Sticky situation

[Davicious X]

Together 6 years but not living together? That's called doubt. Whichever of these people have been reluctant to bring both parties together, that's the one that caused all this.

 

Are we really not seeing the signs? 6 flipping years and not living together? Guaranteed to fail if you ask me. The girl is probably out of his league too. She's good looking and about to be a qualified lawyer. What's your friend doing with his life?

 

Seems like there are plenty of reasons for this chick not to rate your boy.

[O Fenomeno]

After 3 years together

Thats marriage + children

[Seth Rollins]

Women just doing whatever they want.

 

This man has a lot to answer for.

 

[Seth Rollins]

Ealier on yesterday i received a call from my bredrin, saying that he needed to see me and the man's because he feels like he don't want to live no more. For me this was a shock and a serious statement as I've known him since school days and I've never heard him talk this way before nor act in this way plus he is 27 years old i was expecting him to know the levels. I was thinking maybe someone close had died or something. Anyway me and a couple of the boys went to his yard. He started to talk about his wifey who he has being going out with for 6 years. She is a cool good looking women, but for the past last year things have been on and off between them. He stated that they were still seeing each other 3 times a week and doing what a normal couple would do even though they were on and off.

 

Now he was explaining to us that two weeks ago she took a weekend trip up to London to celebrate her friends party, my boy did not go cause he had to work. So when she got back home she told him how it went and said to him she had given a guy her number because he was being a pest all night and she felt sorry for him. Now for me this would ring alarm bells straight away, but for some reason my boy said that he didn't think nothing would come of it as the guy had told his girl that he went prison for doing drugs and to him his girl would not be interested and that would be a no no for her as she is nearly a qualified lawyer. Anyways he said that this week she had become distant from him like she would not call him as much  nor would she text him etc. But he kept it moving, but then out of the blue she called him to tell him she missed him and would like to see him so he went round and they went out came back to her yard and had sex.

 

He told us that she then went out the room to go to the bathroom and he saw her phone on the bed and decided to pick it up and read her messages why she had become so distant. He then said to his amazement from what he was reading she was talking to that guy every day from the day she met him which was about two weeks ago, and not only that but the guy has invited her to come and stay at his place this weekend. Which she has gladly accepted and not only that she has told the guy in one of the messages that she sees herself getting attached to him. Now at this point me and my other boys looked at each other and wanted to buss a hard core laugh but we had to keep it in. f*ckery i know.

 

Now at this point my bredrin said he was in such shock all he did was take the guys number she had stored in her phone and took a copy of some of the messages, and he kept his cool. Basically she has told him that this weekend she's going to her girl friends yard to have a catch up with her. Now what shocked me and the boys most about this is what my friend wanted us to do to resolve his situation. He wanted us to go London with him and find the guy, which to me was stupid. He was coming out with all these scenarios. For example he said maybe i should go to her mum and dad and tell them what she's done to me or maybe one of you guys can ring the guy and tell him she's got a man etc. I know STUPID.

 

At this point i had to tell him that he was watching to much breaking bad and the best thing for him to do was to lock her off and let it go. Forget being friends with her cause you will get whipped and think that there is a chance you could get her back. If i was him i would not even talk to her when she gets back straight block and delete for me. We managed to calm him down and make him see sense. But for me i am quite shocked in the way he wanted to deal with this situation. If it was you how would you all personally deal with this situation.

 

 

:ROFL:

 

Lemme stop you right there my G. She's gone, and I'm willing to bet my life it's not the first time she's cheated either. 

 

Girls from outta London give ZERO f**ks about relationships. If they're traveling to London or rave local and see London man it's over.

[The Infamous]

Craig david-im walking away

[Guest eights]

After 3 years together

Thats marriage + children

 

di porchee gosperls

[Antono1]

Together 6 years but not living together? That's called doubt. Whichever of these people have been reluctant to bring both parties together, that's the one that caused all this.

 

Are we really not seeing the signs? 6 flipping years and not living together? Guaranteed to fail if you ask me. The girl is probably out of his league too. She's good looking and about to be a qualified lawyer. What's your friend doing with his life?

 

Seems like there are plenty of reasons for this chick not to rate your boy.

 

Well he has just qualified as architect and he is actually saving up so he can put a deposit

to buy his first property. He did treat her good, but my guess is that she just got bored of the relationship. He is finding it hard as for him i guess there are still hardcore feeling from his part at least anyway. She is 25 years old and like someone said maybe she got gassed in the London hype.

 

The only thing what really is worrying me is i dont think he himself even knows how to walk away from her and let it go. As when we were talking today he keeps on saying maybe she didn't go in the end. Its like he is kind of hoping for the best. He is even blaming himself now because he don't know how to end it as he was the one that looked in her phone. What does the guy actually say to her? madness

[O Fenomeno]

Blaming himself

[Da Luv Doc]

 

Ealier on yesterday i received a call from my bredrin, saying that he needed to see me and the man's because he feels like he don't want to live no more. For me this was a shock and a serious statement as I've known him since school days and I've never heard him talk this way before nor act in this way plus he is 27 years old i was expecting him to know the levels. I was thinking maybe someone close had died or something. Anyway me and a couple of the boys went to his yard. He started to talk about his wifey who he has being going out with for 6 years. She is a cool good looking women, but for the past last year things have been on and off between them. He stated that they were still seeing each other 3 times a week and doing what a normal couple would do even though they were on and off.

 

Now he was explaining to us that two weeks ago she took a weekend trip up to London to celebrate her friends party, my boy did not go cause he had to work. So when she got back home she told him how it went and said to him she had given a guy her number because he was being a pest all night and she felt sorry for him. Now for me this would ring alarm bells straight away, but for some reason my boy said that he didn't think nothing would come of it as the guy had told his girl that he went prison for doing drugs and to him his girl would not be interested and that would be a no no for her as she is nearly a qualified lawyer. Anyways he said that this week she had become distant from him like she would not call him as much  nor would she text him etc. But he kept it moving, but then out of the blue she called him to tell him she missed him and would like to see him so he went round and they went out came back to her yard and had sex.

 

He told us that she then went out the room to go to the bathroom and he saw her phone on the bed and decided to pick it up and read her messages why she had become so distant. He then said to his amazement from what he was reading she was talking to that guy every day from the day she met him which was about two weeks ago, and not only that but the guy has invited her to come and stay at his place this weekend. Which she has gladly accepted and not only that she has told the guy in one of the messages that she sees herself getting attached to him. Now at this point me and my other boys looked at each other and wanted to buss a hard core laugh but we had to keep it in. f*ckery i know.

 

Now at this point my bredrin said he was in such shock all he did was take the guys number she had stored in her phone and took a copy of some of the messages, and he kept his cool. Basically she has told him that this weekend she's going to her girl friends yard to have a catch up with her. Now what shocked me and the boys most about this is what my friend wanted us to do to resolve his situation. He wanted us to go London with him and find the guy, which to me was stupid. He was coming out with all these scenarios. For example he said maybe i should go to her mum and dad and tell them what she's done to me or maybe one of you guys can ring the guy and tell him she's got a man etc. I know STUPID.

 

At this point i had to tell him that he was watching to much breaking bad and the best thing for him to do was to lock her off and let it go. Forget being friends with her cause you will get whipped and think that there is a chance you could get her back. If i was him i would not even talk to her when she gets back straight block and delete for me. We managed to calm him down and make him see sense. But for me i am quite shocked in the way he wanted to deal with this situation. If it was you how would you all personally deal with this situation.

 

 

:rofl:

 

Lemme stop you right there my G. She's gone, and I'm willing to bet my life it's not the first time she's cheated either. 

 

Girls from outta London give ZERO f**ks about relationships. If they're traveling to London or rave local and see London man it's over.

 

 

 

C/S

 

Antonio, your boy is a loser.

 

Yes, he'll feel fucked inside, but he HAS to drop her. Bun this other guy, your boy should be spudding him and saying "Safe G, you saved me from wifeying a bosh."

 

[Seth Rollins]

He didn't save him for wifing a bosh. Man invested SIX YEARS.

 

But listen. Just in the nick of time. Man qualified, and now is about to purchase his own yard. Do you really want a cheating slag moving into YOUR YARD? What about next time? She's already going outta town. London man want NUDES. You know she's sent them right?

 

Do you honestly believe she won't draw a man to HIS HOUSE THAT HE OWNS and smash dudes? In YOUR HOUSE?

 

You gotta sell that house my G.

[Da Luv Doc]

He didn't save him for wifing a bosh. Man invested SIX YEARS.

 

But listen. Just in the nick of time. Man qualified, and now is about to purchase his own yard. Do you really want a cheating slag moving into YOUR YARD? What about next time? She's already going outta town. London man want NUDES. You know she's sent them right?

 

Do you honestly believe she won't draw a man to HIS HOUSE THAT HE OWNS and smash dudes? In YOUR HOUSE?

 

You gotta sell that house my G.

 

[Yoshie]

Antonio, help your flipping friend out.

Needs a slap, wake him up.

[Supermalt]

Flex bombs errrwhere

[Guest eights]

Nah I'll listen to bags and boxes 3

[Bruno Di Gradi]

He didn't save him for wifing a bosh. Man invested SIX YEARS.

 

But listen. Just in the nick of time. Man qualified, and now is about to purchase his own yard. Do you really want a cheating slag moving into YOUR YARD? What about next time? She's already going outta town. London man want NUDES. You know she's sent them right?

 

Do you honestly believe she won't draw a man to HIS HOUSE THAT HE OWNS and smash dudes? In YOUR HOUSE?

 

You gotta sell that house my G.

[Thizz]

LOOOOOOOL

[Greens]

Dunno how he kept his cool after reading the txt messages. Things would of been flying through the air.

About maybe she didn't go in the end, the thought alone is enough.

[PascalMoriarty]

Does love actually blind that badly? "I gave him my number because I felt sorry for him". 

 

That in itself constitutes the ultimate betrayal, by giving him her number she openly admitted wanting to maintain contact with this guy. How was she talking to him for long enough to even get onto he's been to jail, I can't recall a time any of the mandem have opened a pitch with a female by telling them they've been in pen. Unless it was Georgia from Upney who's opened legs for every melanin made male east of the river. 

 

- Advise him so: Get rid of her, if any nudes exist, release them into the ether (Preferably by way of Vip2 as its the best way to get them listed on google). He needs to get the nudes out before this other guy does, as the pain of being pipped to the post in both senses will be even more damaging.

 

And for you, you need to ensure your circle are all vertebrates, granted 6 years is a long time, but what kind of neurotic outburst is that for a man to be showing at 27, she cheated. Tell him grab tinder and book a hotel for week, he'll be fine by next Friday.

[Sole]

he's invested a lot in her he has the right to feel like that tbf

just don't give up on him guide him back to the promised land.

[Wavant]

Support the lad. Poor guy.

These bloody London boys smh.

[The Infamous]

Support the lad. Poor guy.

These bloody London boys smh.

[Supermalt]

Pmsl

Wavant>

[Supermalt]

Pmsl

Wavant>

[Grafter]

Yes love does blind that badly

Someone said to me once if we all didnt turn fool through love a lot less people would be born

[Seydou]

Or if pull out game was strong