Meeting up with ex's

[darkman]

Usually ends up in fornication

[LuLu]

you know what i agree with u lot, shame its taken me so long but better late than never i guess.i swear to god i think that lorry crashin into my car last thurs knocked some sense into me, in a way it saved me from nearly meeting up with him on the sunday ( i hadnt quite decided, u know thinking at the ' what harm can it do, we just gona talk ' point )now i think the lorry was a sign.... ye sounds strange but its like my mindset has changed, i now think oh dear god what a dumb move meetin up with him would of been, even if it was just to talk but wtf he aint no concern of mine, why do i even need him to be in contact with him, wtf do i benefit from it ?in a way im actually glad i got bashed into a traffic light, that split second u think ur gona die, u get flashbacks from different parts of ur life , its proper weird but anyhow its made me get my priorities in order.

[FANTA]

^^Good on ya lady!

[abc123]

Ex = EXcluded, EXcommunicated

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

many women are single and dont have any clue why and i read this and just laugh.any woman keepin this up deserves to be a linkage for the rest of her life tbh cos she aint prepared to better herself clearly.this is why i aint vex no more women that like to be friends with exs are the best candidates for no strings sex or EASIER to fool into being links while they actually thik they are wifey cos if they that delusional enough to think this is feasable they are that delusional enough to be getting shagged every time they see a guy and not receive and phone call and think they in a relationship.naive chicks are the sh*t cos they are not as loose as hoes but just as easy to f*ck if you know how to manipulate them.get them chicks to spend money on you, pay ya bills suck you off on demand make them hold ya stash the list goes on.anyman with a younger sister needs to show this post to them tbh and once ANY girl reads this and still ends up being a heffer as far as im concerned you agreed to being a heffer cos after reading THIS why would you do it.i done made this CRYSTAL CLEAR any girl who dont agree after this lol @ your future cos its laughable.

[JLovely]

Ex = EXcluded, EXcommunicated

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[LuLu]

Im not even going to napa now, im selling my ticket to one of our friends who wants to go but couldnt get added on at the time, she can pay for the name change charge if she wants to go that badly.Over the weekend ive just thought what is the point in going, i dont drink , rarely will i dance.... yes im one of those boring people who sits down a lot in clubs and just nodds her head, the thought of drunk people everywhere digusts me, why on earth am i going to such a place for im better off on an OAP coach trip to ireland.cant explain it, feel like a new person, its like ive had a wake up call so Thankyou lorry .... dont change the fact il be suein ur insurance company but ye thankyou.

[Da Luv Doc]

Im not even going to napa now, im selling my ticket to one of our friends who wants to go but couldnt get added on at the time, she can pay for the name change charge if she wants to go that badly.Over the weekend ive just thought what is the point in going, i dont drink , rarely will i dance.... yes im one of those boring people who sits down a lot in clubs and just nodds her head, the thought of drunk people everywhere digusts me, why on earth am i going to such a place for im better off on an OAP coach trip to ireland.cant explain it, feel like a new person, its like ive had a wake up call so Thankyou lorry .... dont change the fact il be suein ur insurance company but ye thankyou.

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!You finally realised!!!Lucinda, I have new found respect for you, because you saw the light.I applaud you for opening your eyes to things we have been telling you.Seriously, I am happy for you, now treat your bofriend with respect and lots of sex and he'll respect you back

[Da Luv Doc]

Lucinda, I may come across as extreme, but it's only to try to put some sense into people. In this room, I never EVER chat sh*t unless stated.

[Avon Barksdale]

Im not even going to napa now, im selling my ticket to one of our friends who wants to go but couldnt get added on at the time, she can pay for the name change charge if she wants to go that badly.Over the weekend ive just thought what is the point in going, i dont drink , rarely will i dance.... yes im one of those boring people who sits down a lot in clubs and just nodds her head, the thought of drunk people everywhere digusts me, why on earth am i going to such a place for im better off on an OAP coach trip to ireland.cant explain it, feel like a new person, its like ive had a wake up call so Thankyou lorry .... dont change the fact il be suein ur insurance company but ye thankyou.

Hopefully Gordon Brown will read this and make it compulsory for every female to crash a car into traffic lights and read some Love + Life posts.

[Guest Flat Ericó]

lol @ planning to meet an exif i see you i see you lucky you init

[Captain Planet]

lol @ planning to meet an ex

More time they get hostile behaviour when I see them, only a few get acknowledged as humans these days.

[JLovely]

lol @ planning to meet an ex

More time they get hostile behaviour when I see them, only a few get acknowledged as humans these days.

Too true, lol.Never forget a time I saw my ex boyfriend and my mum spoke to him more than i did.

[E.A.S.E]

Lara, I do not know what planet you are on.You think it is ok to chill with an ex who was a friend of yours before you got together??? Why on Earth would you want this to occur??? Do you not see the stupidity in that??? Like say it's cool for man to let his gurl be friends with an ex, knowing that he f*cked her pre' you and would most probably try slam her lol wtf!!!TBH, what Antix (Marlo Stansfield) says on here is usually true and I agree with his opinion and with angelo's opinion too, that your boyfriend is pissed for life!!!LOL @ letting the mrs chill with an ex, that's like going to a swngers club but getting no p*ssy but a next man is sexing your woman.

too many people confuse the hollyoaks universe with the real universeITS NOT ON AND WE DONT PLAY THAT

Me and my girlfriend were chatting about this the other day, nearly everyone's been with eachother and then two weeks later, they're trying to hook their ex up with their best mate *Super Duper big plainface!!!*

Why do you feel the need to use my Name on here like that?

its annoying isnt it, him using your real name on here.Also i think maybe you should just give up with your essays, you will not win the debate on here.

Its nto really annoying i just curious to why he/she feels the need to use my real name thats all!They aint essays! Essays would be 5000 words! Far from that!This is a forum board, not a competition what is there to win exactly!

[Guest Flat Ericó]

^ lols thats who you remind me ofkinda girl to throw tizer at your white tee in a water fight and complain when she gets boxedi bet it was you infact

[A Bit Better]

LMFAO. I told that story to my work colleagues! The way my tone of voice was so different to when I showed my friend the pictures! From "Stupid bitch" to "Kids are just out of control these days! I mean, I can understand that he was upset but that's too far!"

[E.A.S.E]

^ lols thats who you remind me ofkinda girl to throw tizer at your white tee in a water fight and complain when she gets boxedi bet it was you infact

Ofcourse i would be, cause you konw me Oh so well right!!! :D

[Da Luv Doc]

drunkmofo, your logic is silly tbh.

[E.A.S.E]

Amazing!!

[Da Luv Doc]

Lara, I'm going to be friendlier.If you read your post and then Marlos, you'll realise why you I think you are talking a load of pie:

lol @ some people did i say that the statement a friend that is an ex or a an ex thats a friend, that i believed they are different things... NO i said its how you word something! "believe a friend thats an ex and an ex thats a friend are two different things?"Further more - to the other responses! ..................................................................................The only one i felt a need to drop a short reply! Im not a dumb bitch love so it doesnt take me a day to read a line!! I can read perfectly well!Relationships are about trust!! There is always a reason an ex becomes an ex! If i cant trust my man around his ex then Hes out!! Same way if he doesnt trust me around my ex why is he in a relationship with me....!!Further more i haven't individually met up with my ex ie only me and him going for a drink i have met up with my friends back home and he has been one of which in the group that has come out and yes we have all been out together there fore i have socialised with my ex when i have been back home. I personally haven't met up with any of my other ex's because other than this man they were not my friend before i got with them, so when the relationship split up so did we i had no need and he has no need to contact me if i bump into him i will say Hi etc!Nah im far from a stupid little girl! i dont need to justify that or add to your fuel of lil fire you got burning there on your little "we hate drunkmof*cker" rantings!""""its likely that a years ago this drunkmof*cker was the same kinda chick that justified sleepin in the same bed as a man and not doing anything with him while in a relationship with someone else and claiming it was all cos of trust. Many woman used to drop this once upon a time."""""""Nooooooooo Drunkmof*cker is not the kinda chick that justified sleeping int he same bed as a man while im in a relationship that sh*t aint on thats slipping behaviour and i dont roll with them kind of tendancies!Yeah! Thats all!

fao of angelo and everyone she is basically saying she is NOT what we are suggesting she is and she is going in to FINE DETAIL about why she is not but unfortunately its too late as you dont get a 2nd chance to make a first impressionbabes (drunk mof*cker)this sounds too much like justification and disclaimers rather than anything i can learn from where as what i said is something EVERY WOMAN who reads it will learn from.im sure many woman could put up their defences at what i said and say im a fool or whatever but after reading TALK LIKE THAT FROM ME there is NO DOUBT that every woman will think about threads like THIS and what i have SHOWN THEM every time they come across a man if they want it to work.i gave you food for thought and once you learn a skill of bettering ya self you WILL use it i guarantee after this thread if you was how you SEEM ya gonna change up ya act due to what you read here today.deny it if you want i dont care my work here is done now you can carry on with your life and maybe fix up or at least feel guilty about doing dumb sh*t.as for simple minds hun please dont embarrass ya self by saying such nonsense nor me or angelo are simple people. you could learn a great deal from what we tell you on here cos its based on FACT where by more time when a woman talks on here its based on defending her image you really do need to check some of the older posts we have made and you will see ya not dealing with lightweight no it alls that wanna seem smart this room is FILLED with real talk even from people i dont like so please dont do ya self the injustice of overlookin what we tell you cos you got told about yourself.enjoy your time on vip forums and try ya best to learn from what you read here and you will have great potential as someones WOMAN rather than someones link.

Lara, meeting up with this "group of friends," knowing your ex is part of it is a massive fail. You will conversate with him and obviously certain looks will run. I feel that you are disrespecting your boyfriend for doing this. You should confirm before hand that your ex will not be there. TBH, this is almost a behaviour where the guy should f*ck a few other bitches or at least tell you not to let that happen again.f*ck this trust talk, yeah there is a degree of trust but trust is never 100%, that is fact. Like Marlo said, you seem like you are trying to justify spending time with your ex (via your "group" of friends).I know gurls who are engaged or married who talk to their ex and their ex has attempted, has or will f*ck them. Why, because they were there with them.Such behaviour pisses me off at the lack of respect and the weak justification reasons.Simple lesson, if ya meet ya friends and ya ex there so, call your man, dad, mum etc etc and tell them to come get you as ya know your not meant to be there.Failure to incorporate this rule will mean you will damage your relationship badly or fatally.

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

^ lols thats who you remind me ofkinda girl to throw tizer at your white tee in a water fight and complain when she gets boxedi bet it was you infact

lmfao

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

you are disrespecting your boyfriend for doing this.

the irony is she will shut you down by saying her man is a BIG MAN or better than us etc etc and when she actually does SAY THIS sh*t she is actually nailin the coffin shut and showing US that her man is not only being disrespected but he is actually a dozey c*nt that aint got no sense cos its becoming apparent that she gets away with murder and he puts up with itthe only thing i could be wrong about here is that he is infact not a dozey c*nt BUT he is infact just boying her just as much and has a number of other chicks and the relationship isnt nearly as exclusive as she is making out.either way she has failed because when ya relationship resembles anything of the latter i just explain ya merely someones link with a few extra benefits such as receiving the odd gift from a linkWHICH ILL ADD AINT A GIFT OF SIGNIFICANCE ITS JUST A WAY FOR THE MAN TO TRY AND SOLIDIFY HIS POSITION AND KEEPIN YOU HIS f*ck PIECE.some could laugh and say this is weak but its not i mean the odd 40 quid purchase here and there on a very irregular basis for the sake of KEEPING a link that is reliable and a good f*ck is a good investment when you consider that even more effort is require for SOME new links that may not last long at all.dellusional women that think they are in a relationship when really they are just being used for this body >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> _________________________girls like this are good to have thru college and university its less hassle and more sex.

[Michel Kane]

you are disrespecting your boyfriend for doing this.

girls like this are good to have thru college and university its less hassle and more sex.

*Catches the spirit.*

[E.A.S.E]

HAD TO LOL @ THE FOURTY POUND GIFT!!Sorry but he wouldnt dare step to me with a fourty pound gifts purely on its own!! He knows im a spoilt brat and cost MUCHH MORE THAN FOURTY QUID TO KEEP ME SWEET!Keep trying hunny

[Angelo]