To pay or not to pay?

[JOHN DOE]

black people being tight as usual 

 

only ever experience the meal calculating with my black friends 

 

go out with the whites and theyll even be happy to pay for your meal 

 

whats £20.00 for a friend to enjoy his 30th ffs 

[PascalMoriarty]

Too many mums on my Facebook most aggravating news feed imaginable. 

[Fresh]

As long as she's showing the fight

[Lieutenant]

In fact, if my mrs did what shes done and invited my friends with a £20 acceptance fee, Id feel shame. Would be reimbursing people on the door.

FAM!

[Supermalt]

With lew and anderson

[dub]

Nah no shame in asking friends to contribute to a birthday.

But you'd definitely want to throw in consideration that maybe they can't all afford to contribute.

[local]

what happens when u lot get invited to a stag doo by the best man

 

baffled u gota pay for plane tix n hotel room?

[Anderson]

Thats very different though aint it.

Thats you and your boys planning a trip/weekend. Of course you'll pay and you'd be happy to.

As appose to, your boys mrs has arranged a party. Its already arranged. Then you get the invite. Along with the invite you are being asked for donations.

Nah. Wheres she going renting penthouses/venues then asking for party aid to help fund it?

Audacious

[SLEAZE BALL]

Me personally I can't deal with this type of mentality

Certain man will happily pay for a thots meal

But wouldn't chip in for their mate

I just don't get it

[Frank White]

my dons big milestone 30th n im gettin upset about a likkle £20

[Frank White]

she should have consulted the people shes inviting beforehand though

[Lieutenant]

Me personally I can't deal with this type of mentality

Certain man will happily pay for a thots meal

But wouldn't chip in for their mate

I just don't get it

[local]

Thats very different though aint it.

Thats you and your boys planning a trip/weekend. Of course you'll pay and you'd be happy to.

Not necessarily

Last 1 I went to was arranged solely by the best man n we were told the hotel, the plane times, told to cough up by a certain date n we all threw a hundred euros in the kitty

I was 400 pound down even before my rik flair costume (WOOO) n I didn't even really like the geeza

Other lads bdays they've pretty much sorted themselves like lads I'm goin mint fest n I've got 2 chalets, let me kno who's comin n well split minivan n room money

I get that this is slightly unorthodox some bird askin u for pennies but to call it audacious must be some weird pride based issue ur having with urself

[Anderson]

Nah I see what youre saying, but for me a stag do for your mate is a given. You know youre going somewhere and youve gotta pay up. Standard procedure really.

But have you ever been to a birthday do (not a weekend away to a next city/country) with a crate in one hand and your entrance fee in the other?

[Supermalt]

in reality im paying that 20 pand. Anderson and lew are paying that 20 pand.

[Frank White]

 i wud happily pay bills to make sure my nigga has a great 30th bday

 

and my dons would do the same 4 me

[Badman]

she should have consulted the people shes inviting beforehand though

 

This

 

Would prevent any confusion or misconceptions 

[The Infamous]

Same way if u go out for ur friends bday

I would buy them a drink or if i was going to their get together i would buy a bottle and pour them a glass

So i duno about this ethical moral dilemma anderson and lew are facing

[Niall Ferguson]

C/S Bane

Got no problem chipping in for birthdays etc

 

BUT

 

It would have been wise to: 

 

 

 consult the people shes inviting beforehand though

 

 

 

[Frank White]

u calmly pay £20 to see dead thots in the rave

[Supermalt]

Now that we've settled that its the principal and people will still pay, who would tell her (or the bedrin) about herself? If nothing is said all this is null and void.

[Frank White]

leuitenant what did u tell her cuz

 

how loud did u raise ur voice

[local]

But have you ever been to a birthday do (not a weekend away to a next city/country) with a crate in one hand and your entrance fee in the other?

Lol not to my memory nah

But events are normally at pubs, clubs or houses

Renting a penthouse in 1 of the worlds most expensive cities seems like fair play

As it goes bbqs we've all had to chip in before

Anywayyy

Sunny ain't it

Sat on my arse In the garden all day

Deeeecent

[Fresh]

Chipping in at a bbq? 

 

That's where I draw my line, I'll bring a bottle but you can't take an uncreased note from my wallet like it's a fucking transaction dpmo