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As someone who has had a recent pregnancy scare from a woman who lives in a different country
all sorts went through my head and the main one was that i could bring the child up on my own in london as a single parent without much worry about money or time etc...
but if it was a situation where i had to deal with the mother as well i would struggle...not really for money but more mentally your taking care of 2 people even if your not with that person
i personally would struggle to have a child and not see them when i feel
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the bringing up other peoples kid is different think it changes as you get older.... i defo couldnt do it if i had none of my own or if i fell in love with someone with a newborn, young child
but a situation where i have kids and she has kids and neither of us are looking for more kids I could do this as id expect her to treat mine like hers... so cant be fucking with double standards on that.
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Benicio del Toney
Nobody is saying that G but if a girl @ 19 took you on you can't expect her parents to be over the moon about it, a girl that age has not lived and shouldn't have the burden of children unless she has her own.
If your daughter at 18/19 met a guy in his mid 20's with kids you would be happy with that?
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Kurtis
why do children have to be a burden
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The Somalian
:!:
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JOHN DOE
bruv dont be silly
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SLEAZE BALL
Children are only a burden for people who are not mature enough to be responsible for another human life.
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Em Dott
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Em Dott
It would be hard since I'm not in the best financial situation but I would be over the moon personally. A child is a blessing and you do what you have to do. I'm already grinding as it is so with another mouth on the way I just have grind even harder. I capable of living on minimal to have better things in the future.
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Not sure why kaygee is getting so much flack. What she eats doesn't make you sh*t. Kaygee you shouldn't have entertained any of this with serious responses.
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Da Luv Doc
Yes
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Kurtis
what im screaming
my child could never be a burden, to me and especially to anyone else
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Benicio del Toney
Your own children shouldn't be a burden of course but taking on somebody else's could be quite easily.
That isn't even difficult to understand.
It's why a lot of people run a mile the minute they hear about kids from previous relationships cos it ain't their problem and they don't want it to be.
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Captain Planet
Not Darren though
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/4612606/darren-bent-scores-with-rivals-old-striker.html
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Benicio del Toney
Cos man are throwing banter it comes across one sided but in reality she has judged other relationships on here and will in turn be judged aswell, nobody is immune nor should they be, this is a place for opinions and when next man like Air Max are being crucified for his decision making on what he thought was a very real situation nobody was speaking up for him so I don't see the place for the sentiment now tbh.
The beauty of this place is most people are similar minded with similar values, it's why you can make a thread about Goddaz being a naughty boy and he gets run off the forum, because you can rely on VIP2 to come to the right conclusion, GABOS.
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Lieutenant
That is just... Weird
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KayGee
I don't mind peoples opinions, as I said if someone is coming to me with a decent conversation i'm more than happy to talk about it. I don't expect people to convert but the majority jumped on the wagon and failed to put forward any valid points. My reason was to try and make people see my point of view and why I am in the situation I am in and how it has worked for me. More fool me for trying to be serious on this forum where being cool is more important than decent conversation/debate.
I don't believe I have judged anyones relationship on here, not in a similar sense. It doesn't even matter anymore, my business is my business and i'm very happy. The fact that my Dad doesn't approve is for various reasons, anyone else who doesn't approve are irrelevant to me. Everything I want from my relationship is fulfilled, thats all that matters.
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YFSD
Are you full white english?
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O Fenomeno
Not really
This guy has tried to beat or wife every chick Defoe has been with
Madness
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Benicio del Toney
Darren Bent, is anyone surprised.
Guy's a sucker.
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Flojo
This was why I saw the direction this topic would take, not sending but given what she's said in the past on other subjects I was surprised to see her post.
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ruz
C/s flojo
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KayGee
Hold on lets not pluck from the air to justify things, I never resent someone for their opinions but I can't be bothered with immaturity and nonsense which is what happened here for the most part.
Come to me with an example of me judging someone based on their relationship or leave it.
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Mic Man
I wonder if KG is this easy to reel in on di dancefloor
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Em Dott
I wasn't aware of her judging others situations. As you were.
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Flojo
This is VIP2 jokes or 'immaturity and nonsense' as you put it are part and parcel whatever the subject.
I can't be arsed to dig through topics but you're one of the most vocal members in this room on the subject of relationships and I'm fairly certain I've seen you comment on people's situations and more time you come across as quite level headed and methodical.
I just didn't see you as someone who at your age would be with someone who has 2 kids already
Judging by that I wasn't wrong in being surprised.
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I've always maintained that the idea love is something magical that can only occur between 2 people destined to meet is bullshit, compatibility is much more flexible than most people think imo. Hence the reason if I meet someone and there is something about them I have a real issue with I make sure I don't put myself in a position where I'm gazing into space trying to convince myself it's something I can get over.
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