Seth Rollins Posted December 20, 2007 Report Share Posted December 20, 2007 Can anyone, male or female, share any experiences?My friends got an appointment next week. She ain't keepin it against all her wishes. Not mine before anyone tries a ting. I don't even know what to say, what to do, how to act.I just feel numb for her, so imagine how she feels.What can I do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
En Sabah Nur Posted December 20, 2007 Report Share Posted December 20, 2007 by law its 100% her choice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ella Posted December 20, 2007 Report Share Posted December 20, 2007 I can't share any experiences, but my friend told me her sister had one. It didn't seem like it was a difficult decision for her, she was sure she wanted to have one, but she was kinda messed up for a while after having it because she had to 'give birth' to it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NORA BATTY Posted December 20, 2007 Report Share Posted December 20, 2007 You going with her?I can't begin to imagine what she is going to go through, it takes a brave person to choose what is best. Although the situation shes put herself in is incredibly difficult its partly her fault, this could have been avioded, (i think). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Onslaught Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 My friends sister had one.She totally changed after it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted December 21, 2007 Author Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 by law its 100% her choiceStrict parents.Don't like her dating outside her race (Maurutian. She tends to go black), no sex before marriage etc...She'll get disowned. Grandma just passed away, Dad's in and out of hospital. Plus, boyfriend lives in USA. f*cked still. I'm going with her. Is it selfish to say I don't even think I can handle it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 i ain got any experiencesbut if you are who shes turned to, you need to be there for hercant jus ditch herthats sad still tho really really f*cking sadif it ain her wish to do that she is gna f*cked upone girl at school had an abortion, she went weird after thatthis girl at uni, her man is proper controllin and basically made her have an abortion, shes all clingy and shiit with him nowmy mums god daughter has had 2!!!shes messed up, but she was always an idiot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted December 21, 2007 Author Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 Without sounding rude, i've helped her through some sh*t before.Girl's a BUNNY BOILER. All phoning man at 5am barlin over some ex link she fell in love with. So just imagine this sh*t.I see my son grow up from he came into this world. I couldn't imagine him not being here. I couldn't even speak cah I know its hard for her.Real talk when I say I can't even handle this sh*t. I simple have no clue what to do or say. I'm just staring at her all silent when she asking me for advice and crying and sh*t.It's easy when u have no kids and its all hypothetical, but since i've become a Dad, seeing my lil man grow into what he is, all my experiences... *KMT*Life's f*ckED boy... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Onslaught Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 I can guess the type.Support her. You will never be able to help her but that does not stop you from caring. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 ^^^tru Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Social Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 sad situationi suppose adoption is out of the question Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scorpzz Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 Recently my friend had an abortion, she took the test @ my yard she was bawlin differently within 10 minutes had to comfort her and what not.She's currently practicing celebacy.Just make sure you're there for her and make her feel like it's not her fault, because she's probably feeling really guilty right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest haze-e Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 I have unfortunately had this experience.Every so often i get thoughts like, I could have been a father reh teh teh.If i could probably go back i may have suggested otherwise to the female and asked her to have it.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 theres nuttin you can doluckily i aint been in this positioni wouldnt know what to say still Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cola Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 I think Abortion is evil. I think she isn't brave. She is stupid. She must know that when shes having sex without protection that there is more than a slim chance that she will get pregnant. Now shes going to end a life that hasn't begun, all because it didn't suit her needs. That is selfish, she should feel guilty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mz Boyage Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 i kno its easier to say but, she shouldnt just get rid of a child because her family wishes, its her baby her life and her new family, unless she is 100% percent she shouldnt do anything!believe me she will live to regret it, ive seen it happen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ch33kyWun Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 She had better be 1000% sure she wants to do this. Once that guilt and second thought start running through your mind AFTER you've had it done, you're going to be f*cked up mentally for a while after. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
...*Nisha*... Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 just be there for her...she's gonna be all over the place afterwards...jus take everything she does or says with a pinch of saltthe best thing in my experience is just listen when she wants to talk about it and if she isn't then jus leave it..the worst thing is to keep asking them how they feeltbh its not selfish that u doubt whether u can handle it but just comfort as much u can, without suffocating her at the same time if that makes senseits a tough thing 2 go through so just bare with her through it all...chances are she might change after it like personality wise but thats just a way 2 deal with everything Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
...*Nisha*... Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 She had better be 1000% sure she wants to do this. Once that guilt and second thought start running through your mind AFTER you've had it done, you're going to be f*cked up mentally for a while after. thats true but from personal experience you can be a million percent sure n it will still f*ck u up mentally for a while Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ch33kyWun Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 She had better be 1000% sure she wants to do this. Once that guilt and second thought start running through your mind AFTER you've had it done, you're going to be f*cked up mentally for a while after. thats true but from personal experience you can be a million percent sure n it will still f*ck u up mentally for a while Thats what I mean. You know it was the right thing to do but second thoughts Still set in and your screwed after that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
...*Nisha*... Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 it might be an idea for her to take up the supprt they offer afterwards depending on how she feels Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natalie Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 I'm pro life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 If the girl really does not want the baby or if she is not in a good financial situation to have one,then i don't think there is anything wrong with her decision to have an abortion but then again im just a cold bitch.Ladies, if you got pregnant now, would you seriously keep the baby at the age you are at now ? ............... just think , this baby could ruin all your career plans and other future plans you may have.Also to the vip2 males out there, would it put you off getting with somebody if she had kids and what if the kids did not have the same father ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ch33kyWun Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 @ LuLu: If I got pregnant now, I'd keep the baby. I'm financially stable and my career is so broad the pregnancy wouldn't muck up my future plans. If the dad didn't want to be in our lives anymore, or if he didn't want to be with me... this might sound nuts but I think I'd be relieved. I told my mum this a few months back and she started crying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest haze-e Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 I think Abortion is evil. I think she isn't brave. She is stupid. She must know that when shes having sex without protection that there is more than a slim chance that she will get pregnant. Now shes going to end a life that hasn't begun, all because it didn't suit her needs. That is selfish, she should feel guilty.You d*ckhead.You can never think about it just like that at all. Other factors must also be thought of.LuLu knows the deal.When it happened to me i done told the girl "Look. Its not really my choice but if your willing to keep this baby im here for you innit. However in this current moment in time i am not looking to become a father. Whatever you decide i will support you through it"You may think im evil coz i was for abortion and sh*t but it werent the time. However as i said before if i could go back i probably would have asked her to keep it.The guilt may f*ck her up Goli. Support her through this time fam. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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