Shadow Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 thinkin id rather b single thn try trust someone an hav some1 take the piss hw u trust girls theese days wid facebook etc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black. Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 You could just keep fucking untill you find one you think you can trust Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lens Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 You take Your time, and until You Yourself see that they can be trusted, they can't be trusted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurtis Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 the rest of the world breathes a sigh of relief Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WhiteTT Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 wit all these instagram bbm keek kik snapchat omg most likey she gona cheat soona or l8er if u dnt fuk good Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meticulous Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 keep f*cking untill you find one you think you can trust she gona cheat soona or l8er if u dnt fuk good Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest chap44uns Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 does any one here trust no 1? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shadow Posted June 1, 2013 Author Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 love every1...trust no 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KayGee Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Trust until your given reason not to, insecurity and paranoia ruins a relationship just as cheating does. If you get hurt you get hurt, you'll get over it just like thousands of people do every day. If anything it just means your one step closer. Most people can remember a time when they were hurt, it was the end of the world at the time but looking back its now laughable. You will never know if you meet someone good if your so defensive and scared of being open. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurtis Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Trust until your given reason not to, insecurity and paranoia ruins a relationship just as cheating does. If you get hurt you get hurt, you'll get over it just like thousands of people do every day. If anything it just means your one step closer. Most people can remember a time when they were hurt, it was the end of the world at the time but looking back its now laughable. You will never know if you meet someone good if your so defensive and scared of being open. one hunna i used to be like that life is SO much better when you free yourself from those shackles but moretime i think its a poser ting, like they cant wait to tell you they dont trust people and everyones a snake blah blah but if you have traumatic experiences that cause you to be that way it can be freeing to let it go bit by bit over time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 [Vince Kennedy McMahon] DTA Austin, DTA [Vince Kennedy McMahon] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobby Reds Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Trust until your given reason not to, insecurity and paranoia ruins a relationship just as cheating does. Real talk right here tbh There a thin line between this and just being a sucker tho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Niall Ferguson Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Firstly, I agree with the OP being free and single is the way when you're young (define young how you want to). I would guess that lots of people (men more so) in relationships don't really want to be in them, but they're too insecure to be single, so just keep the girl around. They like the sex on tap and the security, but find themselves entertaining or wanting to fuck other chicks. If that's you then long off your relationship lol. Everyone will have this insecurity point at some point in their lives, but it usually comes early for some, later for others. Some people never shake it. It depends on when you choose to come out of your comfort zone. Sometimes that choice is made for you. Secondly, where Kaygee starts from a position of trust, I start from a position that you have to earn trust through your actions. Any girl starts at point zero. Of course, she doesn't know that and it should never be communicated to her through silly actions, like checking phones/facebooks etc. That's all dead behaviour. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KayGee Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 What are the benefits of not trusting anyone until they prove themselves, whatever that means? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacksbranning Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Trust until your given reason not to, insecurity and paranoia ruins a relationship just as cheating does. If you get hurt you get hurt, you'll get over it just like thousands of people do every day. If anything it just means your one step closer. Most people can remember a time when they were hurt, it was the end of the world at the time but looking back its now laughable. You will never know if you meet someone good if your so defensive and scared of being open. C/S this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KayGee Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Its funny because I hear it often - 'You have to gain trust in a relationship' What do you gain from having a negative attitude towards trust.. apposed to having a positive attitude and dealing with situations as and when instead of expecting them to happen? How do people gain trust? By not messing up. How do people lose trust? By messing up. To my mind the only benefit would be to be able to remind yourself why you didn't trust her and then why you shouldn't trust the next one... That's insecurity, scared of looking and feeling like a fool. I think a lot of it is in our heads, you can say 'I don't trust her' but you'll still come out just as hurt if she messes you up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurtis Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Its not really a dont trust thing I dont think More like, start neutral then + or - as desired Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SLEAZE BALL Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 SMH @ trusting until being given reason not to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jam Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Yeah I don't understand....trust somebody until I'm snaked? Yeah C/S Dave and Niall Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KayGee Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 But what's the logic? If you don't trust someone what do you gain? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heero Yuy Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Trust your instincts and let them decide wether the person is worth your trust or not. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shadow Posted June 1, 2013 Author Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 i memba wen i was 16 ttrusted some nigerian guy we was goin to go into business do someting together met frm roads well he was security for my local supermarket found out all he wanted to do was f*ck me....took me round his yard as freinds then hes g/f started bangin the door down she even called police cus doorr was locked frm inside n he wudnt let me leave the yardi had to lie for him to poilce i didnt even no he had a girl friend and the middle of the night i woke up wid his hands all over my body never again will i trust a nigerian thts all im sayin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Infamous Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 wtfwut Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KayGee Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Lol I can't help but feel like thats a different league. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurtis Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 Thats not a trust issue Thats a dumb fuck issue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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