Guest Eduardo Posted June 24, 2008 Report Share Posted June 24, 2008 Could/would you do it?DisCuss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruno Di Gradi Posted June 24, 2008 Report Share Posted June 24, 2008 my girl has a kid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresh Posted June 24, 2008 Report Share Posted June 24, 2008 40% chance Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest David Braund Posted June 24, 2008 Report Share Posted June 24, 2008 yesmeans theres more chance of me hittin it bareback Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Uncle Man Posted June 24, 2008 Report Share Posted June 24, 2008 nope Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Eduardo Posted June 24, 2008 Report Share Posted June 24, 2008 I'm talking a relationship, not a quick fumble in the forest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruno Di Gradi Posted June 24, 2008 Report Share Posted June 24, 2008 lemme give me full feelings about it.Basically.. i haven't met the kid because i dont wanna connection with it. Because i know when time comes for me 2 break up wid her it will make things difficult. Shes not a hoe or anything. I know hoes. shes not one of them. Just made a mistake. And she has only 1 so i know shes not dumb to make mistakes again. Only thing is it can be difficult because you have 2 bare in mind that her kid comes first which could leave less time for you 2.Also if the man is still seeing the child it could make u pissed. Fortunately for me my girls ex is a wasteman and don't visit.I've been with this girl for 8 months. been through a lot already. I know shes down for me which i like. But at the same time the whole thing of her having a kid thats not mine always makes me think i could never settle down with here fullly ona family level. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 For you to associate yourself with her in the first place must mean she's a good mother, right? I'm assuming you have good judgment.So, why not? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Infidel Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 cant be dealin wid da lack of tightness of the p*ssy so never a wifey ting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruno Di Gradi Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 cant be dealin wid da lack of tightness of the p*ssy so never a wifey tingyou would be surprised cuz. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 cant be dealin wid da lack of tightness of the p*ssy so never a wifey tingyou would be surprised cuz.co-sizzlewas linking one ting whos three years older then me and has 2 kids by DJ Slimzee. Was seeing eachother for quite a while and i'm not gonna lie i was feeling her quite a lot but the fact that she has 2 kids and is older then me meant that it was never gonna be more then a mash for me.atm would never wifey a ting with a yout, allow the baggage and baby daddy and all other stuff that comes along with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Totty Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 my bredins with a chick who has a kid. more power to him tbh. i just couldn't get with a chick who has a kid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn_Carter Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 I HAVE A LOT OF RESPECT FOR MAN WHO CAN GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FEMALE WITH A CHILD, ESPECIALLY IF THE FATHER IS STILL ABOUT. MY EX WAS TIGHT WITH HER STEPDAD AND HE'D BEEN WITH HER MUM FOR ABOUT 10 YEARS, HER REAL DAD WAS A PRICK, AND IF YOU CAN HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH THE KID ITS GOOD.HOWEVER, PERSONALLY, I FEEL I WOULD BE MAKING A d*ckHEAD MOVE IF I GOT WITH A WOMAN WITH A CHILD, ESPECIALLY IF SHE WANTED ME TO LOOK AFTER THE YUTE AND EVEN MORE SO IF SHE WAS STILL IN CONTACT WITH THE FATHER. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A Bit Better Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 Nope. I have a view of how I want my life to turn out including my future family and a kid that isn't mine doesn't fit.It's idealistic but it's honest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wavant Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 One? Try 3.Never ever again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Teddy Riley Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 I would no qualms TBH...Like Goli said, for me to even consider it, she'd have to be a good mother...There's this one girl who lives around the corner for me. I'm telling you man, I've LOVED her since I was 14. I'd raise her daughter as if she was my own, no hesitation... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenny Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 lemme give me full feelings about it.Basically.. i haven't met the kid because i dont wanna connection with it. Because i know when time comes for me 2 break up wid her it will make things difficult. Shes not a hoe or anything. I know hoes. shes not one of them. Just made a mistake. And she has only 1 so i know shes not dumb to make mistakes again.hmmm.. Personally i would meet the child if it was on a serious tip with her. it would make the relationship stronger if you accept the child and maybe even bond with the child..But you said you dont see yourself settling down with her because she has a kid from another relationship, you might grow to love the child and what not if you give it a chancejust saying still Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Superstition Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 Ideally if you like her enough you could make it work, but realistically there's a lot of potential landmines. Most women have enough issues, with a child in the picture she's dealing with the issues and drama of three people - her, her child and her baby's father. Is it fair on the kid? If you meet them and connect but things don't work out with the woman... how will that affect an innocent child, to have their father figures walking in and out of their life all the time? And if things get serious long-term and she has another baby with you... can you be sure you won't love your own flesh and blood a little bit more than another man's child? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capital Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 i did a topic along these lines a while back and my opinion is the same now as it was thenand thats noif i know a girl has a child i will approach her differently and erase certain possibilites from my mindi will let her no that its jus a ting though i wont lead her onalot of the time chicks wid kids have got their heads screwed on though but its jus that i want my 1st child to b a new experience and vice versa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Realz. Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 if the girl is a good mother to the 1 kid then who knows......there is respect for a girl who didnt abort a child after a mistake and loves the kid more than life itself! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Robin_Van_PersG Posted June 25, 2008 Report Share Posted June 25, 2008 possibly in the future, but on a respect level if the youts are mine i don' give a f*ck but they need to respect me. Soon as she dropped 'you should be easy on him/her' or the kid try 'your not my dad' either i'm smacking up the kid like it was my own or me gaaaarn.Would say its unlikely but wouldn't rule it out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Eduardo Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 How can you be in a relationship and have no interaction with the kid? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colin Turnover Posted June 29, 2008 Report Share Posted June 29, 2008 I couldn't be in a relationship with this scenario, but I have pretended. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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