MARLO STANSFIELD Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 i find it hard work tolerating someone i dont like so the term "holding a grudge" isnt something i do with effort its not like i purposely cross the road when i see them i just dont roll deep with them only way we will be together is if they are with someone i roll with just natural. Me being over safe to make a menz is effort and its not that time.anyway someone define holding a grudge and not holding a grudge cos im seeing holding a grudge as forever being bitter (which i dont dont do) and i see not holding a grudge as trying to be safe with someone you dont actually like or have some bitterness to (which i wont do as that is effort.i could be wrong someone put me straight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 i know i can let the anger go, but i wil never ever forgetwhat ever was done to me by whoever will be held forming a frame of reference for future interaction Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 I hold no grudges, though I don't talk to people who I can't buss jokes with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresh Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 So u lot hold a grudge and wait for Karma to deal with it? Long.Certain people I dont like, they either violated or whatever. So I cut them off. I'm not actively seeking to do them nothing. But they couldnt never come chat to man like everythings bless. In which case I'd do them something.That's a grudge Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MARLO STANSFIELD Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 So u lot hold a grudge and wait for Karma to deal with it? Long.Certain people I dont like, they either violated or whatever. So I cut them off. I'm not actively seeking to do them nothing. But they couldnt never come chat to man like everythings bless. In which case I'd do them something.That's a grudgei like Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SLEAZE BALL Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 if i dont like someone for some reason it aint gonna change just cos i wanna be a humanitarian the person still pissed me off and i didnt like it so boy f*ck em+i find it hard work tolerating someone i dont like so the term "holding a grudge" isnt something i do with effort its not like i purposely cross the road when i see them i just dont roll deep with them only way we will be together is if they are with someone i roll with just natural. Me being over safe to make a menz is effort and its not that time.= my opinion on this matter Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SLEAZE BALL Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 So u lot hold a grudge and wait for Karma to deal with it? Long.Certain people I dont like, they either violated or whatever. So I cut them off. I'm not actively seeking to do them nothing. But they couldnt never come chat to man like everythings bless. In which case I'd do them something.That's a grudgeis that really a grudge though?this kinda sh*t strikes me as normal behaviour not a soul consuming grudge type thing tbh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vae Victus Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Dnt get thisIf I dnt like sum1 = I dnt associate/see/speak to themIf they hav dun sumthn like fuk my girl n they were my boy, I'd steam into em n leave em crippled but thats ity am i gna be sittin at home thinkin abt sum1 i dnt like....thats the epitome of failure Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SLEAZE BALL Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 lol @ not realising your bredrin did you a favour by f*ck*ng your girlshould have bought him a pint tbhdisclaimer:- i am speaking hypothetically, i dont want no trouble. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresh Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Dnt get thisIf I dnt like sum1 = I dnt associate/see/speak to themIf they hav dun sumthn like fuk my girl n they were my boy, I'd steam into em n leave em crippled but thats ity am i gna be sittin at home thinkin abt sum1 i dnt like....thats the epitome of failureOnce you steam into em you still hold that grudge dont you, its not liek all tension is cancelled there on. And equilibrium is restored. It would take a lot less provotaction to make you repeat the smackdown. Cos now there's a grudge.Somebody define grudge! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vae Victus Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Dnt get thisIf I dnt like sum1 = I dnt associate/see/speak to themIf they hav dun sumthn like fuk my girl n they were my boy, I'd steam into em n leave em crippled but thats ity am i gna be sittin at home thinkin abt sum1 i dnt like....thats the epitome of failureOnce you steam into em you still hold that grudge dont you, its not liek all tension is cancelled there on.Tension dnt rly equal a grudge thoIf i were 2 see them again it would obviously b akward jst because of previous things that hd happenedbut not lyk id be screwin thinkin ima throw a left hook at themGrudges can be defined as dif things initsum people will jus say not talkin 2 sum1if im sayin itI meanSOL SOL WHEREVER YOU MAY BE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelo Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 No, it's not.I'm not going to make an effort with someone who f*cks up.There's 60 million other people in this country waiting to meet me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted February 14, 2009 Report Share Posted February 14, 2009 i dont talk to certain people because they have hurt me, i dont consider it a grudge they are just cut out of mythoughts. i don't see the point in forgiving especially if i have forgiven before, plus if the relationshipwon't be the same WHAT IS THE POINT?the damage is done surly.plus i will never forget as i have been far to affected by there actionstho i do suspect i may regret it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supernova Posted February 14, 2009 Report Share Posted February 14, 2009 i cant lie, i wrap myself in grudges till im cloaked in darkness, and sound is muffled.The silience is loud and the darkness is bright. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soca Junkie Posted February 16, 2009 Report Share Posted February 16, 2009 I can't hold grudges for long. However I'll forgive but never forget. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShowermanSamuel Posted February 16, 2009 Report Share Posted February 16, 2009 I forgive but never forget. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted February 17, 2009 Report Share Posted February 17, 2009 im terrible for holding grudges, looking back, at times maybe i should just grow the fcuk up and not be so stubborn but i cant help being stubborn, i refuse to back down if i believe i am in the right and you are in the wrong.the grudge i hold with my father, jesus christ, nah he is dead as far as i am concerned.grudge with certain past friends - yet again holding a grudge, refuse to admit i am in the wrong so therefore, friendship goes down the drain. i still have not spoken to a girl i used to hang round with in school, she used to be a gd friend of mine , i had known her since i was 3 but then at the end of yr 11 we fell out and have never spoken since,yet we are on each others facebook but refuse to speak. weird i know. cant even remember what the hell it was we fell out about. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
queen101 Posted February 17, 2009 Report Share Posted February 17, 2009 I TRY not to hold grudges,depends who the person is and what they have did/donemore time, I do though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Messy Posted February 18, 2009 Report Share Posted February 18, 2009 i used to hold grudges badlynow i laugh and move on its a waste of life and energy to hold a grudge,i hve more important things in my life to be doing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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