Sticky situation

[Grafter]

Word

[Michel Kane]

Boy...

Be there for your friend.

Madting.

[Niall Ferguson]

Ealier on yesterday i received a call from my bredrin, saying that he needed to see me and the man's because he feels like he don't want to live no more. For me this was a shock and a serious statement as I've known him since school days and I've never heard him talk this way before nor act in this way plus he is 27 years old i was expecting him to know the levels. I was thinking maybe someone close had died or something. Anyway me and a couple of the boys went to his yard. He started to talk about his wifey who he has being going out with for 6 years. She is a cool good looking women, but for the past last year things have been on and off between them. He stated that they were still seeing each other 3 times a week and doing what a normal couple would do even though they were on and off.

 

Now he was explaining to us that two weeks ago she took a weekend trip up to London to celebrate her friends party, my boy did not go cause he had to work. So when she got back home she told him how it went and said to him she had given a guy her number because he was being a pest all night and she felt sorry for him. Now for me this would ring alarm bells straight away, but for some reason my boy said that he didn't think nothing would come of it as the guy had told his girl that he went prison for doing drugs and to him his girl would not be interested and that would be a no no for her as she is nearly a qualified lawyer. Anyways he said that this week she had become distant from him like she would not call him as much  nor would she text him etc. But he kept it moving, but then out of the blue she called him to tell him she missed him and would like to see him so he went round and they went out came back to her yard and had sex.

 

He told us that she then went out the room to go to the bathroom and he saw her phone on the bed and decided to pick it up and read her messages why she had become so distant. He then said to his amazement from what he was reading she was talking to that guy every day from the day she met him which was about two weeks ago, and not only that but the guy has invited her to come and stay at his place this weekend. Which she has gladly accepted and not only that she has told the guy in one of the messages that she sees herself getting attached to him. Now at this point me and my other boys looked at each other and wanted to buss a hard core laugh but we had to keep it in. f*ckery i know.

 

Now at this point my bredrin said he was in such shock all he did was take the guys number she had stored in her phone and took a copy of some of the messages, and he kept his cool. Basically she has told him that this weekend she's going to her girl friends yard to have a catch up with her. Now what shocked me and the boys most about this is what my friend wanted us to do to resolve his situation. He wanted us to go London with him and find the guy, which to me was stupid. He was coming out with all these scenarios. For example he said maybe i should go to her mum and dad and tell them what she's done to me or maybe one of you guys can ring the guy and tell him she's got a man etc. I know STUPID.

 

At this point i had to tell him that he was watching to much breaking bad and the best thing for him to do was to lock her off and let it go. Forget being friends with her cause you will get whipped and think that there is a chance you could get her back. If i was him i would not even talk to her when she gets back straight block and delete for me. We managed to calm him down and make him see sense. But for me i am quite shocked in the way he wanted to deal with this situation. If it was you how would you all personally deal with this situation.

Really simple decisions...

 

Let the hoe go

 

Bun a zoot

 

Find another hoe

[Corrigan]

GABOS

[Sole]

Imagine you studied 6years for a degree and then found out it didn't even exist.

[Bruno Di Gradi]

its true whats been said...6 years...no house together....no yewt.....

 

what was u doing in those 6 years like...seriously.

 

going home early so the next man can come over and spend the night? allow it

[Vertigo]

Sounds like she wanted some 'excitement'. But as others have said better to find out now than when you put a ring on that finger.

 

This London guy will fuck her then fling her,Your circle has to make sure for your mans sake she can't slither her way into back into his affections when that happens.

[Seydou]

She will slither and found her way back. No doubt about that.

6 years though. Raah

[Guest eights]

Rahargh

[Supermalt]

 

its true whats been said...6 years...no house together....no yewt.....

 

guy is 27 though

 

edit:

 

hold the phone

 

so he was with her for 6 years, so from the ages of 21 to 27 he had no other bitches (of course he didnt)

 

his simping makes sense

[O Fenomeno]

Six years is a long time regardless age

[Fighting Weight]

Cba to read the thread. Is this some kind of L situation?

 

L² ?

[Guest eights]

Did you find your laptop?

[Fighting Weight]

I'm not posting from my phone.

[time_bomb]

guy spent the majority of his prime years with this woman potentially missing out on the best womanising moments of his life, its gona be hard to take, he certainly wont be able to just drop her and beat a next bosh. Hes at fault for leaving himself open to this big fall but i feel for the guy still its happened to many a man.

[Mame Biram Diouf]

You lot think he is wrong for not cheating in the 6 years especially considering his age?

[O Fenomeno]

That guy can never be a womaniser

[Mame Biram Diouf]

That wasn't the question

More asking in general terms

Do people believe a normal man in that length of relationship should be cheating rather than "missing out on your peak years" ie the 21-27 range

[O Fenomeno]

A man should always cheat regardless his age but it has to be something physically better than what he has at home.

[O Fenomeno]

Oh yeah one more thing

Be smart and don't get caught out

[Mame Biram Diouf]

A man should always cheat regardless his age but it has to be something physically better than what he has at home.

What's your reasoning behind this?

[Yoshie]

A man should always cheat regardless his age but it has to be something physically better than what he has at home.

 

Hope your dad did the same to your mum?

Serious Q.

[Mame Biram Diouf]

Porchy doesn't have/need a mum, he has uncles and his dad for that

[Haze-e]

Porchy doesn't have/need a mum, he has uncles and his dad for that

I died a lil bit

[Yoshie]

Porchy doesn't have/need a mum, he has uncles and his dad for that

 

ffffffff

 

I need to do a psychology degree and study Porch