In-law Help

[PopT]

FAO IGBO TRADITIONAL WEDDING

 

FIRST AND FOREMOST I AM CARIBBEAN

 

Can someone explain the process,

 

My girl is pregnant and yesterday t MY  GIRLS MUM Told my family we have to send £2k over to Nija to buy Male Goats, Crates of Malt, Tobacco  etc

 

 

Am i being bumped?, What happens if i don't pay it?

 

 

I DONT WANT TO GET MARRIED THOU

[Kuffir]

fuckin hell its peak

[Guest chap44uns]

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Might aswell send 1k to mi paypal aswell

[local]

Pay asap

[JLovely]

Grow some balls

[PopT]

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Might aswell send 1k to mi paypal aswell

 

They want us to send money to Nigeria to meet someone i do not know, and will never meet kmt, this is exactly how i feel.

 

 

Pay asap

 

Are you joking or serios

 

 

Grow some balls

 

 

I hear that but, i spoke to one of my nigerian friends and they told me if i dont marry it brings shame to the family an they will stop me from seeing my child kmt

[Supermalt]

sounds like dowry but lmao

 

aint heard of no 2k being sent to naija over a igbo wedding happening here

 

'dis jamacan boy is stupid, we must chop'

[JLovely]

How can they stop you seeing your child? Your girlfriend maybe, the family no!

I'm convinced you're a t.roll

[Seymour Cake]

They extorting you g

[PopT]

sounds like dowry but lmao

 

aint heard of no 2k being sent to naija over a igbo wedding happening here

 

'dis jamacan boy is stupid, we must chop'

 

 

It is basically a fee to buy myself in the family, they are asking for Goats and what not kmt

 

What is the normal amount

[Kuffir]

'dis jamacan boy is stupid, we must chop'

 

no lies that is literalli what deyre thinking popt lookin to make u d mugu

 

u need to show em the yardie side..

[PopT]

How can they stop you seeing your child? Your girlfriend maybe, the family no!

I'm convinced you're a t.roll

 

I did not say they will stop me, it is what someone who is african  just said to me  on Blackberry

 

They said

 

"Firstly I'm not igbo but

African tradition is basically you have to pay a bride price.

Which is all the list they're demanding

Its kind of forceful which is a bit of a sheg but because she's pregnant

Etc they don't want shame on the family so she needs to get married before hence all this now"

 

 

"Its an african ting - some don't really follow it through as much but that's the general basis

 

If you say no - then they'll most probably stop you from seeing the yute when he/she comes.

 

They'll sheg yu cause your jamaican and that's just a stereotypical thing.

But yu have to be honest and tell them bt they seem mad african like who tells their kid to get married as soon as because yur pregnant

 

Yur slyly pissed nt even gna lie but yu need to deal with the situation

[PopT]

'dis jamacan boy is stupid, we must chop'

 

no lies that is literalli what deyre thinking popt lookin to make u d mugu

 

u need to show em the yardie side..

 

 

What is the normal bridal price

[Supermalt]

sounds like dowry but lmao

 

aint heard of no 2k being sent to naija over a igbo wedding happening here

 

'dis jamacan boy is stupid, we must chop'

 

 

It is basically a fee to buy myself in the family, they are asking for Goats and what not kmt

 

What is the normal amount

 

actually mumzy confirmed this lmao

 

doesnt have to be 2k tho, any amount depending on the family 

 

were the girls dad, if hes awol contact one of her older uncles in the uk

 

allow sending shit to nigieria, are u getting married over there ffs

 

why is this going this far if ur not getting married anyway

 

pms

[PopT]

 

sounds like dowry but lmao

 

aint heard of no 2k being sent to naija over a igbo wedding happening here

 

'dis jamacan boy is stupid, we must chop'

 

 

It is basically a fee to buy myself in the family, they are asking for Goats and what not kmt

 

What is the normal amount

 

actually mumzy confirmed this lmao

 

doesnt have to be 2k tho, any amount just use ur desecration 

 

were the girls dad, if hes awol contact one of her older uncles in the uk

 

allow sending shit to nigieria, are u getting married over there ffs

 

why is this going this far if ur not getting married anyway

 

pms

 

 

To cut along story short, we came to an agreement on a blessing,.... next thing i know i received a big list yesterday......

 

Her father past away

[Guest28]

tell the mum u aint getting married 

 

if not bounce 

[JOHN DOE]

sounds like dowry but lmao

 

aint heard of no 2k being sent to naija over a igbo wedding happening here

 

'dis jamacan boy is stupid, we must chop'

[JOHN DOE]

popt whats ur mum and dads take on this

[PopT]

popt whats ur mum and dads take on this

 

 

My mum says is tradition and i should of known what i was getting myself into before i laid down

 

Dad is more on a "fuck of dont talk foolishness to me" you dont need to do nothing you do not want

[Supermalt]

that list aint for no 'blessing' at least put a wedding on the table but just keep extending the date until ur ready

 

the next meeting (and there should be one) put some bass in ur voice, if they offer drink ask for a cold guiness, dont let their animated bodies scare u 

[The Flyest]

lol dont have it popt

 

just dont have it

[Yardie 2.0]

MY  GIRLS MUM Told my family we have to send £2k over to Nija to buy Male Goats, Crates of Malt, Tobacco  etc

 

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[Skola]

Boy u must have went into this full guns blazing to be considering going to these lengths to make it work with a girl you have only been going out with for a few months

she kept the child because she felt her mother, would hate her if she got rid of it

This is your problem

[Kurtis]

MY  GIRLS MUM Told my family we have to send £2k over to Nija to buy Male Goats, Crates of Malt, Tobacco  etc

 

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