Imo she's not being naive broa lot of girls do thatshe will eventually try a ting under the guise of this naivetyright now he's making jokesa next time he just wants to jam with hernext hes tryna kiss herPersonally I think this is a sign to ditch them both, in the future you will see why (but obv you arent going to do that)confront him asap
1. No girl is naive.2. If an advance is unwelcome and she's happy with you, she'll make that CRYSTAL clear to anyone that tries it.3. Men and women aren't friends. One always wants to f*ck the other. And if she hasn't f*cked him, it's because he wants to f*ck her. She keeps him around knowing this but will play dumb and say he's just a friend.4. You mentioning your insecurities to your girl is the biggest mistake you can possibly make. She now knows what irks you, and knows when to selectively drop information to push your buttons if she ever wants something, or wants to piss you off/manipulate you.5. Getting aggy with him will isolate them both because she's known him longer than you, and he's a "trusted friend". You are the outsider/new boy here, not him. He will play anything off by saying "it was just a joke, banter. jesus, what's this guys problem, he needs to lighten up"6. Nothing is ever one sided in situations like this. Read my thread. She's getting dumped today.
4. You mentioning your insecurities to your girl is the biggest mistake you can possibly make. She now knows what irks you, and knows when to selectively drop information to push your buttons if she ever wants something, or wants to piss you off/manipulate you.
you think they are all that calculating and manipulative?people in the right relationship dont do sh*t like that to each other
4. You mentioning your insecurities to your girl is the biggest mistake you can possibly make. She now knows what irks you, and knows when to selectively drop information to push your buttons if she ever wants something, or wants to piss you off/manipulate you.
you think they are all that calculating and manipulative?people in the right relationship dont do sh*t like that to each other
they do bro. maybe not immeditely but if u bait out ur insecurities to a female. somewhere down the line she will try use them to control you. its human nature. if she thinks you arent paying her enough attention. she will standardly do something she knows pushes the buttons to make u take notice
You guys going on about getting manipulated, let that sh*t happen. Top priority with a girl is always letting her know how indifferent you are to sh*t. Once you've drummed this into her, she won't try a thing. Besides you guys need to start caring less about stuff, it's all this 'caring' that makes you look insecure. When your missus blatantly knows you don't give a crap and will standardly dump her should she 'mis behave', she'll know the levels. Not even a special thing, just set out your rules to her, even if they don't relate to your issues, just let her know you have 'rules', she'll start wondering about everything else, that's how you keep her on her toes. Once you stop keeping your gf on her toes, you're done. Obviously if you're one of those guys who fall into a routine and let your guard down, you become way prone to slipping.Golden rule, never care too much about sh*t, you'll get yourself worried and it'll show. Best way the OP could have dealt with this was to just let laugh at it, if a guy says he wants to mash your chick, bring it up with her and mock him subtly. Don't even give it a second thought tbh.
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You guys going on about getting manipulated, let that sh*t happen. Top priority with a girl is always letting her know how indifferent you are to sh*t. Once you've drummed this into her, she won't try a thing. Besides you guys need to start caring less about stuff, it's all this 'caring' that makes you look insecure. When your missus blatantly knows you don't give a crap and will standardly dump her should she 'mis behave', she'll know the levels. Not even a special thing, just set out your rules to her, even if they don't relate to your issues, just let her know you have 'rules', she'll start wondering about everything else, that's how you keep her on her toes. Once you stop keeping your gf on her toes, you're done. Obviously if you're one of those guys who fall into a routine and let your guard down, you become way prone to slipping.Golden rule, never care too much about sh*t, you'll get yourself worried and it'll show. Best way the OP could have dealt with this was to just let laugh at it, if a guy says he wants to mash your chick, bring it up with her and mock him subtly. Don't even give it a second thought tbh.
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