Antono1 Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 If your girl told you that she is going out with a male friend, and he is taking her out to the cinema or a drink to just catch up and socialise? Basically my girl has told me this but im in 2 minds at the moment. Yes I do trust her because she didnât have to tell me this in the first place. She could of just kept it to herself be sneaky and not let me know. But at the same time she is going out with a male on her own and I know what man are like.What would you do in this situation?Would you flip and say f*ck that you aint going? Or would you just llow it and let her go?Ladies whats your opinion on this if it was the other way round? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 Other way round...hmmmm....to be real with you I wouldn't be too appreciative. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
McLovin' Jones Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 Don't get taken for a mook fam... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest locksmith Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 depends on your relationship.in a adult mature relationship with trust it should be no problems as long as its not too often id be cool wit it, i socialise wit female friends if she gone bang next dude shes gon do it whether u let her go out or flip over it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Seriouss Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 Wouldnt have it. Not a bar of it. I wouldnt ever arrange something like that with a male friend if I had a man and I wouldnt expect him to do it either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Q Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 Cinema. To Catch Up?!?!?!?HAHA Pleeeassee, unless its catching up on old antics. dont see what else you can catch up on in there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savant Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 Go with her init. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ella Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 lol.all I can picture is that yawn-stretch-hand over shoulder manouevre guys try in the cinema... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Em Dott Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 Show her it's not cool.Tempting fate.Because if something does happen, you are going to be pissed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CAMECHI89 Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 If it was just a thing of where they were gonna be outside just say at a park and talking then yeah thats kinda cool.But what on earth does she need to go cinema for?How the f*ck is she gonna chat to him in there?IMO you cant stop a girl from having male friends but things like this I would class as crossing the line.Tell her WTF! And show her the deal but try not to act too jealous about it.Could get her over happy. You dont want that now do you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lofa Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 Why should she be sneaky and go behind your back? Thats not serious.Allow being some tyrant aswell. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Em Dott Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 It's not even a thing about being a tyrant and controlling. If the roles were reveresed, and this guy told his girl he was going cinema with just this one feamle friend, she wouldn't be happy.He needs to show her that she is tempting fate, and taking him for some wasteman, straight up and down.And this shouldn't even be entertaining this friend's movements, because she knows that her boyfriend won't be happy.I trust my girl, but if she try talk them talks to me, I will hot her up about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurtis Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 fam u gotta have her on lock n keyi would drive her to the cineman drop her off, make the dude know.then jus jam or whatever i shud b doing and any kinds of thoughts WOULD NOT EVEN IMAGINE happeningdnt act insecurebut dnt act like a bitch either Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flat Eric Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 How you menna catch up in a cinemayou should ask to meet this fella still..and imagine if you took out a girl who had a man..and she asked the man aswell and he said yes.you would think he is any guy"this is easier then i thought" would be what you're thinking Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest roskie_07 Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 lol.all I can picture is that yawn-stretch-hand over shoulder manouevre guys try in the cinema... that game...mandem know that has got them places before>>>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Dr. Doom Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 Whatever you decide to do, do it whole heartedly. If you decide to let her go do not try to give subtle warnings, show her she has your trust 100%. If you choose to forbid it do not give in at all or this will make you seem more of a push over then just letting her go in the first place. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
younger_lew Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 PERSONALLY!, i'd trust heri have alot of female friends i'd never do anything with, so to say not to trust her would be hypocritical in my case Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Scorpzz Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 if you let her do it once, it could become a regular occurence.if you don't let her go, she might think your tryna keep her on lockbut atleast she told you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Uncle Fargas Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 ask these questions:is he black how long has he been in the country how long have you known him( if more than 2 years you cool) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 Just f*ck other gurls, you'll feel better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maxxx Posted October 29, 2007 Report Share Posted October 29, 2007 I WOULDNT HAVE ITDONT HAVE IT BLOOD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted October 30, 2007 Report Share Posted October 30, 2007 lol @ "She told me"1stly she'd have to ask and 2ndly its not on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jodie Posted October 30, 2007 Report Share Posted October 30, 2007 lol.all I can picture is that yawn-stretch-hand over shoulder manouevre guys try in the cinema... that game...mandem know that has got them places before>>>>The manouevre of all manouevres! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
time_bomb Posted October 30, 2007 Report Share Posted October 30, 2007 male friends only allowed in groups, no 1 on 1s. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steven Posted October 31, 2007 Report Share Posted October 31, 2007 See it from the other guys mind set. He doesnt wanna meet with your bird to catch up on old times. Even if your bird is going to meet him all innocent you dont know what he'll try. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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