Mr Q Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 I think Abortion is evil. I think she isn't brave. She is stupid. She must know that when shes having sex without protection that there is more than a slim chance that she will get pregnant. Now shes going to end a life that hasn't begun, all because it didn't suit her needs. That is selfish, she should feel guilty.You d*ckhead.You can never think about it just like that at all. Other factors must also be thought of.LuLu knows the deal.When it happened to me i done told the girl "Look. Its not really my choice but if your willing to keep this baby im here for you innit. However in this current moment in time i am not looking to become a father. Whatever you decide i will support you through it"You may think im evil coz i was for abortion and sh*t but it werent the time. However as i said before if i could go back i probably would have asked her to keep it.The guilt may f*ck her up Goli. Support her through this time fam.Cola is such a mug.Seriously though, if someone feels at that time they cant give 110% to that child i dont really think they should have that baby. I think it would be worse to have the baby and be a f*cking lousy parent who ends up giving their child a sh*t life then having an abortion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cola Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 Right well, after the abortion, tell her not to beat herself up about it because whats done is done, but what she should do is take the guilt feeling and she should acknowledge she was stupid for allowing herself to get pregnant, but move on and take it as a lesson learned. If she continues to have unprotected sex and all of that, then... expect another abortion.And those of you calling me mugs or stupid because I said abortion is evil, are the stupid mugs. Abortion is not meant to be there for silly young girls getting up the duff cause they are having sex. Its meant to be there for serious matters, but of course... people are taking advantage of it. Perhaps if these girls did get pregnant and end up with a dozen kids, it would finally get through to them that protection is an ultimate must.And thats not a dig at your friend, but women and men in general. And boys and girls since they are at it like rabbits too. If You Cant Feed Your BabyThen Don't Have A Baby And Don't Think Maybe If You Can't Feed Your Baby You'll Be Always Tryin'To Stop That Child From Cryin'Hustlin', Stealin', Lyin'Now Baby's Slowly Dyin' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Q Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 Right well, after the abortion, tell her not to beat herself up about it because whats done is done, but what she should do is take the guilt feeling and she should acknowledge she was stupid for allowing herself to get pregnant, but move on and take it as a lesson learned. If she continues to have unprotected sex and all of that, then... expect another abortion.Are you stupid?!?I think you are.Where did Goli state that the she had unprotected sex,How do you know the condom hadnt split, you donut. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cola Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 Right well, after the abortion, tell her not to beat herself up about it because whats done is done, but what she should do is take the guilt feeling and she should acknowledge she was stupid for allowing herself to get pregnant, but move on and take it as a lesson learned. If she continues to have unprotected sex and all of that, then... expect another abortion.Are you stupid?!?I think you are.Where did Goli state that the she had unprotected sex,How do you know the condom hadnt split, you donut.Well it will be a lesson to her to take more care. Not just her, why is everyone having a go at her. It takes two to tango. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest haze-e Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 Right well, after the abortion, tell her not to beat herself up about it because whats done is done, but what she should do is take the guilt feeling and she should acknowledge she was stupid for allowing herself to get pregnant, but move on and take it as a lesson learned. If she continues to have unprotected sex and all of that, then... expect another abortion.And those of you calling me mugs or stupid because I said abortion is evil, are the stupid mugs. Abortion is not meant to be there for silly young girls getting up the duff cause they are having sex. Its meant to be there for serious matters, but of course... people are taking advantage of it. Perhaps if these girls did get pregnant and end up with a dozen kids, it would finally get through to them that protection is an ultimate must.And thats not a dig at your friend, but women and men in general. And boys and girls since they are at it like rabbits too.If You Cant Feed Your BabyThen Don't Have A Baby And Don't Think Maybe If You Can't Feed Your Baby You'll Be Always Tryin'To Stop That Child From Cryin'Hustlin', Stealin', Lyin'Now Baby's Slowly Dyin' Bare contradiction. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 after realising who it is she brought it on herself you been giving this girl advice from day fam. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ella Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 Ladies, if you got pregnant now, would you seriously keep the baby at the age you are at now ? ............... just think , this baby could ruin all your career plans and other future plans you may have.I would keep it. I'd be pissed as I'm at uni and it would mean that I would have to drop out and start over again, but I wouldn't be able to get rid of it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 If i got pregnant now ,i would have an abortion, i know im heartless but having a baby at the age i am now is just not for me. Infact i don't think i ever want children in the future , im far to selfish and lazy to have them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Onslaught Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 I'm pro lifeSame but if a friend needs support I can understand how devastating something like this can be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipset Posted December 21, 2007 Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 If the girl really does not want the baby or if she is not in a good financial situation to have one,then i don't think there is anything wrong with her decision to have an abortion but then again im just a cold bitch.Ladies, if you got pregnant now, would you seriously keep the baby at the age you are at now ? ............... just think , this baby could ruin all your career plans and other future plans you may have.Would most likely keep itand ure better off giving the girl support. Obviously uve had a child so already know the positives of keeping a child which is the deep side of it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted December 21, 2007 Author Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 "Apparantly" the condom split and they didn't realise til AFTER he buss. THEN they thought "since i already buss in you we might as well carry on"Got the morning after pill next day. sh*t HAPPENS. I think thats some dumb sh*t but hey, point is she pregnant.Can't take all this crying, I know the good sides of keeping it. I also know the bad sides of terminating it (not me personally but someone close to me).Wondering how the baby would look, all picked out a name, he would have been this old on this day, I should be a Mum etc. This was years ago. Still f*cks with her now. It's mad to see, and I know my friend in this dilemma very well.She'll be worse. P.S: People talking about money. Not really on exposing too much of my business but f*ck it. I was working MAD HOURS flipping burgers in Maccy D's when my yute was on his way for a few months. Plus if you're doing something constructive with yourself you won't be as hard off as you think.My son has all he needs now, and more, because of how I grafted in a sh*t job and hustled. Being in a sh*t job or as well off as you'd like to be don't mean:A) You can't provide and You'll be a sh*t parent and your child won't have all it needs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TF/S4DK Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 She's gonna have a difficult few months, expect a LOT of crying & her being VERY emotional. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marlon Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 I think Abortion is evil. I think she isn't brave. She is stupid. She must know that when shes having sex without protection that there is more than a slim chance that she will get pregnant. Now shes going to end a life that hasn't begun, all because it didn't suit her needs. That is selfish, she should feel guilty.You d*ckhead.You can never think about it just like that at all. Other factors must also be thought of.LuLu knows the deal.When it happened to me i done told the girl "Look. Its not really my choice but if your willing to keep this baby im here for you innit. However in this current moment in time i am not looking to become a father. Whatever you decide i will support you through it"You may think im evil coz i was for abortion and sh*t but it werent the time. However as i said before if i could go back i probably would have asked her to keep it.The guilt may f*ck her up Goli. Support her through this time fam.Exactly the same situation as me, down to what you said as well.Cola you're such a prick its unreal. I beg people who have never been in the situation shut the f*ck up about things they don't know about. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurtis Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 lolcola been an idiot form dayno point even replying to what she says Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted December 30, 2007 Author Report Share Posted December 30, 2007 Well, deed was "sorted" yesterday. Gone.Am I f*ckries for airing the calls?80% of the time I have genuinely been busy (my son, dj'ing, helping my bredrin move house, off out to one bar tonight). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Realz. Posted December 30, 2007 Report Share Posted December 30, 2007 don't air her calls......well try not to.....she needs your friendship alot at this point in her life.....so please be patient with her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Who Knows? Who Cares? Posted December 30, 2007 Report Share Posted December 30, 2007 Hate pathetic women.Family pressure blah blah, take care of her Own SH!T THEN INNIT. Its yours do what u gotta do if YOU want it!!! Would have sent her to talk to the father of this thing only...See nuff teen mums in Hackney doing their thing, they had aspirations too...(don't feel sorry for her coz she is a female, she ain't disabled, she is an able person) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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FACE OFF Posted January 6, 2008 Report Share Posted January 6, 2008 just like to let you all know that this girl is now calling ME but she dont know that i KNOW all of this about her i got her number a while back.LMFAOim a plan b link evidently Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted January 6, 2008 Report Share Posted January 6, 2008 don't air her calls......well try not to.....she needs your friendship alot at this point in her life.....so please be patient with herread my above post and see why this is not so.she is an attention whore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O.Man Posted January 6, 2008 Report Share Posted January 6, 2008 maybe u should talk to her try n releive some guilt, go on a pro choice website and take down some bullet points, life is all perspective really. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LocalLoop Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 Golly shouldnt really feel guilty.....unless you were lying and it actually WAS your child Me personally, I wouldnt have an abortion unless it was for medical reasons- Im not easily swayed by others so if the guy was tellin me to get rid he'd get told to f*ck off. Simple. then 5 years later i'd get the child to call up and say "daddy, why did you want me dead?" Im joking. I wouldnt do that bit...I know someone who did though- it was hilarious... That girl is gonna feel guilty for the rest of her life and so will her parents for forcing her to do it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 Golly shouldnt really feel guilty.....unless you were lying and it actually WAS your child Me personally, I wouldnt have an abortion unless it was for medical reasons- Im not easily swayed by others so if the guy was tellin me to get rid he'd get told to f*ck off. Simple. then 5 years later i'd get the child to call up and say "daddy, why did you want me dead?" Im joking. I wouldnt do that bit...I know someone who did though- it was hilarious... That girl is gonna feel guilty for the rest of her life and so will her parents for forcing her to do it.LOLThats messed! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Seriouss Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 I don't believe the whole 'she had no choice'.COURSE SHE DIDShe had the choice to use protection AND the choice of the morning after pill AND the choice of saying 'I made a mistake, I have to deal with it'.I would never judge anyone for deciding not to have a child, accidents do happen, but in my mind claiming that it is your only option is weak. That is never the case. She needs to accept the responsibility for what she did. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted January 7, 2008 Report Share Posted January 7, 2008 just funny she aint more concerned with getting her mind right more than trying to speech ME.KMTminor i talk to her like a d*ckhead when she calls me im literally just saying to her"WHEN WE f*ckING"simple tings i feel no guilt whatsoever Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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