Soca Junkie Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 Yes but just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re “in love”Dont you find it hard to believe in Love if you've never experienced it?Are you taking the piss?I’ve experienced love and I think I would have given up my whole family, all my money EVERTHING to be with him if that was the case.Woah Blud. Giving up family for a male? Damn.Anyhoo right now... I'd choose career... the way I want to fulfil my dream so badly I don't need any distractions right now... and when I get into a relationship I seem to loose focus... but I dunno... maybe I can balnace the two?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelo Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 And for the last bit you have most likely never been in love and been in the most intense relationship you could imagine, so blah you can’t really call me demented for being in love now.I have been in a very intense relationship, which screwed me over in many ways for a long time after it.Thats why Im such a bastard now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nola D Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 it's very easy to loose focus wen ur on someone or in a relationship, that person ends up gettin more airtime on ur brain that your goal. I'm not sure what i'd rather tbh in an ideal world we'd have the perfect balance but nothing's ever straightforward really Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Cousin Of Sleep Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 'Love'I'd rather have my wife, family n sh*t n all be happy together n it stay that way than me have my dream job.Much rather. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
violet Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 tbh even if its a job i really love...i probs wouldn't enjoy it as much knowing that i had to give up the one i love to do it.i'd rather have love tbh...i know people always say there are plenty more fish in the sea....but there are far more jobs.but i don't think i could be a housewife though...i'd need to be doing something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenny Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 'Love'I'd rather have my wife, family n sh*t n all be happy together n it stay that way than me have my dream job.Much rather.C/S this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lemons Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 Lub. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axiom Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 career plz. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 a balanced diet of both Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ella Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 a balanced diet of bothwould be nice. but if i had to choose it would be love. it would suck to have my dream career with no husband or kids to share it with Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Cousin Of Sleep Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 IMo a job/career is somethign you do just to finance your quest for love O_O:DBut seriously. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Remy Lebeau Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 IMo a job/career is somethign you do just to finance your quest for love O_O:DBut seriously. nice try.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steven Posted April 27, 2008 Report Share Posted April 27, 2008 The girl I *like* leaves England next year to live with her family in Canada. I'm not expecting her to stay. Guess the same applies for a job.I would put the woman I LOVE infront of the job I LOVE any day of the week. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hhhhhhh8 Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 Love is a form of weakness tbh. All I need is a few heirs, and a wife for social occasions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wavant Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 Telling me you cant do both? Seriously.The missus can do the career thing, as long as she knows the "deal"*.*When Junior arrives. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 my girl supports me in trying to get my dream job i dont know though i dont think she would ever expect me to choose but then again at the moment id like to think id choose my girl.i actually believe i would do this cos im not in a standard relationship no more im in a meaningful one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Afroman Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 having a partner slows you down - it doesn't matter what people try and tell you, but its the truth. You will compromise, procrastinate on certain things, and not achieve what you want to as fast...The first time I was with someone I really cared about, I achieved virtually nothing in the space of a year or so - I learnt from it, and the next time I met someone, I did my own thing, kept my space, and worked solidly - but I still had to make time for them. And time is money etc...I achieved a lot more, but not as much as I could have if I were on my own, with no strings holding me back, or other factors to consider when I was making decisions.I've realised that Im not the sort of person who would be ideal to be settling down with right now, or even considering something serious.I think you need to be stable, and have sorted yourself out, before you get involved with someone with a realistic idea of staying with them for the long term.Thats the short answer anyway...Good point/ C/S Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresh Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 I'd expect my girl to be able to sympathise with the fact my career is important to me/us, and be able to compromise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Badman Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 career minded females are a phailsleeping with their work phone and sh*tstay away from me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Cousin Of Sleep Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 my girl supports me in trying to get my dream job i dont know though i dont think she would ever expect me to choose but then again at the moment id like to think id choose my girl.i actually believe i would do this cos im not in a standard relationship no more im in a meaningful one.When'd this happen? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soca Junkie Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 my girl supports me in trying to get my dream job i dont know though i dont think she would ever expect me to choose but then again at the moment id like to think id choose my girl.i actually believe i would do this cos im not in a standard relationship no more im in a meaningful one. Could it be? No more links on the side? WOah. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Tronics Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 I haven't read the whole thread but all i have to say is;I WOULD NEVER CHOOSE A CHICK OVER MY CAREER, NEVER!Thanks for listening. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Sho Case Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 M.O.B. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LOGers Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 well tbh I've pretty much got my career in the bag whilst making my moves to become a business tycoon,from my experience you can never give 100% to both things.When I was with my ex last year I honestly felt like I had met my husband. I put everything I had into that relationship and 18 months down the line it was void.I did what I had to do to pass the year but I didn't work extraordinarily hard and looking back, I feel that maybe I should have done.I'm still only 19 years old so I have plenty of time before I have to worry about dying single in a house full of cats...If I'm gonna be in a fulfilling relationship with someone whilst still chasing my dreams and aspirations, I dont think its gonna be now.At this age I think most of us are too self-involved to really be able to reach the successful balance required to maintain both a partner and a career. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nola D Posted April 28, 2008 Report Share Posted April 28, 2008 I haven't read the whole thread but all i have to say is;I WOULD NEVER CHOOSE A CHICK OVER MY CAREER, NEVER!Thanks for listening.yeh not being funny, i thought about it properly and i really wouldnt either Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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