sh*t can still slip, but i also go in with that mentality that anyone and everyone can f*ck me over so its nt too bad wen the innevitable does happen.it does make u think f*ck the worldbut i think f*ck her instead, brush my shoulders off n keep it pushinaint no bitch gonna hold man back YA MAD?worst thing is the adjustment period, coz she aint there anymore, n 4 years is a bitch so ur used to bare

[Brandnew]

Jesus christ i think its time for s superpost !!

SMH @ people saying she will comeback..Allow trying to make a happy ending to the situationHe said he has been with her for 4 years and she is 1 month+ deep with another guy.. IMO shez had enough. The way she told him was very cold. Tho, nothing is more exciting than a new relatiionship. Shez probably feeling sky high right now.We could all wish her Karma but personally hoping that one day she will regret and return does you more harm. Wipe her out of your life ASAP. Iant easy but the quicker you do the better

i feel this post

i feel 2 beat her up 4 you.

c/s Gunner's whole post actually, but that bit needed emphasis.

i feel the same way...right hook to the chin

Im really sorry to hear that bro....I can relate, was with the girl for about 4 years also, had one minor arguement next thing she telling me shes better off with someone else who happened to be her best friend at the timeultimate betrayal and my life was shattered, i felt more lost than hurt coz females are unable to effect me in that way i cant give them the satisfaction. i think it was worse the betrayal as im very proud.I chose to handle it a bit differently though, I never got rid of her stuff or erased her from my life I dont beleive in that coz no matter what its was once a part of my life and erasing it will erase a part of myself....I know she got rid of everything herself and that to me is her punishment coz I still have the memories and she dont....one day shes gonna think back and think about what happened for those 4 years of her life and see a giant void wheras i still got the memories although it ended badly memories are memories, thats my take on itmy advice is to be as strong as you can take things slow coz it WILL take a long time to get over it its only natural ur only humanand yes definately a person with weak principals as betrayal will not get far in life stay true to yourself then you will always be better than hergood luck mate I dont think i could ever have said this if you didnt tell your story it takes a lot of courage to admit to something like that you get ratings

for a minute it just got reallty soft in the room...*shakes off emotional atmosphere*

Also you should have had your radar on at all times, that's how it is with women, you have to be on point at all times because the majority of them can not and will not put accross their problems effectively, wake up and smell the coffee, somebody f*cked up midway through your relationship, I'm not saying you messed up but think hard and long, could you have done something that could have triggered her resentment of you to push her to fulfill her needs elsewere? I was with a chick for slightly over half a decade and one christmas her sister dropped a number on me telling me my sister has been talking to someone for the past 2 months, and when she got on the blowers to me she was like he was my bredrin nothing happened, she started going South regular, started drinking and smoking weed thorough and accumilated a bunch of wastegirl friends with babies and multiple man, i had to mentally gradually erase her from my mind, but now that sh*t is all f*cked up for her shes ringing a lot on some rekindling sh*t but I'm a grown ass man and have priorities.

That bit gave me too much jokes lol

Women Are Mad Mad Creatures, They Lack foresight and General Decision Making Skills Which Is Why They Cant Play Football Or Drive Well.I Would Be So Full Of Rage Right Now, All This Talk ABout Doing Nothing is AIRDo Your Ting Will Make You Feel ALot Better If Shes Hurting AswellPublic Humiliation is My Forte, But You Know What Would Effect Her Best& No Matter How Legit A Women is If There Under 21 There Not Ready For a Serious Long Term Relationship (Although They Think They Are) You DO Too Much Growing Up in Your Teen Age Years To Your Mid Twenties and Thats When These Waste Girls Start To Change And Wanna Act Waste

this guy makes sense...but i still advise against any violent action towards the young man.When my ex tried to boy me by basically pushin me away after three years i ended the relationship...she had basically been actin off with me and i cudve been the waceman and stuck it out till she did what ure chick did to you.anyway it took me a while but once i was able to remember how fly i actually am and the fact that she was blessed to be with me i was able to push the hate to the side and move on...like clockwork she came runnin back...the key is to stay busy..get into something and focus...the less time spent wallowing the better.An make sure u hit the west end and update ure kick and thread game...very important !!

[ShowermanSamuel]

May I also add, regardless of how long I've been with a woman, let me tell you this.I'D FIGHT A MAN OVER A GAME OF PRO EVO ON THE X-BOX 360 BEFORE I EVER FIGHT OVER A WOMAN.Dumbest sh*t I ever heard in my life. Fighting over a woman is waste.

[Da Luv Doc]

Blade, be real man, there's no time to fight over her or even speak to her. Shes a d*ck and should be left to be destroyed by this breddah.

[Davicious X]

May I also add, regardless of how long I've been with a woman, let me tell you this.I'D FIGHT A MAN OVER A GAME OF PRO EVO ON THE X-BOX 360 BEFORE I EVER FIGHT OVER A WOMAN.Dumbest sh*t I ever heard in my life. Fighting over a woman is waste.

Fight over LAG, dont fight over WAG LMAO

[Dan.]

its just so sick, cant sleep, cant eat, feel sick, stomach ache... HORRIBLEi was stupid enough to read all the texts on her phone and it has done me no favours..seeing her write "do u know how much iam going to be loosing to be with u" her sending that to a 17 year old..and the dum girl texts me last nite saying needs a break, and she still loves me, and if she feels she needs me after "this break" we will get backstraight delete of the text.. allow her using me if her n this yoot dont work out

[O.Man]

my daysmy heart is actually beatin with anger, is this bitch for real?blade man maybe change ur number n sh*t man, ur mentality needs as much help as it can get

[Dan.]

i think when i get to spain wednesday i will be back in my Espanyol zone.. swiftie knows about me there.. 2 weeks of letting my hair down

[Da Luv Doc]

its just so sick, cant sleep, cant eat, feel sick, stomach ache... HORRIBLEi was stupid enough to read all the texts on her phone and it has done me no favours..seeing her write "do u know how much iam going to be loosing to be with u" her sending that to a 17 year old..and the dum girl texts me last nite saying needs a break, and she still loves me, and if she feels she needs me after "this break" we will get backstraight delete of the text.. allow her using me if her n this yoot dont work out

Brother, shes trying to go on like she has control and not you.You have to tell her you are no longer interested and you think it is time you moved on.Subsequently, tell her you desire no more contact with her.Trust me, she'll be pissed!!!

[Davicious X]

its just so sick, cant sleep, cant eat, feel sick, stomach ache... HORRIBLEi was stupid enough to read all the texts on her phone and it has done me no favours..seeing her write "do u know how much iam going to be loosing to be with u" her sending that to a 17 year old..and the dum girl texts me last nite saying needs a break, and she still loves me, and if she feels she needs me after "this break" we will get backstraight delete of the text.. allow her using me if her n this yoot dont work out

Rah boy, talk about ideas above her station.Tell her straight you dont want her back.Love dont cause so much hurt.Wait furthermore take her back and take bare pictures of you disrespectin her finishing with the ultimate disrespect of upping pics of the wench with buss all over her face. Then email her the pics or let her know the pics are online then drop her like the class you hated the most

[SHOCK]

Blade listen to me, do not take it out on this boy.Become the better man and do not attack him and do not do this to other mens women what he done to you.It is a fact that the boy will take her for a slag and duppy her anyway, then you can laugh in her face.LISTEN..........My ex, you know the greek slag, she done got duppied by her boyfriend and now everytime she sees me she alwasy tries to look and smile, like say she remembers the old days and ting, coming to where I work and trying to have a convo with me that gets air.BUT..............................She knows that my gurl is 2895623495623498549851384956 times sexier than she is.........Has a better body than she does........Has a prettier face than she does..........Has bigger breast than she does..........Has an african batty, which my ex doesn't..........Has a better personality than she does............Is doing a sick uni degree, when my ex works full time in retail.............Is a better f*ck than my ex...............Is not like a "I want mixed raced babies, I want to talk road" like my ex is.............THE FACT IS BLADE, SHE KNOWS THAT I HAVE WON, SO BLADE, DO NOT TAKE IT TO HEART, SHE WILL GET HER MERKAGE IN DUE TIME BROTHER, I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL MAN, BUT IN THE END, YOU WILL THINK SHE IS BUTTERS LIKE I THINK MY EX IS BUTTERS!!!!!!!!!!!SMACKED IT

[Guest Flat Eric]

Blade listen to me, do not take it out on this boy.Become the better man and do not attack him and do not do this to other mens women what he done to you.It is a fact that the boy will take her for a slag and duppy her anyway, then you can laugh in her face.LISTEN..........My ex, you know the greek slag, she done got duppied by her boyfriend and now everytime she sees me she alwasy tries to look and smile, like say she remembers the old days and ting, coming to where I work and trying to have a convo with me that gets air.BUT..............................She knows that my gurl is 2895623495623498549851384956 times sexier than she is.........Has a better body than she does........Has a prettier face than she does..........Has bigger breast than she does..........Has an african batty, which my ex doesn't..........Has a better personality than she does............Is doing a sick uni degree, when my ex works full time in retail.............Is a better f*ck than my ex...............Is not like a "I want mixed raced babies, I want to talk road" like my ex is.............THE FACT IS BLADE, SHE KNOWS THAT I HAVE WON, SO BLADE, DO NOT TAKE IT TO HEART, SHE WILL GET HER MERKAGE IN DUE TIME BROTHER, I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL MAN, BUT IN THE END, YOU WILL THINK SHE IS BUTTERS LIKE I THINK MY EX IS BUTTERS!!!!!!!!!!!Blade, I can only say, I know your hurting and have anger towards the guy, it's ok to, but direct most of the anger towards your ex.TBH, if you NEED to do something about it, get a close female to slap her up a few times, but she will get taken far worse than she took you.After reading this, do you think I should send a text saying "haha, karma bit your butt" to my ex???

Big

[shaian]

blade. feel 4 u bruvreally dojust lock her off man.no contactnothinits prob hard to eat too, but make sure u eat man cos u only gona make urself ill. just lock her off, its the hardst thing, but it will be the best thing u can do. she is going to know she made a mistake and come back. dont even give her that chance.

[o-guy]

wow...sorry...could happen to any of us to be honestany ideas on what to do next?cuz i really dn't know what to tell you4 years, living togethershit

[Supernova]

Boi thats deeepI guess u just gotta carry on initAt least she decided to tell you not have a long running affaircondolences blade

[o-guy]

shes a f*ck*ng whore though

[Guest Batman]

About sacrificing so much to be with you. Clap her over. Ok seriouisly bladeThe thing isIt is going to hurt, and it is gonna take a long time to get over, you cant get around that, she was someone who was part of your life for a long long time and now she isnt, so theres gonna be a big hole.And f*ck*ng other chicks or gettin drunk or wahtever, aint gonna make that go away, its f*ck*ng shitty, but your just gonna have to endure this pain for a while..Im tellin you, I know you might not want to delete the texts for sentimental reasons or something, so seriouisly, use a different fone, get all her stuff out of your place, throw away everything you can that reminds you of herThe sooner she is out of your atmosphere the better you will start to healAs for peopel sayin dont touch the brehLOLMans a d*ckhead, he obviously knew she was in a relationship...im guessing he knew how long for...the bottom line is, he knew there was another man involved & he chose to get involved.So he knows the consequences.

[O.Man]

yeh but at the SAME time that 17 year old breh deserves a f*ckin handshake really, he revealed to you who she is.plus you'll just be workin it up in yourself more if u go after him, he's a yute newayshits definetly not f*cked, you have your youth, your exuberance and your new insight into lifeblad the only way is up

[Da Luv Doc]

Batman, why start beef over a bitch whos a hoe and give her the satisfaction of to males fighting over her???Is there any point???NO!!!Gurls love that sh*t, especially hoes.Beefing over a hoe = your a loserIf the boy raped her then killing the guy is the way, but allow fighting over a hoe.The way is to fall in love with someone who is much MUCH better than your ex, then she will feel weak anyway.