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If your girl even MENTIONS going to Napa/Malia/any other hype fest she's probably cheated on you or at a stretch thought about it already.
Thats a bit extreme.
But it's also true... lol. The main aim for those holidays is to be loose and have a "what happens in *insert hype fest here* stays in *insert hype fest here*" all the man go to f*ck so why on earth would you WANT to go to a place where 99.9% of the man there are going to get p*ssy if you're in a relationship.The fact that you're putting yourself in that position in the first place says it all. It's either the attention or the sex, both are as bad as each other.
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Kaygee isn't seeing the point. I have witnessed so many people cheat on these napa holidays, even if they're engaged they still cheat. Like I've said, these party places are sexually charged.Thinkingthuglife, if you make your girl worry about what you'll do when she's out there as you claim, she'll cheat on you. She'll think "f*ck it he's probably cheating anyway."

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TTL, call Your girl couple times while You're out there, You'll b all good, she'll b happs at yard coz You're thinkin about her. amd Kaygee, You're missing the difference between a normal holiday's temptations, and a the temptations of a holiday designed around f*ckin loose girls with music to disguise it as not being an organised orgycue negs.

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Im not missing any point, i know what these holidays are about.There are still situations in which girls AND boys will go simply because thats where their friends are going.. not everyone is going to have lots of sex with strangers.Im not denying that its not a respectable place for anyone to be let alone someone in a relationship but as i said before.. If you are in a serious relationship you should have already given off what you find acceptable and what not. These guys saying there girl can never go a place like this.. dont just be fooled into thinking thats for any other reason than you leaving her. -Someone mentioned strip clubs, my partner goes with his friends every now and then. I dont even give it a second thought tbh. -The girls going to raves thing pops up all the time. It still amazes me that grown men cant separate the fact that girls might actually just want to go and have a nice night. Not for the attention of sleazy guys. It just goes to show the ignorance certain men have when it comes to women, of course we're all the same and only want to cheat and get as much attention as we can.. unless we stay at home and read books of course.. being there for when he comes home from 'raving', that makes you a great girlfriend.

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Go on explain..
First of all "If you lie down with dogs you wake up witt fleas", also known as 'Guilt by association'. My girlfriend's friends would not want to go Napa etc.If you're in a SERIOUS relationship you're not going Napa. How many more times must I say this. Too many bitches wanna have a boyfriend and STILL LIVE THE SINGLE LIFE.Raving? Yeah, they can go to hear music, their friends are going, have a good time etc etc blah blah blah I don't care, PART OF YOU IS DRESSING YOUR BEST YOUR SEXIEST BECAUSE GUYS ARE THERE AND IF YOU DENY THAT YOU'RE A F*CKING LIAR.I'm far from ignorant. I'm a fully GROWN ARSE MAN. You're NAIVE.
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On a real, if wifey wanted to go out raving, cool. Them one off ones where it's someone's birthday, or the girls haven't met up in so long etc. Them all the time ones = new friends on facebook and this argument:Her: Well I'm in a relationship with YOU, so what was the alternative? Give him my number sameway or give him my facebook and don't speak to him?I actually WITNESSED the above argument. I got heated and it wasn't even me. Give girls an inch and they take the f*cking PISS.Certain girls need to get this young ting mentality/slore actions/raving every weekend out of their system before they come and talk to a don like me. KayGee's on some joke ting. Blatently has a BOYFRIEND and not a relationship.

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I'm fortunate somewhat that I'm not looking for a 'proper' relationship, because f*ckin' ell, the way both young men & women go on these days is a madness...I'm quite 'liberal' in my views anyway.To be FAIR, if I was in a relationship, I would still do a lad's holiday & I know my dons ain't going to a 'cultured' location. They're going where the females are at...So boy...

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I fully cosign Goliath. Once in a while to see their friends is cool, but stupid amount of times, aka every week is filthy. Them chicks who are there everytime you go that club, bait they want some d*ck but their "not a slag" SMH.

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Go on explain..
First of all "If you lie down with dogs you wake up witt fleas", also known as 'Guilt by association'. My girlfriend's friends would not want to go Napa etc.If you're in a SERIOUS relationship you're not going Napa. How many more times must I say this. Too many bitches wanna have a boyfriend and STILL LIVE THE SINGLE LIFE.Raving? Yeah, they can go to hear music, their friends are going, have a good time etc etc blah blah blah I don't care, PART OF YOU IS DRESSING YOUR BEST YOUR SEXIEST BECAUSE GUYS ARE THERE AND IF YOU DENY THAT YOU'RE A F*CKING LIAR.I'm far from ignorant. I'm a fully GROWN ARSE MAN. You're NAIVE.
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Exactly the same as girls going raving. You already KNOW why mandem is there, and yet women STILL insist that them looking their best is NOT for the benefit of being desired by those in there.Women are funny creatures mate.
sorry, but this is just not true. i agree with your posts about napa, but women do not 'dress their best' when they go out because guys will be around. if so, why do girls bother getting dressed up to go out to eat with friends, or to go to a friends for dinner? if anything, women dress for other women. a woman is more likely to appreciate for example, christian louboutins, whereas a man will just see them as sexy shoes.if i am going out to dinner, or going to eat at a friends, etc. i will make an effort with my appearance. the only time i don't is for everyday tasks, work, lounging at home, etc. obviously if you're single you may dress more provocatively, specifically for guys. but to say that a woman dresses up solely for male attention is silly.
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