Official VENTING Thread

[charliechalk]

Did you go to Niche?

[Nola D]

a question for the guise: With Girls in relationships/situations where you care for the Girl are you honest with ur feelings not in a moist way; but do you tell the girl how you feel in regards to certain situations if hurt etc...?/I ask cause im in a 'situation' which cant/wont progress till this guy starts being honest about how he feels, his emotional maturity doesnt match his age and its really draining me now.

[Angelo]

Nola are you my girlfriend?And no, I won't say how I feel. I'll show it.The minute you start saying how you feel you stop becoming a challenge. Cue loss of intrigue, and boredom.And no matter what the majority of girls say, they'd prefer a guy who retains a little mystery, or keeps them wondering.

[Michel Kane]

C/S Angelo.Men not speaking about feelings is more about being practical as opposed to being mature IMO.

[Mr Q]

Nearly let my heart take over my mind last night, had to slap that sh*t back into place.SMH @ moments of weakness.

[Nola D]

ok im taking heed@ angelo why has your girl said the same thing or something@ mikey i dont understand whay you mean by practical?

[Flojo]

what girl rocks one leather glove to a club, and has there hand down there trousers

hahahaha

[Michel Kane]

It's just like what Angelo said. If I talk, she might go off me. If I don't talk, she'll most probably stay somewhat intrigued.Unless I have 100% trust that she's fully into me, and isn't fickle, then why take the risk? In your situation, this guy might not be sure that opening up to you, is worth the risk.

[Angelo]

@ angelo why has your girl said the same thing or something

In different words."I don't even know if you like me" etc. etc.When in reality if she thought that, she wouldn't hang around.The minute I turn around and tell her how I feel, I shoot myself. It's only been 2 months. When it's been 5 times that, I might drop a crumb. Until then, the fact I'm making time for her, enjoying time with her, and we're spending on each other should be evident enough that I like her.

[Nola D]

It's just like what Angelo said. If I talk, she might go off me. If I don't talk, she'll most probably stay somewhat intrigued.Unless I have 100% trust that she's fully into me, and isn't fickle, then why take the risk? In your situation, this guy might not be sure that opening up to you, is worth the risk.

hmmm i hear you

[Nazomi]

Nola are you my girlfriend?And no, I won't say how I feel. I'll show it.The minute you start saying how you feel you stop becoming a challenge. Cue loss of intrigue, and boredom.And no matter what the majority of girls say, they'd prefer a guy who retains a little mystery, or keeps them wondering.

ThisI prefer show.and @Nola how long have you been dealing with your guy?

[Nola D]

Nola are you my girlfriend?And no, I won't say how I feel. I'll show it.The minute you start saying how you feel you stop becoming a challenge. Cue loss of intrigue, and boredom.And no matter what the majority of girls say, they'd prefer a guy who retains a little mystery, or keeps them wondering.

ThisI prefer show.and @Nola how long have you been dealing with your guy?

i dont wanna say cause it makes me wince but toooo long now, on and off its a madness really. Deaded it the beginning of this year but he's trying to come back

[Nazomi]

Nola are you my girlfriend?And no, I won't say how I feel. I'll show it.The minute you start saying how you feel you stop becoming a challenge. Cue loss of intrigue, and boredom.And no matter what the majority of girls say, they'd prefer a guy who retains a little mystery, or keeps them wondering.

ThisI prefer show.and @Nola how long have you been dealing with your guy?

i dont wanna say cause it makes me wince but toooo long now, on and off its a madness really. Deaded it the beginning of this year but he's trying to come back

Im 8 months into a 'similar' situation, but strangely I like it like this, and am in no way wanting him to say anything. I think I like it like this because at the moment im not ready (and nor is he) for it to become THAT even tho it is obvious.I had a situation before this one that I had to lock off because it was going on for too long (and is technically still going on but I am not entertaining of interested anymore), where he was doing it in a way where he was scared to say and pretending rather then not wanting to say. I dont like it when it is a pussyin out version lol

[Heero Yuy]

Nearly let my heart take over my mind last night, had to slap that sh*t back into place.SMH @ moments of weakness.

only human bro, remember that

[Angelo]

Nola are you my girlfriend?And no, I won't say how I feel. I'll show it.The minute you start saying how you feel you stop becoming a challenge. Cue loss of intrigue, and boredom.And no matter what the majority of girls say, they'd prefer a guy who retains a little mystery, or keeps them wondering.

ThisI prefer show.and @Nola how long have you been dealing with your guy?

i dont wanna say cause it makes me wince but toooo long now, on and off its a madness really. Deaded it the beginning of this year but he's trying to come back

lolYou don't rate him.Allow ever trying to claw your way back into a womans heart that has already deaded you.On and off = not a relationship.

[Skenghis Khan]

>>>>>>wisdom tooth painparring my whole skull atm.

[Queen Bee]

>>>>>>wisdom tooth painparring my whole skull atm.

Probably the closest thing ive experienced to childbirth 2bhTry and get hold of some Co-Dydramol, i used to use that 4head headache stuff or tiger balm on my jaw area aswell to take the edge off it, strangely it works a bit, but its still enough to reduce you to tears, hope it sorts itself out soon

[Skenghis Khan]

safe bee.

[Queen Bee]

No probs/Not a vent but i've just realised ive spent a whole week without smoking,not even one cigarette,haven't even been trying to quit. Fingers crossed i don't balls it up this weekend when i have a drink.

[Guest Intervention]

[Queen Bee]

............. what?

[Guest M12 Part 2]

a question for the guise: With Girls in relationships/situations where you care for the Girl are you honest with ur feelings not in a moist way; but do you tell the girl how you feel in regards to certain situations if hurt etc...?/I ask cause im in a 'situation' which cant/wont progress till this guy starts being honest about how he feels, his emotional maturity doesnt match his age and its really draining me now.

with my girl. if she does something that upsets me/pisses me off and she doesnt know actually realise. then i tell her.if its something that is obvious then i show by my actions how much i disapprove

[Dipset]

AS IF THIS GIRL TRIED TO BRING MIX UP ON MY FB PAGE. actually fuming

[LS]

Basically one person is slowly becoming apart of the circle (female) However, one of the lads doesn't get along with her for some reason ( Still ain't heard the reason and just acts funny around that person) and this new person is like one of the coolest people i have met but its got to the point that one of the lads will stop going out with us if the new person comes out. I feel bad so i feel to cut them both out of the circle :lol:There wasn't a relationship or anything 'cause if that was the case i would know who to cut out. Argh!! decisions