How Do You Feel About Your Partner Going Raving?

[Avon Barksdale]

Does it bother that they will be dancing with other man?Do you tell them to limit themselves to what they do?If you are not there do you ask people going to watch there actions?Or do you just tell them to lock off going raving?Females may also reply although you do not have to if you do not want to talk about your love life in the love and life forum same way people in the e.den do not have to talk about what they play on there console etc if they do no want to.

[NO SUNSHINE]

Lol I remember one guy in school who was a few months younger than his girl I think, so she used to go raving with other people who was old enough without him (he was still 17), and she is/was a proper flirty/loose broad and she would always be getting REALLY close to nexy guys in clubs, letting them rub up on her, kiss her on the cheek etc. Then I remember the guy asked me one time half-joking like "what did she get up to?" and I told him and he was joking like "Ha! Dancing's alright mate, you know just had to check" pretending he was joking but really I could see the pain in his eyes, it destroyed his soul to know.So no, I wouldn't let my partner go raving without me. Probably wouldn't go with her either. (If i had one).

[Kaiser]

Should let her know from day lol just lol at going ravin for a good time with the "girls"I dont wifey a chick who prefers to go ravin instead of a quite night innot compatible

[Michel Kane]

If she's my girl, she can do whatever, she likes. I don't own her. If I'm with her in that sense, then I'd trust my judgment enough to think ''She's a big girl, she loves me, she wouldn't do that''. Saying that, I don't expect her to be perfect either, like them Face Off/Real Talk, etc say, I'm get myself into a position where I'm not surprised.Basically, hope for the best, prepare for the worst.I'm psycho though, I'll give her that freedom in the hopes that she'd be so surprised about it, she'd be suspicious of me, thus limiting whatever bullshit she may get up to.

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

mike kane basically said it beside my girl dont like raving ironically

[SoCo KinG]

Wouldnt have none of it..i see how girls with boyfriends act with me ina club..talkin bout "i love my boyfriend" while tryna get wid me

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

when you got a girl that does this its common sense to have about 5 girls as links on the side anyway 1 of which has caught feelings and can be upgraded to the wifey the INSTANT ya wifey drops the innevitable "the baby aint yours" talkno im not even joking dont let things manifest just control sh*t the whole time

[Michel Kane]

Exactly, girls who think it's sensible to do this sh*t, green-light me to have several back-up plans, it's nothing. That's the reason I couldn't give 2 shits whether she was raving everyday.With every flyer she gets at the end of the night, the lower down the totem pole she goes.

[O.Man]

i don't really go raving so my girl wouldn't be goingbut wouldn't mind if she was a stripper at like a rave or stripclub actually that would be kind of sick - she can't be a whore though

[Heero Yuy]

Wouldn't mind her going out here and there, but never about wifeyin those chicks that rave every weekend without fail. Most chicks know when it gets serious they can't be doing that sh*t anyway...

[Dynamau5]

I go raving with my partner now thats love

[Supernova]

Ermits nto even a case of letting herfrom she wants to odo certain things,she shudnt be ur girl no more

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

thing is you can tell when a girl go raving what her intentions are.is she constantly the ring leader of the raving pack does the friend she goes raving with a lot have a rep?bare variables in it that can make you KNOW what she is about its not just down to her raving to be honest.however when she is CONSTANTLY a raver going weekly with new pics on face book at raves from every promoter from celebrity super all the way to mr play and get rich crew to be honest she is on par with video vixen for channel u mcs to be honest.no disrespect to them at all but they should NOT be made wifey until they grow up and get OUT of that way of life.just think about the lady chests of the world.by all means these women SHOULD go out there and have their fun but allow lettin them have the life of a decent wifey simultaneously when you give these women them luxuries all the while its them things that make them think its acceptable to act them same way when they are 35 years of age.and its NOT

[Michel Kane]

Put it this, if we were all on Vip2 v.14 and all of us are middle-aged with 2.4 children and this question was posed to my wife, then it would be every different answers.I don't know why young people treat adolescent/early adult relationships with 'marriage-like' rules, because to be fair to the girl, she's still young, like me. If my girlfriend ever tried to tell man, 'You're not going to Miami Spring Break'' the plainface would be of biblical proportions. Beyonce, has a point to an extent, because if you wanna get all possessive, 'put a ring on it'. Eddie said it too, 'You don't own me, I don't see no rings on this finger'. Obviously, you're not meant to take those statements 100% seriously, but it's real talk, your partner is there ON LEASE. Allow trying to negotiate & sh*t, going on like you own that house.

[Dynamau5]

U cant treat a 19 year old girlfriend like shes 40. basiclly

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

mike kane smashed it still and this is why i dont like putting rules on chicks ill just say what ill stand for etc i aint against a woman doing certain thing but i aint sticking around if i dont like it.but to be honest a lot of women WANT that wifey feeling cos of peer pressure women use this as a yard stick to assess their value compared to other women ALOT.

[Uncle Man]

Put it this, if we were all on Vip2 v.14 and all of us are middle-aged with 2.4 children and this question was posed to my wife, then it would be every different answers.I don't know why young people treat adolescent/early adult relationships with 'marriage-like' rules, because to be fair to the girl, she's still young, like me. If my girlfriend ever tried to tell man, 'You're not going to Miami Spring Break'' the plainface would be of biblical proportions. Beyonce, has a point to an extent, because if you wanna get all possessive, 'put a ring on it'. Eddie said it too, 'You don't own me, I don't see no rings on this finger'. Obviously, you're not meant to take those statements 100% seriously, but it's real talk, your partner is there ON LEASE. Allow trying to negotiate & sh*t, going on like you own that house.

have you ever been in a relationship though apparently not and wats the reason for this? perhaps because you enjoy yr freedom i would urge women who feel the same way to follow yr example

[Lieutenant]

If she's my girl, she can do whatever, she likes. I don't own her. If I'm with her in that sense, then I'd trust my judgment enough to think ''She's a big girl, she loves me, she wouldn't do that''. Saying that, I don't expect her to be perfect either, like them Face Off/Real Talk, etc say, I'm get myself into a position where I'm not surprised.

c/s this+She only goes out raving not even once a month but her best friend gigs in a lot of bars/clubs in central so she goes with her a lot but that's not a raving environment. So i'm cool with it, i understand that she's young and that's how she enjoys socialising with her friends sometimes so it's cool. As long as we have that understanding and no marks are overstepped we are cool.

[Messy]

i dont care tbh

[Michel Kane]

Put it this, if we were all on Vip2 v.14 and all of us are middle-aged with 2.4 children and this question was posed to my wife, then it would be every different answers.I don't know why young people treat adolescent/early adult relationships with 'marriage-like' rules, because to be fair to the girl, she's still young, like me. If my girlfriend ever tried to tell man, 'You're not going to Miami Spring Break'' the plainface would be of biblical proportions. Beyonce, has a point to an extent, because if you wanna get all possessive, 'put a ring on it'. Eddie said it too, 'You don't own me, I don't see no rings on this finger'. Obviously, you're not meant to take those statements 100% seriously, but it's real talk, your partner is there ON LEASE. Allow trying to negotiate & sh*t, going on like you own that house.

have you ever been in a relationship though apparently not and wats the reason for this? perhaps because you enjoy yr freedom i would urge women who feel the same way to follow yr example

I see what you mean, but I don't think it's a gender issue TBH, I think it's an issue for young adults in general. This is why we have middle-aged parents, paying mortgages & sh*t, trying to recreate teenages years, chasing thrills they should already caught in their 20's...All I'm saying is, if at 18-25, you're going to be in a relationship, at least recognize that both parties are still young and obviously you're going to want to do what young people do in general, in this case, go raving x amount of times.

[Taurus]

shes gonna have to go like this

[o-guy]

I dont wifey a chick who prefers to go ravin instead of a quite night innot compatible

4 the above reason ravin isn't really an issue

[Wavant]

C/S Kane, Face and Lahi.

[streets.]

If she's my girl, she can do whatever, she likes. I don't own her. If I'm with her in that sense, then I'd trust my judgment enough to think ''She's a big girl, she loves me, she wouldn't do that''. Saying that, I don't expect her to be perfect either, like them Face Off/Real Talk, etc say, I'm get myself into a position where I'm not surprised.Basically, hope for the best, prepare for the worst.I'm psycho though, I'll give her that freedom in the hopes that she'd be so surprised about it, she'd be suspicious of me, thus limiting whatever bullshit she may get up to.

basically the above, apart from I don't hope - I expect.

[VENOM]

if ur girl is going out on a regs no amt of blind trust is gonna save her from the dogs that exist out there. the only solution is that u dont mind cos u also go out and do ur thing, or ur just plain choopid. its not about freedom if shes out on a regs.what is she going out to find that she isnt supposed to already have with you? if all her friends are single then she needs new friends or u need a new girl