Jodie Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 Live with my dad. Dads cool.I will make sure my mum and dad never spilt up, only until me and my sister areold enough n out of their house.lol at uI'm being serious bout that. My mum and dad put me and my sister thru misery in 2006, so much that me and my lil sister had to get out of the country for about a month to avoid seeing and going thru things. I cried soooo much that summer, and so did my sister.Police and the courts were involved countless of times. But theyre cool now. I think they both know and understand NEVER EVER to put me and my sister thru wat they put us thru last year ever again.Thats why ill make sure they never spilt up or go thru any madness until were out of their sight.I hear what your saying truss me but if they really wana break up they should do it as soon as. Them staying together for you and your sisters benefit isn't a good idea imo.Theyre cool now. Theyre getting along. May be going on holiday together in a couple of weeks.But theyre very on and off. Theyve been together for 20 years and not married so theyre keeping it up.I jus dnt wanna hav to go thru more arguments and me and my sister travelling backwards n forwards to see them separately or deciding who to live with. Thats all long...for everyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savant Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 *Hugs Jojo* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nyeleman Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 yes i live with my father ... motherstrong african family values Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marlon Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 Live with my dad. Dads cool.I will make sure my mum and dad never spilt up, only until me and my sister areold enough n out of their house.lol at uI'm being serious bout that. My mum and dad put me and my sister thru misery in 2006, so much that me and my lil sister had to get out of the country for about a month to avoid seeing and going thru things. I cried soooo much that summer, and so did my sister.Police and the courts were involved countless of times. But theyre cool now. I think they both know and understand NEVER EVER to put me and my sister thru wat they put us thru last year ever again.Thats why ill make sure they never spilt up or go thru any madness until were out of their sight.Kinda agree with you.Staying together to present a strong family to the kids is important, BUT, it doesnt do the parents any good in the long term.Also, you'll be surprised what you can handle. From the ages of around 6-13 I remember the arguments mine used to have, things were smashed, plates thrown, doors slammed so hard that the frame came away from the wall - I remember one time my dad threw a salt shaker at the cooker and smashed all the glass in the front. My family has been through some utter sh*t times.It didn't help an awful lot thinking I might be jammed off to social services at the drop of a hat, but it made me independent, and not rely on anyone else when I was having trouble. Or more formally known as emotionally devoid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bex Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 yeah i live with my dad, my parents aren't married but they've been together for 25 years. my dad has mos def been a positive influence in my life, he is the one that pushed me hard to do well in school and to eventually go uni. he grew up on tulse hill estate and was one of the only boys from his school to get a full scholarship to a cambridge university, and a first class degree. he showed me that if he, as disadvantaged as he was, could do that then i really had no excuse. when i was younger i felt that he was too strict, but now i'm older i appreciate the way i was brought up and i don't have a bad word to say about him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 yeah i live with my dad, my parents aren't married but they've been together for 25 years. my dad has mos def been a positive influence in my life, he is the one that pushed me hard to do well in school and to eventually go uni. he grew up on tulse hill estate and was one of the only boys from his school to get a full scholarship to a cambridge university, and a first class degree. he showed me that if he, as disadvantaged as he was, could do that then i really had no excuse. when i was younger i felt that he was too strict, but now i'm older i appreciate the way i was brought up and i don't have a bad word to say about him.Thats really good of your dad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shy One Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 I do And mumzie, they have been together 30 years and not married.Seriouss i swear you're a big rahtid woman? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dadinho Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 Ive hardly been at my parents house the last 2 years, but they live together. Not close at all, my dad never did a lot of the 'typical' dad sh*t, but hes always been supportive and taught me some important sh*t. Not a role model or anything like that, but still glad hes there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hotep Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 Yep Daddy's right here. Always has been, Im very greatfulAlso a lot of people in dis topic need to know Frank is waitin 4 der call hahaha your so funnySarcasm doesnt work well on the net. Therefore i conclude i am indeed hilarious Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenny Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 Yes.Both of them father and his "best friend"??No, he doesn't sleep with the dog.u sayin ur dads a buttymun? pissednah dnt live wid the bre been like dat since 91/92 bre yana,LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 Yep Daddy's right here. Always has been, Im very greatfulAlso a lot of people in dis topic need to know Frank is waitin 4 der call hahaha your so funnySarcasm doesnt work well on the net. Therefore i conclude i am indeed hilarious but your not doe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 my bredrin is a single dad,youts 5 yrs old, super smarthes doin a great job, take my hat off to him still Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hotep Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 Yep Daddy's right here. Always has been, Im very greatfulAlso a lot of people in dis topic need to know Frank is waitin 4 der call hahaha your so funnySarcasm doesnt work well on the net. Therefore i conclude i am indeed hilarious but your not doe i cant un-conclude my conclusion. sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Social Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 can always revise it in a second edition coupled with a foreword apologising for the misnomer in the original Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soca Junkie Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 I do And mumzie, they have been together 30 years and not married.Seriouss i swear you're a big rahtid woman?L m a oMaybe she's not ready to leave home yet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ella Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 A part of me is kind of envious of people who live with both their parents. I haven't seen my dad since I was 6 but that's out of choice. My step-dad raised me up like his own, and even though we aren't close I respect him so much for that.I wouldn't say not living with him has affected me, more like HE has had an effect on how i've turned out personality wise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest I.B.Blackman Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 Rephrased: Are you from the Carribean? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
younger_lew Posted November 9, 2007 Report Share Posted November 9, 2007 no i don't, wouldn't want to either to be honest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
violet Posted November 10, 2007 Report Share Posted November 10, 2007 i haven't lived with my dad since i was like seven...i think it was better that way...he wasn't really around much even when he did live at home and i think my mum is better off without him too.i think it probably has affected me...in the way i view (and mis-trust) men.but i'm not sure really...i don't think i am who i am because of him, but rather in spite of him...if that makes sense?!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
streets. Posted November 10, 2007 Author Report Share Posted November 10, 2007 white single parent familys are destroying britainno guidance from dad = recipe 4 disasteryou really think that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurtis Posted November 10, 2007 Report Share Posted November 10, 2007 my bredrin is a single dad,youts 5 yrs old, super smarthes doin a great job, take my hat off to him stillhow did he manage that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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