FRIENDS THAT SWITCH DUE TO THEIR HUBBY OR WIFEY

[FACE OFF BEYOND]

dont wanna go into detail bout one of my people but i have noticed that SOME people completey change and seem to somewhat drift from their friends when they find a new partner or when they have kidsim not saying allow babysitting and go raving course not i just mean in general its like they AINT social anymore to the point that they do it to family members too BUT remember to holla at you when they need something.i find this a bit of a disrespect in a lot of cases cos its like ya good enough to be regarded as fam when ya aint got responsibility BUT when you got a bit of a change of lifestyle you dissapear and come back when ya partner dumps you or ya need a babysitterhas this happened to anyone herediscuss

[kurious]

definatly but as soon as their relationship is on the rocks they will b back in contact with u seeking comfort i laugh and think not much of it, il still be there for them regardless, even when i bring up the issue and they apologise it happens over and over agen 1 freind in particualr its a regular occurance, especially now she has her babyfather back in her lifebut 4 her and her only i will let it slide as im fully aware that being a true freind sometimes means being tolerant 2 bad qualities (2 a certain degree)

[Glock]

Yeah this happen to me still when I was in love with my girl, we were at the first stages of the relationship where it came to seeing each other every day, always talking on the phone etc etc. Didn't think I needed to check my boys on a regs and we started driftin apart. Few weeks down the line I came to my senses, the relationship got boring cause it all became like a routine.

[younger_lew]

happened to me twice, one lad i don't talk to whatsoever and one came to his senses and comes out with the boys abit more now

[Social]

it happens

[Ego]

its happened bare timesand moretime ive just gone and done my own thingi think its a big pisstake

[Kurtis]

yup happensits a pistake in the summeritme when all the goons are in love n sh*t u got nuffin to do coz their all somewhere else

[Brukfoot]

Yeah happens a lot, usually come to their senses after a while (even though this could be a couple of months).

[Playa:President]

Bigger question is, who on here is guilty of this though?I was once a little bit like that, but never over-did it to the point where I totally forget and ignore fam and friends.

[Social]

dont even bother me its understandableyr bredrins are always gunna be there like furniturei wish i done this myself actually in retrospect

[Stig]

people grow up its not about a group of 40 year old bredrins plottin on road and hittin bare raves in malia with man demits happened to meyou can probly tell even my time on the net has decreased

[FACE OFF BEYOND]

okayso why dont MANDEM stick with a chick that does this cos i KNOW you all have a female friend that does thisya wifey right there look no furtherps ya might need to be my age or much older to clock this cos it was only til my uncle had some talk to me time ago bout this that i realised he is right

[Savant]

When this happens you see the simp in your friend.Minor just carry on.

[Mr Q]

it happens, they always come running back in the end.

[Accra]

I won't let it run. I don't do part time friends.You need to know how to balance your time. If you can't then you will lose someone.

[JLovely]

I have a "friend" or should I say associate who when shes gotta man you don't see her for dust when she's single all of a sudden "Come we go raving, come we have a girlys night'.....KMT.

[FACE OFF BEYOND]

i got a family member keeping up this f*ckry and now she getting married next year overseas and expecting people to REACHBAHLike im buying two tickets to see someone who dont even call me using our different networks as an excuse to not call me

[shaian]

yeah nuff girls do thisunderstandable if u was f*ckin her or sumthin cuttin off is normal cos its wrong to the new manbut if u just a friend or chatsoon as they have a man, they cant chat to u no more at all.then they break up and they are back.if u just friends u can talk to the opposite sex and the partner should not get mad.

[Em Dott]

Not going to front, have done this a little. Not intentionally though. It was because I was in Coventry for uni and my girl is in London, and every 2 weeks that I came down I wanted to spend it with her. It's like there wasn't enough time for everything. Someone was going to get neglected. Now it's summer, I've made up for it. I jam with my bredrins plenty, just as much as I jam with my girl.

[FACE OFF BEYOND]

i KNEW titan would be guilty of this

[CAMECHI89]

I didnt realise how common this actually was.But yeah one of my boys are in this f*ckree too!He lives no LONGER than a 10min WALK away and I hardly see the breda now hes got a new chick let alone even talk to him on the phone or suttin.We even play for the same football team but he stopped turning up...(I wonder why) What pisses me off the most, are the BULLSHIIITE excuses he uses like hes tired but still has enough energy for the 30min travel to his girl.In a way I feel sorry for him coz I aint the only bredda whos noticed this and other ppl aint taking it to nicely...Luckily I will still be there if he needs a hand.

[FACE OFF BEYOND]

all im saying is they better be worth it cos if it goes tits up THEY will feel a bit silly

[bayy]

my bredrins been livin wit his chick for nearly a year now...the other month man was chattin bout gettin new floor board and panels and im stil chattin bout sneakers and sh*t.

[zlastboss]

like sum 1 said they always come runnin bak.its the 1s who proper neglect their m8s snd jam with their new partners 24/7 that are usually really messed up when it all goes tits up lol

[Realz.]

girlfriends/boyfriends come and go BUT your friends will/should always be there....