PopT Posted March 3, 2013 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 FAO IGBO TRADITIONAL WEDDING FIRST AND FOREMOST I AM CARIBBEAN Can someone explain the process, My girl is pregnant and yesterday t MY GIRLS MUM Told my family we have to send £2k over to Nija to buy Male Goats, Crates of Malt, Tobacco etc Am i being bumped?, What happens if i don't pay it? I DONT WANT TO GET MARRIED THOU Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kuffir Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 fuckin hell its peak Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest chap44uns Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 Fdssxxfhlhfschgsscvsscbdzcfaastiyds Might aswell send 1k to mi paypal aswell Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
local Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 Pay asap Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 Grow some balls 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PopT Posted March 3, 2013 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 Fdssxxfhlhfschgsscvsscbdzcfaastiyds Might aswell send 1k to mi paypal aswell They want us to send money to Nigeria to meet someone i do not know, and will never meet kmt, this is exactly how i feel. Pay asap Are you joking or serios Grow some balls I hear that but, i spoke to one of my nigerian friends and they told me if i dont marry it brings shame to the family an they will stop me from seeing my child kmt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supermalt Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 sounds like dowry but lmao aint heard of no 2k being sent to naija over a igbo wedding happening here 'dis jamacan boy is stupid, we must chop' 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 How can they stop you seeing your child? Your girlfriend maybe, the family no! I'm convinced you're a t.roll Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seymour Cake Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 They extorting you g Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PopT Posted March 3, 2013 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 sounds like dowry but lmao aint heard of no 2k being sent to naija over a igbo wedding happening here 'dis jamacan boy is stupid, we must chop' It is basically a fee to buy myself in the family, they are asking for Goats and what not kmt What is the normal amount Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kuffir Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 'dis jamacan boy is stupid, we must chop' no lies that is literalli what deyre thinking popt lookin to make u d mugu u need to show em the yardie side.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PopT Posted March 3, 2013 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 How can they stop you seeing your child? Your girlfriend maybe, the family no! I'm convinced you're a t.roll I did not say they will stop me, it is what someone who is african just said to me on Blackberry They said "Firstly I'm not igbo but African tradition is basically you have to pay a bride price. Which is all the list they're demanding Its kind of forceful which is a bit of a sheg but because she's pregnant Etc they don't want shame on the family so she needs to get married before hence all this now" "Its an african ting - some don't really follow it through as much but that's the general basis If you say no - then they'll most probably stop you from seeing the yute when he/she comes. They'll sheg yu cause your jamaican and that's just a stereotypical thing. But yu have to be honest and tell them bt they seem mad african like who tells their kid to get married as soon as because yur pregnant Yur slyly pissed nt even gna lie but yu need to deal with the situation Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PopT Posted March 3, 2013 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 'dis jamacan boy is stupid, we must chop' no lies that is literalli what deyre thinking popt lookin to make u d mugu u need to show em the yardie side.. What is the normal bridal price Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supermalt Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 sounds like dowry but lmao aint heard of no 2k being sent to naija over a igbo wedding happening here 'dis jamacan boy is stupid, we must chop' It is basically a fee to buy myself in the family, they are asking for Goats and what not kmt What is the normal amount actually mumzy confirmed this lmao doesnt have to be 2k tho, any amount depending on the family were the girls dad, if hes awol contact one of her older uncles in the uk allow sending shit to nigieria, are u getting married over there ffs why is this going this far if ur not getting married anyway pms Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PopT Posted March 3, 2013 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 sounds like dowry but lmao aint heard of no 2k being sent to naija over a igbo wedding happening here 'dis jamacan boy is stupid, we must chop' It is basically a fee to buy myself in the family, they are asking for Goats and what not kmt What is the normal amount actually mumzy confirmed this lmao doesnt have to be 2k tho, any amount just use ur desecration were the girls dad, if hes awol contact one of her older uncles in the uk allow sending shit to nigieria, are u getting married over there ffs why is this going this far if ur not getting married anyway pms To cut along story short, we came to an agreement on a blessing,.... next thing i know i received a big list yesterday...... Her father past away Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest28 Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 tell the mum u aint getting married if not bounce Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOHN DOE Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 sounds like dowry but lmao aint heard of no 2k being sent to naija over a igbo wedding happening here 'dis jamacan boy is stupid, we must chop' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOHN DOE Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 popt whats ur mum and dads take on this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PopT Posted March 3, 2013 Author Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 popt whats ur mum and dads take on this My mum says is tradition and i should of known what i was getting myself into before i laid down Dad is more on a "fuck of dont talk foolishness to me" you dont need to do nothing you do not want Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supermalt Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 that list aint for no 'blessing' at least put a wedding on the table but just keep extending the date until ur ready the next meeting (and there should be one) put some bass in ur voice, if they offer drink ask for a cold guiness, dont let their animated bodies scare u 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Flyest Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 lol dont have it popt just dont have it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yardie 2.0 Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 MY GIRLS MUM Told my family we have to send £2k over to Nija to buy Male Goats, Crates of Malt, Tobacco etc dgdf fgc bnfgbn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skola Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 Boy u must have went into this full guns blazing to be considering going to these lengths to make it work with a girl you have only been going out with for a few months she kept the child because she felt her mother, would hate her if she got rid of it This is your problem Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurtis Posted March 3, 2013 Report Share Posted March 3, 2013 MY GIRLS MUM Told my family we have to send £2k over to Nija to buy Male Goats, Crates of Malt, Tobacco etc dgdf fgc bnfgbn dead Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Bruv get a solicitor this is going to get messy.
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