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Soca Junkie Newbie

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Looks like I missed a good discussion, even with the KayGee onslaught lol.

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In regards to the initial question, I am actually in that situation. I have another one on the way with my current partner. It does come down to maturity and mentality in regards to raising other people's kids. I have no problems doing that as I love kids, but the situation has to be correct regarding her ex partner. She has one from a prior relationship, I have one, and now we're having one together. It's what works for you.

Toney said a while back in this thread that her Dad will feel she wasted her time if it doesn't work out. I disagree. She could waste her time with someone who has no kids for a couple years, she could waste her time with someone with no kids and end up a single Mum. I think that's just looking for fault and that's not really fair. I don't know her situation, but I do see your point Toney, I personally think she's too young but I don't know her or her mentality. It works for her. Good on her.

Everyone would prefer a woman with no children, even approaching their mid 20's, but half you man won't be ready to settle down and commit until your late 20's by the looks and sounds of it. Women that age with no children are usually stubborn, set in their ways and carry emotional baggage, lol @ thinking no kids makes her any better.It would be nice to see where some of you are in 5-7 years time for real.

Thank you.

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Benicio del Toney Newbie

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So by peoples opinions here i shouldnt be able to find a next wife and have kids?

Nobody is saying that G but if a girl @ 19 took you on you can't expect her parents to be over the moon about it, a girl that age has not lived and shouldn't have the burden of children unless she has her own.

If your daughter at 18/19 met a guy in his mid 20's with kids you would be happy with that?

:!:

In this day and age do you know how many men in their early/mid twenties have children? Do you know how hard it is to find a man who hasn't got any kids and is on your level? Obviously that doesn't mean you should settle but why throw away the chance of being with a good man just because he's had 2 children already... :/

You are saying that as a 26 year old.

Now say to yourself if that should be your mindset in your late teens.

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Benicio del Toney Newbie

Benicio del Toney

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Toney said a while back in this thread that her Dad will feel she wasted her time if it doesn't work out. I disagree. She could waste her time with someone who has no kids for a couple years, she could waste her time with someone with no kids and end up a single Mum. I think that's just looking for fault and that's not really fair.

That's all possible but you don't go into a situation thinking you are gonna have kids for someone and end up hating each other and splitting up.

Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't but you can't say you ain't had a go.

What isn't fair imo is a very young girl not getting her turn and an older guy getting another go.

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So by peoples opinions here i shouldnt be able to find a next wife and have kids?

Nobody is saying that G but if a girl @ 19 took you on you can't expect her parents to be over the moon about it, a girl that age has not lived and shouldn't have the burden of children unless she has her own.

If your daughter at 18/19 met a guy in his mid 20's with kids you would be happy with that?

:!:

In this day and age do you know how many men in their early/mid twenties have children? Do you know how hard it is to find a man who hasn't got any kids and is on your level? Obviously that doesn't mean you should settle but why throw away the chance of being with a good man just because he's had 2 children already... :/

You are saying that as a 26 year old.

Now say to yourself if that should be your mindset in your late teens.

I'm 25 don't add on the years looool!

Obviously not for somebody in their late teens... you're fresh out of school. KG is 23 going on 24, I see what you're trying to do with your scenario only difference is.. KG isn't a teenager.

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22 and shes moved in with some 28 year old jahvon with 2 kids by two different mothers

and her relationship with her father has been strained because of it

silly girl.

:rofl:

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