Soca Junkie Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 So I just found out my sister (15) occasionally smokes (cigs/weed) with her friends...We spoke about it and I gave her advise and what not. Also encouraged her to stop.My bredrin told me to G her up to my mum but there's no point, she'll just use it against me & withhold future info. So I did what I thought was best.What would you do if you found out your younger siblings were smoking?Never imagined I'd be having this talk with her Omg next will be sex 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esquilax Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 When did you first start smoking cigs/ green/ having sex? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soca Junkie Posted July 22, 2011 Author Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 Same age but stopped & started again at 20 for some reason. Umm sex..20. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fighting Weight Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 Important stage in her life and as her older sis it's up to you to guide her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 She's already having sex brah/You did the right thing 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 You did the right thingno point telling your mum, check the sibling codeIf my sister started smoking i would be shocked, shes 150% against it 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supernova Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 Some thing with my sister, imagine been hiding smoking weed since I was 14 from parentsshe takes two draw on a zoot bowls it in the house and tells me dad with no repercussions Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mic Man Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 She's already having sex Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yung bawse Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 If my little sister started smoking id force her to stop..no ifs or buts 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soca Junkie Posted July 22, 2011 Author Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 Lol she'd tell me if she was having sex 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Somalian Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 Its not something you can enforce though thats why its called growing up she needs to find her own way in life and experince certain things and gain life experience. You just need to reason with her and be a sister if you think her friends are leading her astray tell her its up to her to take heed u done the right thing tbh you cant hold her hand forever but you can guide her 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KayGee Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 I had the same issue with my little cousins, luckily they grew out of the smoking.The sex however was a different story im just glad most made it to a respectable age and with boyfriends that they are infact still with. I couldn't stress enough how there is no rush but kids these days feel left out easily. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esquilax Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 Smoking and sh*t are a part of being young, it would be silly to pretend that it's not. I'm sure you would know if it was getting out of hand or whateverThe secks is a different matter, have you spoken to her about it before? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rippy Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 Agree with dr tbh.I started around the same age and it took me a few years to realise on my own that it was time to stop. If anyone had told me at the time, I wouldn't have listened. Just ensure her crowd isn't too bad an influence. If I hadn't separated myself from mine, I'd probably be slacking now. I'm sure you'll be able to provide some sort of guidance for her to dwell on. /sex is def another thing. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 Lol she'd tell me if she was having sexlol like she told you she was smoking?Nah I'm playing, there is not much you can do, you yourself smoked so she might have gotten the influence from you.I realised with youngers you have to act responsibly so they have no excuse to go down the wrong routes because it is so easy to do so. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trilliam Posted July 22, 2011 Report Share Posted July 22, 2011 kids need to make their own mistakes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supermalt Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 kids need to make their own mistakesto a certain extent Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skola Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 you did the right thing just be open and honest with herif she continues to trust you and feel that she can speak to you about anything that will really help her through her late teens 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Im Broke Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 Man f*ck that i deal with these girls with iron rod, if i find out she sexing i'm going to take her phonebook and text ' Yo i was just wondering when we were going to have sex again lol, i'm feeling a bit fruity right now lol' which ever boy texts back something like 'Lol Yeah last time was great when you free lol', i'm linking him straight and i will deal with said boy rigourously 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esquilax Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 Man f*ck that i deal with these girls with iron rod, if i find out she sexing i'm going to take her phonebook and text ' Yo i was just wondering when we were going to have sex again lol, i'm feeling a bit fruity right now lol' which ever boy texts back something like 'Lol Yeah last time was great when you free lol', i'm linking him straight and i will deal with said boy rigourouslyLmao Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natty Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 Man f*ck that i deal with these girls with iron rod, if i find out she sexing i'm going to take her phonebook and text ' Yo i was just wondering when we were going to have sex again lol, i'm feeling a bit fruity right now lol' which ever boy texts back something like 'Lol Yeah last time was great when you free lol', i'm linking him straight and i will deal with said boy rigourously Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trilliam Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 Hahaah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pernell Whitaker Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 Man f*ck that i deal with these girls with iron rod, if i find out she sexing i'm going to take her phonebook and text ' Yo i was just wondering when we were going to have sex again lol, i'm feeling a bit fruity right now lol' which ever boy texts back something like 'Lol Yeah last time was great when you free lol', i'm linking him straight and i will deal with said boy rigourouslyyeh mate and when u got to meet him you'll get beaten up by a gang of 15 yr oldsepic fail brah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Im Broke Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 Man f*ck that i deal with these girls with iron rod, if i find out she sexing i'm going to take her phonebook and text ' Yo i was just wondering when we were going to have sex again lol, i'm feeling a bit fruity right now lol' which ever boy texts back something like 'Lol Yeah last time was great when you free lol', i'm linking him straight and i will deal with said boy rigourouslyyeh mate and when u got to meet him you'll get beaten up by a gang of 15 yr oldsepic fail brahMufasa you must have me confused for your down syndrome father. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
His-RightPalm Posted July 23, 2011 Report Share Posted July 23, 2011 so glad I dnt have any younger siblings I give a sh*t about Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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