Girls and close male friends... and guys with close female friends

[prdx]

Got loadssssssss of female friends.Most of whom have never meet my chick.The reason being, i'm avoiding any uneccesary hassle.Plus i know best.But in other situations its always best to let your other half know wagwan etc.

c/s tbh... its not everything u kno is good to talk

[Grumpy Old Man]

Amen.

[Guest TimeBomb]

unacceptable in my eyes.

[Black Casper]

unacceptable in my eyes.

c/salways had this viewmy girl spending nuff time with her male friends...cant run

[Natalie]

I will not be second best.

[revs]

this is a tough oneyou got to have trust (depending on the girl obviously) or else this type of paranoid behaviour will run through all your relationships. Its easier said than done though. I guess age and maturity come into it a lot. If you are in your teens then you better know that late night study with the friend is bullshit. I really believe you can't be close friends with any member of the opposite sex that you wouldn't sleep with (given there was totally no repercussions at all). I have been on the receiving end of the overly aggressive handshakes (with the "I'm her BOYFRIEND" type vibe) a few times in regards to close female friends. I'm not one to break up relationships myself so i'm not THAT dude.

[Vtec]

I have two close male friends, one is part of the YMCA crew and one is a guy ive known a long time, he is like a big brother from another mother, we get on so well and he would be the first to f*ck sumone up if they did anything to hurt me in any way.

It's all and well... having a protective male friend (big brother like). But having a relationship with a man and him knowing that this dude is there and probably more so than he can ever be or match up too... Would make him feel a bit redundant, and cause major fricton.eg. you and ur man have a fall out over it, and you chose to go to your close male friend to confide and talk to in private about problems in your relationship... when you should be doing that with your man in the 1st place... Just cannot work... asking for trouble.No point in the man...being there, unless he is naive...

[Guest WAVE MACHINE]

I have two close male friends, one is part of the YMCA crew and one is a guy ive known a long time, he is like a big brother from another mother, we get on so well and he would be the first to f*ck sumone up if they did anything to hurt me in any way.

d*ck in a glass jar.

[LuLu]

I have two close male friends, one is part of the YMCA crew and one is a guy ive known a long time, he is like a big brother from another mother, we get on so well and he would be the first to f*ck sumone up if they did anything to hurt me in any way.

It's all and well... having a protective male friend (big brother like). But having a relationship with a man and him knowing that this dude is there and probably more so than he can ever be or match up too... Would make him feel a bit redundant, and cause major fricton.eg. you and ur man have a fall out over it, and you chose to go to your close male friend to confide and talk to in private about problems in your relationship... when you should be doing that with your man in the 1st place... Just cannot work... asking for trouble.No point in the man...being there, unless he is naive...

I see what your saying because it has caused arguements in the past with the ex because he didnt like it that i was friends with him but then again, he has female friends who i have met and not particular keen on but i didnt make him choose between us, i was not jealous in the slightest either.

[LuLu]

I have two close male friends, one is part of the YMCA crew and one is a guy ive known a long time, he is like a big brother from another mother, we get on so well and he would be the first to f*ck sumone up if they did anything to hurt me in any way.

d*ck in a glass jar.

behave yourself

[Colin Turnover]

I don't like.I don't have female friends.Any chick's house I go to SLASH any chick that visits me = sexual.

[Totty]

Don't care if my girl(don't have one at the mo) had male friends, as I have quite a few friends of the opposite sex(with benefits) myself, so it's really not a biggy for me.relationships are all about trust. if the trust ain't there it's not gonna work out i'm afraid.

[Fresh]

If I can't be introduced to, get to know, and get along with him also.Contact must cease.

[missBee]

i did not have a problem with my ex having friends who are girls really. if he wanted to be with them he would have but he wasnt. & if he decided to cheat i would know of it & it would be over. & it did end after he cheated with one lol. so maybe i should have given him an ultimatum... but he was my man not my child & it wasnt my place to guide him just trust him & i trusted him to be cleverer than that. i guess he wasnt worth it but life moves oni was more anxious about his best mate tho. the 2 of them were waaay too close & it was a rather unnatural friendship. im sure they have done something in the past... they were both a bit too female & gay uuurgh!

[Angelo]

Thinking you can tell when someone is cheating is futile.

[Black Casper]

If I can't be introduced to, get to know, and get along with him also.Contact must cease.

intorducing me to him is coolBut rolling like we are cool on a regular basis I wud feel like a stupid cause i dont know what the 2 are chatting about when im not around...my girl airing out our business/problems to him...he may feel that he could take my place some how and be hoping that me and my girl split up or something...so him developing some form of friendship with me will be a false frontThe dude may know so much about are relationship it wud be mad

[Angelo]

Immense C/S^^

[Viva_La_Vixen]

Contact must cease.

[Grafter]

if whoever it is, is a real friend they wont violatean they will have respect i.e not phonin at stupid arse times in the mornin or poppin round all unneccessaryits all about levels

[Black Casper]

if whoever it is, is a real friend they wont violatean they will have respect i.e not phonin at stupid arse times in the mornin or poppin round all unneccessaryits all about levels

Some girls male friends will try and violate, the girl will laugh and giggle (basically having it up) instead of cussing and ending the friendship then will try and hide the situation like say nothing happenedlevels means nothing to certain guys who have chicks (with boyfriends) as good friends...they feel they can get away with certain things cause they are 'good friends'

[Angelo]

if whoever it is, is a real friend they wont violatean they will have respect i.e not phonin at stupid arse times in the mornin or poppin round all unneccessaryits all about levels

Some girls male friends will try and violate, the girl will laugh and giggle (basically having it up) instead of cussing and ending the friendship then will try and hide the situation like say nothing happenedlevels means nothing to certain guys who have chicks (with boyfriends) as good friends...they feel they can get away with certain things cause they are 'good friends'

c/s

[Uncle Man]

Whether you are in a relationship or not please post your views/experiences... You are in a relationship just starting out or has been going a while etc... your Man or Girl, who has notably close friends of the opposite sex...Have you ever felt sidelined in a relationship as a result of this? or do you not mind and feel totally at ease (for arguments sake... your girl spending time her close male friend... in situations what you may consider should be an exclusive ting between you two alone...) ...

my sixth sense wud make me suspect that the situation is a danger tbhand either the friends wud be eliminated,or the relationship wud be compromised IMO

[Kaiser]

I dont befriend girls if I know there is a chanceWhy would I need a female friend apart from the possibility of fornication?

[Guest Van Der Wavy]

I dont befriend girls if I know there is a chanceWhy would I need a female friend apart from the possibility of fornication?

Try explain this to 1 girl about an hour ago...She's adamant she wants friendship even though I DUN told her the levels.However, she's still willing to hook up with me this week.

[Angelo]

Speaking of which.The link that got brave and who we stopped talking to each other contacted me again today."Can we start over again just as friends, and forget what happened in the past?"DING DING DING DING DINGAnother link back on line.