PascalMoriarty Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 Does anyone else's other half have friends that you despise, wrongens, morals that belong in the toilet. The majority of her friends are level headed, focused and have good careers. But this one miscreant, continually makes me plainface. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yoshie Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 Does anyone else's other half have friends that you despise, wrongens, morals that belong in the toilet. The majority of her friends are level headed, focused and have good careers. But this one miscreant, continually makes me plainface. Don't see them enough to dislike them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 Why do you care? It's her friends not yours You shouldn't let it bother you 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mame Biram Diouf Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 Why do you care? It's her friends not yours You shouldn't let it bother you Again? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 Why do you care? It's her friends not yours You shouldn't let it bother you Nah it matters Friends can have an influence in a variety of ways I had to vet out couple of my ex's pals still Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yoshie Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 Agree with Porch here, they're her friends. Wouldn't change anything if roles were reversed. Wouldn't let her know either, same way I wouldn't want to know/care Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 Influence from her friends? Fuck having a woman who hasn't got a mind of her own I always tell chicks Her friends are not my friends I would go to an engagement party,wedding,funeral,birthday,christening etc etc but just on a casual ting she can forget it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOHN DOE Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 anyone can get influenced mate 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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PascalMoriarty Posted July 24, 2013 Author Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 Nah come on lets be honest about this. If you're out and you come across a group of girls one of whom is acting extremely dodgy. Automatically, you're going to group the others in the same category. The idea that when they're out, people are assuming she's as much of a waste as this particular friend annoys me. She herself mentions how much of a fool this girl is, yet she has some misguided sense of loyalty towards her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 anyone can get influenced mate If she is weak then yeah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PascalMoriarty Posted July 24, 2013 Author Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 anyone can get influenced mate If she is weak then yeah fuck sake I wanted an educated opinion not an unrealistic view of how friendships work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 The truth is I don't know why you care so much She isn't your girl/sister/niece You shouldn't care Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PascalMoriarty Posted July 24, 2013 Author Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 I refuse to believe that you think the individuals you surround yourself, are incapable of influencing you. What value do they have if they add nothing to your person/life? Whether positive or negative, whether you notice it or not you are influenced by those in your immediate circle. That's not to suggest you don't have a mind of your own, its to say you are human. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 If they are influencing with positive vibes that's good If its negative vibes then you cut them off Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOHN DOE Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 anyone can get influenced mate If she is weak then yeah thats a very naive view on things especially on the mindset of a woman surprised this came from you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 I cant be fucking with women who are influenced by their friends Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nola D Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 I cant be f*cking with women who are influenced by their friends tbf i have to agree that a lot of women are influenced by their friends (men are too). it doesn't have to be in a 'u should leave him' or 'i would never have that' way it can just been in a general conversation about life and experiences. We talk a lot and over time see patterns of relating and situations that have gone on between others. And Maybe at some point compared it to our own shit subconciously or conciously. I'd like to think tho that when it comes to acting or responding to their own life situation a person has a strong awareness of self. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOHN DOE Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 everyone gets influenced - we are human influences come from everywhere Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 90210 Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 i will never date a white girl. that influence comes from my friends and society. would bang behind closed doors. prime example Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresh Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 A couple of my ex's friends were questionable and I told her exactly why and she couldn't disagree. I didn't force any action, but over the course of the relationship, time and time again they'd reinforce my theories, until eventually she saw it necessary to oust them herself. I always judged her against her friends. Every time I had to judge her friends or their actions I turn to her thinking "Really? These are your people?" I believe that birds flock together so once upon a time she must have been like them. She'd left some ways behind, just couldn't leave the people. As long as your missus has recognised that, fine. No need to sever contact. We all have people we might have left behind but can't. Luckily for me she had her own mind and most of her friends looked up to her, she was definitely the alpha in her circle. I got wind of a few of her friends giving her advice on us when we weren't doing well and a couple times I caught her speaking her friends words. Even her mothers, none of which are intellectually or logically superior to me though so she still got shut down and realized their intervention couldn't reinforce her foolishness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaypee Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 I cant be f*cking with women who are influenced by their friends you are implying there are women out there who arent influenced by there friends..? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 I cant be f*cking with women who are influenced by their friendsyou are implying there are women out there who arent influenced by there friends..? A woman with a mind of their own Surely God still creates them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacksbranning Posted July 24, 2013 Report Share Posted July 24, 2013 women are always in their friends ears about relationships so you shouldn't let it bother you ,however if she surrounds herself with complete waste maybe you should get a new girl . Cant be dating a girl who surrounds herself with waste 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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